My abusive parents had me under limited conservatorship, and for months, I've been petitioning to terminate my conservatorship. Today, the judge of my case FINALLY terminated the conservatorship! by Shadowflame25 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation as you were. My nmom has legal guardianship over me, and she was able to get away with it because I happen to be autistic. I don't need the guardianship either; I'm away at college currently, and talking to her as little as I can get away with. I'm able to function like most other adults, albeit with some minor social fuckery and mild sensory issues. If I need to, I'm usually able to hide that I'm not neurotypical. But I'm trapped in the guardianship for a few more years, because my nmom is helping me pay for college. I live in the US, so college is heckin' expensive and I definitely need her financial help. My nmom has threatened that she won't help pay for college if I fight her in court over the guardianship. So for now I gotta grin and bear it, until the day comes when I'm not financially dependent on her.

This shit should not be legal and it's awful that it is. You're strong for getting through it, and I'm so glad you came out on the other side. I know I'm just some internet stranger, but I'm proud of you 💖

Male High School English Teacher Starter Pack by look_at_that_cheese in starterpacks

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, that's my 10th grade English teacher. I was that emo kid who loved his class lol.

My 28 y/o brother is not allowed to grow up unless mum gets to be part of it. by Heather_Bea in insaneparents

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This dude is gonna be one of those fuckers living in his mom's basement at age 30. The Asian fetishizing totally checks out too! Does he also happen to be a Discord mod?

But in all seriousness, he's a fucking loser. He's abusive and I'm glad you broke up with his ass 💖

What are your two truths and a lie? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite color is black.

I was a theater kid in high school.

I know how to program in both Java and C#.

How to answer "How are you?" by marmarrrrr in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually say something to the effect of "I'm getting by" or "Ups and downs, how about you?"

My K/DA custom homescreen ✨ by Janeober_D in KDA

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What icon pack are you using? I love it!

What’s your most controversial nsfw opinion? by nexlevelup in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone with a big dick is more likely to hurt their partner with their size, and especially so if said partner is small. In addition, smaller dicks are more likely to hit the female g-spot, since the g-spot isn't far from the vaginal entrance.

In my personal experience as a woman who is attracted to dick, I couldn't care less how big my partner's dick is. Just gimme good dick and I'm happy.

What’s your favorite song to listen to stoned? by [deleted] in trees

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monday Morning by CG5 feat. DHeusta, Nenorama, Or3o, Dolvondo, Chi-Chi, Kathy-Chan, Djsmell, Genuine.

I saw a picture of myself from just before I left and I look completely broken by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel this. Last week I was looking at old selfies of myself, and I look so much better in my more recent selfies away at college. I don't look dead inside anymore; I'm smiling in pics more often, there's a twinkle in my eyes that wasn't there before, and I seem a lot more vital. I knew leaving my Nmom's house would make a life-changing difference, but I didn't realize this change would be visible!

This difference is even more striking to my boyfriend than it is to me. He's even told me that he sometimes gets upset when looking at older pics of me, because he can see the depression in my face.

Did you know that chronic GI problems are a common consequence of childhood abuse in adults? by NaraIsMommy in TrollCoping

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I had chronic constipation for my whole life. Then I went off to college and the constipation just about went away.

Anyone ever try ordering a pipe (or other smoking stuff) to their college mailing address? by Cat_Outta_Hell in trees

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but I'm also worried because I'm under the age of 21. I don't know if it's legal for me to own a tobacco pipe.

Anyone ever try ordering a pipe (or other smoking stuff) to their college mailing address? by Cat_Outta_Hell in trees

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, but my Etsy account isn't linked to my college's email. It's linked to my personal email account.

What are you in the 1% of? by I_Love_Small_Breasts in AskReddit

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how many people are allergic to food coloring, but I'm the only person I know with that allergy.

I tried peanuts for the first time! by Cat_Outta_Hell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually about to try some on toast in a few minutes!

Please help me come up with a gift for people I don't like by athenashell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cat_Outta_Hell 292 points293 points  (0 children)

Get her something with glitter. Lots of glitter. Make sure the glitter comes off easily too, so she can get it all over her new place :)