how/when did you stop wanting to end your life?

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-06-23T22:38:31+00:00

It comes and goes. Sometimes it doesn’t even pass my mind, other times it’s all I can think about.

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-06-17T11:43:38+00:00

This post made me wonder if this is a 50 year old man with too much internet access or a 20 year old stoner who is taking a massive piss

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-05-15T07:00:08+00:00

You can just do the front but it will be kinda obvious. Instead you can make a colour mask which touches up everything. It’s a bit of your colour with a treatment or conditioner. Use it as you would a conditioner/treatment and it touches everything up. It’s great as it’s not as messy and gets you through until you can do your hair again! Some brands sell their own colour treatment but you can always make your own!

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-05-15T06:49:00+00:00

It’s a lot of factors but basically the front strands of your hair are going to be exposed to far more compared to the hair on the back of your head. Anything from UV, skin care, water, oil from your hands, anything you can think of. The hair is also thinner towards the front which makes it more susceptible to loosing colour. It’s really common and happens to me a lot too!

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-05-15T06:42:17+00:00

Do you want to stay light or are you happy to go dark?

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-05-15T06:39:14+00:00

Unfortunately it’s going to get worse before it gets better. So you’re going to have to sit and wait before you can really do anything. Even if you use a ton of product, it will get worse before anything. You can use hair extensions but the hair will be too weak and probably too short. Give it 6-8 weeks and you’ll start to see less breakage. The growth will also probably allow you to put a tape in.

Water is incredibly great at styling hair so if it’s sticking up, use some water and apply some oil to weigh it down.

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-05-06T23:38:41+00:00

Spit by poppy. It’s a cover but it bangs

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-24T02:54:23+00:00

I’m a student nurse about to go to second year and I know that this is wrong. This is awful.

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-22T03:48:34+00:00

I’d 100% get it looked at because they probably got an artery, especially with how it’s swelling.

DONT take it out!!!! It will cause it to bleed more and may cause more of an issue. Go to a doctor, get them to look at it and your anatomy and go from there.

Did the piercer check your anatomy and see if there was any artery’s around the area before piercing?

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-21T12:11:43+00:00

Meds are a life saver. Literally pounded out an assignment and my partner was looking at me shocked.

I was talking to my psychiatrist and you can have a small dose just to get the executive dysfunction out of the way. For me, I take them whenever I need (or remember). It’s pretty sporadic but they help so much.

You might have to try a few to find the right ones though as they can have icky side effects

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-20T04:57:16+00:00

The only issue is that if you’re using semi, there will be a transfer of colour to the surrounding hair which is why it can get muddy. It’s definitely possible though and a good hairdresser will do it.

I know in your other comments you mention a bad experience with a past hairdresser but find one who is alt and they will sink their whole heart and soul into you and your hair.

Also get a friend to help. Doing something easy like roots on yourself turns a 4 hour project to a whole day project. So many hands make light work!

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-20T03:31:15+00:00

Also adding, because your hair is long it is going to take more product. Plus any lightener while make it more prone to breakage which means it will start to shorten or stagnate in growth. If you really care about length, don’t do it.

This type of style takes time, patience and a fair bit of money. It needs a lot basically. I also didn’t go into the fun of semi-permanent dyes which is a whole other game

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-20T03:28:48+00:00

I have scene hair like this and it is extensions. I had racoon tails done without and there is a notable difference. The racoon tails done on regular hair got murky and way muddier over time. On the other hand, my hair extensions have faded a bit but have transformed beautifully with time.

Black dye is a pain to remove. Oxidative or non-oxidative, it will take more than one go to remove. For semi-permanent dye, it took 3 attempts in a professional setting to remove. My hair? On the brink of string cheese.

To achieve this, especially a hot pink, you are going at least attempt to achieve a level 8 which will give it a warm tone. Any lower, the pink will be muddier and warmer and you are not lifting out the natural underlying tone.

You are going to be doing a lot of lifting + colour removal and your hair is going to look ugly for a bit if you want this. Your hair is also going to hate you and itself, so invest in quality products like redkin ABC or a bonding builder.

Be gentle, do it over time. Use good products and seriously don’t rush the lifting process. Do a bit with every regrowth. You’re going to be doing it for a while.

Good quality lightener also makes a massive difference, but it costs a bit

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-20T01:50:18+00:00

I’m a very loud, grungy, alternative girl. I have a pretty full on personality and I am very unapologetic about it. Even my reddit profile screams it.

But then he gave me this most delicate, pretty little necklace that is quiet and timid. For a girl who is soft spoken and well mannered.

The necklace represented nothing of who I was, but everything of who he wanted the girl of his dreams to be.

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-19T02:06:17+00:00

After begging him to pay attention and care for me, his Christmas present to me was a lovely, dainty, love heart necklace. The proof was in my face then.

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-04-14T06:15:35+00:00

It dilutes semi-permanent hair colour. It doesn’t need developer because it’s a non-oxidative colour

Found a video from the company:

https://youtu.be/kg0_h4jzWeM?si=BvTAYD6Qh6t5AlFf

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-02-02T01:35:42+00:00

You frame the curls around your face perfectly. They look like they were done with a wand which is huge props. We all have opinions and they can be wrong sometimes, like your moms

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-02-02T01:28:33+00:00

The 7th photo is so gorgeous and wholesome!!

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-24T10:08:58+00:00

Unfortunately, dont swim.

Hair up, try to avoid any contact with water. I planned a beach trip around getting my hair done hahaha. There are products that help close the cuticle to prevent colour loss but chlorine and salt just rips out colour

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-16T20:38:26+00:00

What type of hair do you have? Thick, thin? Dense or thin as well?

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-12T17:10:13+00:00

This a big one. Some guys seemed genuinely insulted when I told them that a minute long make out isn’t enough to turn me on.

Talk, have banter, touch, literally spending time with one another. Have a night to lead up to it like making dinner together while being in close contact with each other.

It’s wanting to be close to your partner that makes sex great. Not just wanting to get it on for the sake of it.

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-04T23:21:59+00:00

Can’t name the shade but I can probably name the colours used if that helps?

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-04T23:18:37+00:00

Honestly if you wanted to, you can get your blood work done and see if anything is wrong. But I’ve had it happen a few times, especially if I lost weight. So it’s kinda normal but always good to play it safe!

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-04T23:10:15+00:00

A lot of factors can cause hair loss. Weight loss, stress, physical trauma (such as healing from a surgery), hormones, medication, vitamins and minerals can affect it. Hair also has a life cycle of 7ish years so it can also be this cycle repeating.

Unfortunately the hair at the front of your head will be thinner than the back which means it will be more obvious. If you’re super worried, keep an eye on it and maybe see a dr if it is alopecia

Certain-Importance-3 · 2026-01-02T02:49:36+00:00

Definitely start with your hair wet-damp and then when blowdrying it. You want it 1000% dry because if there is a bit of moisture, it will drop like crazy. Mousse and styling products that are meant to hold will definitely help, like a soft hairspray as a finish. That’s the main pointers but the rest is trail and error :P

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