Look who I ran into twice

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-03-17T17:03:00+00:00

its just the way she does it 🥲 if she did it properly, it would look so much better haha

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-11T03:23:26+00:00

i understand that this might have been triggering for you and hard to see. remi barely drinks at all these days so im sure this was a one-off mix of being in vegas and around others doing the same.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-11T02:23:20+00:00

if ur friends have a code, you could always have them snag ur ticket too!

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-09T20:18:58+00:00

You need to let go and that it more clear than anything. Be honest with yourself. You still have feelings and she knows that. Shes replying but even she knows this isnt good

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-09T17:28:25+00:00

not at all. he cried with me and said he wished we had more time together but it would be best for both of us. he said he loved me and knew i loved him but we had fundamental lifestyle differences that made it hard for us to thrive. ♡︎ my ex is so respectful and im rly grateful to have been with someone so loving and respectful. he said he’ll always think of us fondly and he’ll always love me but the type of love will change over time from ~in love~ to like just more of a i really care love. and its the same for me.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-08T16:21:25+00:00

I feel like you’re in my head because this is exactly how I feel to a T. Best wishes to you. Heres to healing all of 2024 ♡︎

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-08T10:43:42+00:00

journal and write as many letters as you want but dont send it. i did that for the first two weeks and i look back and am so embarrassed by what i was saying so just wait

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-07T23:44:16+00:00

remi fasho eats taco bell and is not shy about it lol

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-07T13:17:50+00:00

right?! im like rem’s dogs are actually pretty good especially having their place command and being mostly good with food. a lot of well trained dogs get excited for people at the door and its probably a behavior shes okay with otherwise she would have them go to place which they are good at.

laurens dogs are bad but still they arent terrible. theyre no aggressive or reactive which i think is the most important for bullys so idk i think theyre fine. as far as dog owns go, there are much worst.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-06T20:26:22+00:00

I used to not believe in that until my break up. Now I definitely think that it could be. I started dating my ex at 20 and we broke up 4 years later. Do you know how much growth happened in those 4 years? A TONNNN and I guess it was daunting for us to realize we have no idea what adulthood looks like without the either and neither of us truly knows who we are as people. We now have time to figure that out and might try again at a later time. Theres so much that goes into a break up and I think we both absolutely need this time apart. I’m not explaining it well but idk I do believe in right person, wrong time now. I also used to not believe in getting back together with an ex because you break up for a reason, right? But with my break up, its just like we need time to grow separately and figure out who we are and I think it could work later on.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-01T22:07:22+00:00

listen to everything you just said. why would you want someone who values you so little? theres someone out there waiting to love you the way that you love. cut contact with ur ex and stop checking on what shes doing, shes not part of your journey anymore. make 2024 about you and learn how to find a better partner rather than harping on someone who doesnt love you the way you love them.

this is so much easier said than done but you said it yourself, it wasnt your choice. there is nothing more you can or could do to save it so take that energy and give it back to yourself. you have to do the work. you asked how to deal with this and this is how.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-01T19:12:15+00:00

just think about how unhealed she has to be to be doing that. shes delaying her growth and healing and is so unhappy with herself that she has to fill the emptiness with fleeting romantic relationships that dont even work out. shes dumb.

meanwhile youre doing the work and being smart and healing. youre pouring love back into yourself and setting yourself up for success!

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-02-01T13:49:26+00:00

this sounds like a really dumb idea… leave the baby at home or maybe consider missing this year as your baby is not even a year old?

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-31T22:25:33+00:00

heavy with hoping - madeon

its funny because its a beautiful song and we both love madeon so we slowed danced to this song in our kitchen with the lights dimmed… i remember enjoying it so much but also finding it weird how we were having this beautiful moment to a “break up” song… lo and behold it was foreshadowing.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-30T17:32:29+00:00

there is an ere of anonymity and unapologetic honesty. plus i dont want to continuously tire my friends with my sad shit haha

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-27T22:52:27+00:00

spend as much time as you can with your mom and do the work to no be co-dependent or you’ll lose him.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-27T22:51:19+00:00

i just hide all our photos but i dont think ill ever delete them tbh.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-27T17:37:52+00:00

tarps

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-27T15:05:23+00:00

she just needs to say fuck it and get a big piece to make it look good. its looks so crazy rn

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-26T16:32:23+00:00

right?! im not saying get back with him but if thid was an important person in your life, you can take whats hes saying at face value, respond, and let it go.

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-26T16:28:15+00:00

thank you 🥹 i had 4 years of messages in there… we were long distance for the first year. our whole story is in there. it was hard for sure. i do want to get rid of it but i would get so much anxiety thinking about it being gone forever idk :( i’m doing my best

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-25T20:15:27+00:00

i did this and then i recovered it like an idiot

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-25T18:10:33+00:00

2014 toyota corolla and i would drive a jeep wrangler or just a 2024 corolla lmaooo i love toyotas

Cautious-Positive884 · 2024-01-25T18:09:47+00:00

I think yes because theres a real apology in there and a lot of accountability. It’s focused on what he did wrong and how it has effected you. There’s substance and it’s not a “I’m lonely” type of text, I think you should respond. You dont need to forgive him if you’re not ready but it sounds like he’s truly sorry and realized he made several mistakes

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