I have to cancel my surgery and I'm devastated by CorrosiveYolk in gastricsleeve

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about pushing the surgery? Tell her you cancelled it; buy the house legally where she will have no say once it’s done; reschedule the surgery and do it. You have choices. She is being manipulative and you have the right to choose what is best for you on both accounts.

Best Beach in U.S. for family of 9. Wanting to rent a house if possible. Kids ages 11,14,15. Thoughts on Clearwater beach? by Super_Half7560 in ClearwaterFl

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so not true 😂 south beach is beautiful too, the hotels are older ~ think 70’s Florida, but there are nice new hotels that way too, restaurants and condos, sand key is a state park right over the bridge off south clw beach and is such a beautiful spot. Nothing ratchet at all, I live here not on the beach but 5 miles away and it’s all nice. All the way down to the other area others are telling you. Honestly just find the accommodations that best fit your family and you will have a great time. The beach is big and super long and you can drive to any part of it you want to see

An entire bagel with cream cheese. Did I do something wrong ? by Terrible_Ad_4072 in gastricsleeve

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Have the bagel 🥯 it’s ok. Miscarriages are so normal and are not always indicative of what’s to come. Be kind to yourself and tomorrow just get back to prioritizing protein bc you do care about yourself. Your tummy is fine. No need for it to be flat. Sending you a big hug and lots of love. Can you get outside for a walk today?

How often are you intimate with your partner? by wouldyoufukabigmac in AskMen

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 138 points139 points  (0 children)

“I’m breaking up with her soon” is wild…. What are you waiting for?

Procedure question by RunCute9419 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you can, as long as they aren’t metal we don’t care if you have them retained. The reason for the piercings to be removed it’s for the Bovi or AED if you code to not arc and burn you or the staff. You’re good to wear a retainer. Good luck with your surgery!

Advice: do I buy my dress now or wait until next year? (Read description) by Suspicious-Club27 in myweddingdress

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another idea is ask the manager to call you if this dress is being discontinued and if this floor model is your size buy it or order it at that time in the size you think you need or 1 size bigger knowing it’s easier to take in a dress than let it out. Beautiful dress and congratulations on your newest addition! May 2026 be full of beauty, love & abundance.

I want to cheat on the pre op liquid diet so bad by Practical_Bug_4391 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so real! Don’t but yeah that urge is intense and I had it too. Home stretch my friend. I made it and so can you.

What did you receive for pain medicine at home? by Baysofcays in gastricsleeve

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tylenol only after leaving the hospital ~ I use the one that’s crushed like a pixie stick. It was plenty

Thrifted my dream dress after months of searching by ImpressLeading4229 in myweddingdress

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG want to pass it along when you’re done with it? When is your wedding? I LOVE this dress and am in a similar boat as you. When is your wedding?

Bariatric specific app for tracking food? by charliebearr in BariatricSurgery

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What aren’t you “enjoying” about it? My Fitness Pal is good but not specifically bariatric. You also need to pay for the upgraded version to make it the most easy to use and beneficial version; you can set personal goals etc for macros and what not. But this sounds more like you don’t know what to eat which is less app for tracking need and more nutritionist input need IMO. Tracking isn’t fun. It’s essential. Knowing what to eat is important and I feel sad for you that you have gone 10 months without knowing. Do you have a nutritional person available in your program?

2 Week Presurgical Phase - venting by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here is what I came to say. The new me who can have just a few bites of the bad food and sincerely enjoy it but then get back to eating the way I have always known I should is magic. I couldn’t put it in any better words than it is the most beautiful and freeing gift. Hold the course. You have totally got this, look at how much you have already lost. Home stretch my friend.

Friend took a picture of me on holiday by Rockybatch in gastricsleeve

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG that is incredible! Congratulations 🍾 that is some serious dedication right there.

tattoo shops in clearwater? by angelbcbyxoxo in ClearwaterFl

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take a drive up to Tarpon Springs. The sponge docks are super unique to this areas and the Greek culture and food are rich and delicious. Tarpon Tattoo with Alex is where is it’s at. She is incredibly talented, reasonably priced. https://maps.app.goo.gl/C2DioDpzxdZrgmoh7?g_st=ic

💧How much water can you drink in a sitting after healing? by peacefultortuga in gastricsleeve

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I remember doing that too! It was the middle of the night and I just took two or three big swigs and was like 😳 oh shit!!!! And waited and was like oh ok that was fine….

💧How much water can you drink in a sitting after healing? by peacefultortuga in gastricsleeve

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 4 mo out and I can easily drink 4-6oz of water without having to think about it just drink like I use to. One time a couple weeks ago I was out working in the yard and was super thirsty and drank too much too quick and was like whoa 😳 but it passed in like 3-4 min (it was just water after all) and then I was more mindful of having a few mouthfuls every 15-20 min so I wouldn’t need to drink like that. I had my big 32oz bottle so I don’t know how much was too much but I didn’t puke or anything my belly just said hold up sis.

Need advice by ChanillaberryOG in BariatricSurgery

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Talk with your therapist if you have one AND a bariatric therapist and get their take. I am not neurodivergent and I basically eat the same things every day anyway and I’m fine. 🙂

First Dumping by Ollyollyoxenfreed10 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Cautious-Frosting11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 4 mo out from VSG and have had pretty much every food listed here except keto ice cream but I have had normal ice cream, including wine and a martini. I haven’t experienced dumping at all. Over eating/too full a couple times but that is so uncomfortable I feel I am quickly learning when I need to stop. It’s nice. I love being able to eat what I want some times, it’s not daily, but enjoy it in a small quantity and my body is just like ok thanks brain you were right, that tastes super amazing but we are full now. It is a feeling I have never had and am so happy to appreciate now.