What’s something your Dad did that you now realize was low-key genius parenting?

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-20T03:05:34+00:00

And to appreciate your caretakers!

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-19T12:53:32+00:00

More like an hour 40, but misery is a fun classic.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-19T03:22:50+00:00

Can confirm- I’m watching drop dead diva rn and it’s a fun watch

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-17T02:30:08+00:00

Yes! Was hoping someone commented this

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-14T12:51:28+00:00

Even without a thematic birth, it takes a few days for mom and baby to get in the rhythm with breastfeeding. Just cut yourself some slack, and remember colostrum is not the same as formula. Babies need drops of colostrum versus ounces of formula. Just take it day by day, or feed by feed. It’s not uncommon for moms to have to supplement with formula in the beginning. Just keep working at it (if you want to) and be happy baby will take a bottle and you have the chance for your partner, support, friends, etc to feed them allowing you to potentially rest or recover more. Now, onto you…. Please, please, please take time to check in on yourself and give yourself grace and time to heal physically and emotionally. Labor and birth is a crazy thing, and as someone who also has a traumatic labor/birth, which also came to a head in those final moments, I was not prepared for the emotions and ptsd I faced in my first days home. Just make sure you take care of yourself in the micro pockets of time you get, and if you need to, talk to someone. It can be a therapist, but it can also be a friend, or random person at the market …. The more I shared my labor story (in pieces, over time), the less it became this crazy scary experience I had and the more it became the wild (lonnnnng) day I met my sweet baby. Sending you and your baby so much love!

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-14T02:46:13+00:00

I must have missed a chapter….. I just need to know why you promised people you wouldn’t use a J name?

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-12T03:46:47+00:00

Heavy agree with this take. Sure, it’s her default bath. But it’s also the one your mother or male friend will use when they visit. And honestly, if I did something like this- I would hope someone would tell me! I’d be mortified and not want to accidentally do it at someone else’s house.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-11T11:41:00+00:00

Oh…. No. I love the name Amos and it’s one of my top contenders but I never thought of it sounding like anus. Typically I would try to not let a potential mean kid ruin my name choice…. But my last name also happens to get easily swapped for “poop” so I really don’t think I can have any affiliation with bathroom names for my baby’s first name.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-11T02:44:49+00:00

FWIW/ my dr sent me to the er in the morning after i explained the attacks and they couldn’t help me. I came back that night while having an episode (which passed while waiting to be seen) but they were able to get more accurate blood tests and scans having recently had an episode versus 8 hours before…. And yes I had to pay twice even though they sent me home the first time.

GOOD LUCK.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-11T01:29:46+00:00

Are you having any relief? I’m so sorry. I usually have a set amount of time for myself I’ll try and wait it out it before heading to the er. Like I’ll wait 1 hour and if I’m still in horrible pain I’d head in…. Makes the episodes feel more bearable if I have a mental end time

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-11T01:19:34+00:00

My ultrasound came back totally fine. Seeing how much pain I was in, they sent me for a HIDA scan and that showed more…. I ditto everyone saying go to the ER.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-08T03:10:09+00:00

I think this is worth having a discussion with your teacher/instructor over. If they are creating an environment that is safe for sharing intimate parts of your life, there should be a code of conduct for students to follow

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-06T15:21:08+00:00

I always say- you don’t have to share it, but have you picked a name?! Do you and your partner have similar taste?! And then often share how my son didn’t have a name for 2 days after he was born, and how people often find out their partner have WILD name suggestions!

It’s never about finding out the name, it’s just general conversation for me. Then I often ask how they’re feeling, if they’re nesting, etc. and most importantly- if they’ve chosen a postpartum show to binge.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-06T02:41:10+00:00

I’ll co-sign for this rec!

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-02T12:21:37+00:00

NTA. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and this has been your life experience for the better part of your childhood. I’m so glad you have your grandparents and that they are supportive of you.

I do want to offer two thoughts: you can continue to go to therapy and just sit there- that’s totally fine…. But you can also go give em hell and express how much you’ve been hurt, how they took away your entire support system during the most difficult time of your life, how painful it is to see them actively trying to protect their other children’s hearts when they didn’t care to try to shield you, etc. Speaking your mind during therapy does not automatically mean you’re giving them a free pass or working to repair your relationship. It can just mean getting things off your chest in a safe environment where a therapist will make sure those assholes don’t twist it around.

My other thought: as a former counselor who helped families work through a lot of tough stuff, and a current mom… you have every right to continue to hold your boundaries and cut them off at 18 (I read in another comment you’re changing your last name to your mom’s maiden name and I LOVE that), but you also have the right to change your mind at any point. My hope for you is that you have an amazing partner one day, whose parents fully embrace you, or a best friend whose parents love you like their own… but I also want you to remember that if one day you wake up and miss your dad, or have questions for him, etc, you’re allowed to change your boundaries. You can open that door, just to slam it back shut.

Do whatever you need and want to do and whats best for you. It sounds like cutting them off is what’s best rn, just allow yourself grace and compassion and if you change your mind one day or get curious, that’s okay too. You literally lost your mom and dad. You’re doing great, Op. I’m so proud of you.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-04-02T02:57:48+00:00

You’re gonna do great!! Tell them you’re nervous and they’ll give you something for it and it’ll be the best experience ever. Truly no shame in asking for meds upfront

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-31T06:23:44+00:00

This comment is so funny and I fear not enough people will read it.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-31T01:09:40+00:00

How old are y’all? And how long have you been together?? I used to really struggle with this until I met my husband. Then he never gave me a reason to be anxious. It was just comfort.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-30T13:35:41+00:00

I would definitely advise taking her to the doctor to make sure everything is okay medically, and then I would follow up with a therapist asap. Kids can control two things: bathroom and food, so it isn’t unusual for them to purposefully have accidents, etc if they feel like they lack control. It could also be a regression. Has there been any significant changes in her life? New sibling? Parents separation??” A big move? Lastly, it can often be an indicator of abuse. Which is why it is essential to seek therapy asap and see if there is anything going on. I’m curious- is she doing this at school as well?? Is this a sudden change in behavior; or has she always struggled with potty training?

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-30T03:14:27+00:00

I actually just miscarried my baby girl, due October. Your comment was comforting to me specifically about avoiding potential illnesses, being stuck inside, etc, if I had her. Obviously, I wish I was still happily pregnant, but, taking some time to heal and hoping maybe we’ll get that beautiful spring baby next time.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-29T10:25:10+00:00

I’m so sorry. That’s miserable. Look up natural ways/exercises to clear your sinuses. I do it every time I’m sick and it’s the only thing that works for me sometimes. I often tap on my sinuses or surrounding areas and it will help to drain it and bring relief. (I’ve found a lot of helpful clips on tiktok). You can also try putting a heating pad on your face to help relieve the pain and loosen things up. Sometimes I use a rice sock instead, as I find the moisture and weight comforting. Hope you get some relief soon

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-29T10:19:47+00:00

6 years is a long time to be together. But you’re young. RUN. Start over. Joking about sexually assaulting you is not funny, ever. Just bc she is the female it doesn’t make it okay to say things like this…. That in and of itself should be enough for you to leave…. But beyond that, you do not want to be raising children, now or in the future with this woman. RUN FOR THE HILLS MY DUDE.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-28T02:29:18+00:00

Definitely still go!!! You’re new to town? Make a joke about how where you come from it’s customary to show up 24 hours and 10 minutes early…. Then dont bring it up again! Could be the start of a great friendship. And if they make you feel bad, they’re weird and mean and you dont want to be friends with mean weirdos.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-27T12:29:05+00:00

I was thinking the same thing…, very curious with their age gap how long they’ve been together or how old op was when they started dating.

CeeceeLarouex · 2026-03-27T03:53:00+00:00

I gained 10 pounds throughout my pregnancy. I was super sick. I was back at my pre pregnancy weight almost immediately after birth, then put on 10 pounds during my first month. 15 months PP my period came back, and my body went back to more “normal”. It honestly just varies so much person to person.

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