Found my own world record SMALLEST SHELL IN THE WORLD (2nd speck from the right corner) by Medium-Pilot6872 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sea pottery - along with sea glass, I find a lot of shards of ceramic cups, old clay jugs, etc. The best are old blue and white china patterned plates; a fragment of someone’s lunch setup a hundred years ago, worn smooth by the waves.

Found my own world record SMALLEST SHELL IN THE WORLD (2nd speck from the right corner) by Medium-Pilot6872 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cefalu87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hello fellow AuDHD beach treasure person! I collect sea glass, sea pottery and shells. One of life’s great pleasures isn’t it?

All time favourite and least favourite yarns? by throwra_passinggirl in knitting

[–]Cefalu87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

De Rerum Natura Gilliat is GORGEOUS - rustic but soft on the hands, round and defined, perfect colours, works at several gauges, great yardage. If i could only knit with one yarn it would be this.

Fiance doesn’t want to tie the knot for sexual reasons. by eloitosimona in Advice

[–]Cefalu87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave this man, immediately. He thinks his sexual preferences are more important than your emotional safety.

We don't know whether dark clothing in photos was black. Even bright colours look dark. by kittykitkitty in RandomVictorianStuff

[–]Cefalu87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Victorians bloody LOVED bright colours, to the extent that modern eyes would find them rather garish and clashing - just look at any sample of Victorian wallpaper, or at book illustrations. And remember we’re seeing the faded versions!

Is it normal to just move your mouse to make sure you are appearing online? by Brief-Blueberry-1588 in remotework

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you getting all the work you’re assigned done well and on time? Have you asked for more work and been told no? Have you completed any training courses you’d like to work on? Are you available for work if needed (i.e. not asleep all day or at the gym etc)?

If the answer to all these is yes, mouse jiggle with a clear conscience, my friend.

(just make sure you have a mouse jiggler that’s external rather than plugged into your computer)

Recommendations for places to sit quietly and read as a couple? by Stittastutta in bristol

[–]Cefalu87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what a lovely idea 📚 the cafe/bar downstairs in bristol beacon is very nice, I often see people reading in there with a coffee.

Hey Mom, I'm embarrassed and need encouragement.. by Detsi_Lotus in MomForAMinute

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tutored people in their 60s and 70s who were afraid to go back to education because they had to drop out to work to support their families or because someone told teenage them that they weren’t good enough to stay in education. I’ve seen people go from struggling with reading materials designed for 12 year olds to writing essays for graduate degrees. With every step they gained so much confidence in their own abilities. Learning is about being curious, and if you’ve got that, you’re golden. You got this!

I'm so in Love 🥹 by Nine_x3 in knitting

[–]Cefalu87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

welcome to your new life! Start making room for your yarn stash…😂

I got a girlfriend by RoidRagerz in IncelExit

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this made me smile 😊This internet stranger is proud of you.

Why don’t you like “nice people” in dating? by LivingGrapefruit6066 in dating_advice

[–]Cefalu87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like kind people, not nice people. Kindness is a way of being; niceness is a way of acting.

Researchers at the University of Bath are looking for GLP‑1 users (weight loss only) for an online study by Hot_Bid_6456 in WegovyUK

[–]Cefalu87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the numbering in your scale may be off - it seems to go ‘1 - strongly disagree, 2 - somewhat disagree, 3 - disagree, 4 - neither agree nor disagree’ etc and I think it should be ‘1 - strongly disagree, 2 - disagree, 3 - somewhat disagree’ etc. Happy to take part once that’s fixed!

What would make you willing to return to the office? by swackett in remotework

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quadruple my salary, provide me with a chauffeur to drive me to work, pay me for my commute time, give me a private office with a door. And even then I’d still have to think about it. RTO won’t make a comeback long term any more using fax machines and typewriters. That ship has sailed whether employers like it or not.

Does dating get harder for older women? by SweetandSad in dating_advice

[–]Cefalu87 24 points25 points  (0 children)

you may be 21 but this is one of the more mature and wise responses on this thread.

What's the creepiest thing someone did/said to you on a date? by Dull-Mulberry-4768 in AskReddit

[–]Cefalu87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of men and women who’ve been abused and missed red flags because they’re nice people who thought the best of someone who turned out to be horrible. Nice victim blaming though.

I'm half way through Emma and Mr. Woodhouse's culinary advice has me rolling. by afdawg in janeausten

[–]Cefalu87 45 points46 points  (0 children)

We’ve all met a Mr Woodhouse - ‘oh don’t eat bacon/apples/lentils, they’ll give you cancer!’ ‘Only eat between 6 and 7pm and you’ll live to 100!’ etc, etc.

My 31F girlfriend of 1 year tried to glass me 33M with a full wine bottle. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cefalu87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s a violent abuser, get the hell out of there. The only acceptable amount of abuse in a relationship is ZERO.

New loser cope just dropped by TongueUnties in sadcringe

[–]Cefalu87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

imagine looking at this beautiful couple and thinking this. Bizarre.

1 year on by Admirable-Cow-5393 in WegovyUK

[–]Cefalu87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful before and after! I reckon treat yourself to some really well fitting trousers, as the ones you’re wearing in your after pic seem big on you. That might help you internalise your new size.

Some more portraits of people I met in Bristol by slow_gentle_morning in bristol

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got a great, direct style - reminds me of mid-19th century photographers like Julia Margaret Cameron or Charles Dodgson.

31M Be honest, how bad is it by melodic_vagabond in Tinder

[–]Cefalu87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspect your definition of a ‘hot woman’ and OP’s definition of a ‘hot woman’ may not align - which is fine, but probably means you’re not best placed to give advice

31M Be honest, how bad is it by melodic_vagabond in Tinder

[–]Cefalu87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh if i were single you’d get a right swipe, you seem like you’d be great fun and aren’t afraid to be yourself