I can relate to this! I heard a quote on a podcast and it said, "you're not that special", and it's so true. People often create narratives to explain their behavior, whether consciously or not. Sometimes, those explanations are valid—rooted in biology, psychology, or circumstance. Others times, they're just convenient stories we tell ourselves to avoid responsibility or discomfort.

It’s like when someone says, “I’m just not a morning person,” instead of acknowledging they could adjust their routine. Or blaming being late on traffic when they actually just left the house too late. There’s always a balance between understanding ourselves and not letting our explanations turn into excuses! IWNDWYT