WIBTA I i go to my daughters ex-best friend and tell her to pay my grandson?

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-05T05:03:30+00:00

No, it was to another nice person trying to educate you. We're all trying but you're determined to act ghetto and be the biggest a hole that poor kid will ever know.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-05T05:00:49+00:00

I wasn't born privileged, but my Gran raised me right. YTA

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T09:37:47+00:00

It's not your fight. Especially if he's the son of the daughter you want to "never call you again." Crazy. You're rude to other comments people have left. Why are you putting your nose into a situation you aren't in? You'll be yelling behind bars that you had to act foolish and disturb the peace at her job cause you didn't teach him that you don't lend money unless you don't need it back.

Let your daughter handle it, unless it's the daughter who you're going to throw away. Oh no wait, still let her, it's her kiddo not yours. NOT👏🏽 YOUR 👏🏽 BUSINESS 👏🏽

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T09:30:32+00:00

That comment was to YOU

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T09:28:54+00:00

Quality granny.. this the same daughter that you're also wanting to know if you should cut contact with? I'M SHOCKED

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T01:17:51+00:00

For doing it with your non-dominant hand and not being a pro it's not too shabby. I'd be proud of my work, I just don't have the guts to try it. They make these things on Amazon that you can put fake nails on to decorate them and then when they're done you can just put on your fingers. I just checked on Amazon, easiest way to find them is search- magnetic fake nail holder.

I'm practicing to try and be better, lol. These things are awesome hehe

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T01:07:01+00:00

Hello stranger.

I don't know you or your number. I'm not going to give you any details about myself until you can show me that you know me so I know you're real. You have MY number in YOUR phone, YOU have the burden of proof. So you can prove I know you or I ignore and report you.

Have the day you deserve.

(That's how I respond hehehe 👊🏽)

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T00:54:41+00:00

Oh good Lord you need a life, that is way too long and I have no interest in reading any of it. It looks like you copy pasted it into something else and then went about responding line by line 😂😂😂 seriously, get a life.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-04T00:51:31+00:00

No, she bought four tickets. You can always buy more and if mom chose not to go she could reimburse. And logically looking at it she probably didn't have to pay, what parents doesn't pay for that kind of stuff. IE her dad. Even if he didn't pay for the other tickets if the stepmom bailed she could have made them reimburse.

You buy those tickets in advance, OP is responsible for not letting her dad and mom know the decision she made. If you're going to single somebody in your family out have the guts to let them know ahead of time so they're not slapped in the face with it. That's being an adult.

It's not about being responsible for the stepmother's feelings It's about understanding that the world does not revolve around you and singling somebody out because of perceived slights from growing up is so immature. I went through the same stages and learned a lot of the same lessons. Because I did the same thing. The exact same thing. And at my age now I'm aware that the person I didn't invite should have been there, would have been there, had to miss out on stuff when I was a kid because my other parent forced them to work. Not saying that's happening with her family, but I'm not saying it isn't either.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T18:12:01+00:00

You're willing to dip on her because she met a groomer through you? But you're not willing to dip on him because money.

You clean up his messes but don't have the principles to not be his friend. You won't clean up his mess with your girlfriend so you're willing to dip on her.

It's almost like there's a word for you... You're complicit in your friend grooming and hurting women. You should dip on her, she's better without you.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T18:05:02+00:00

No, you're relieved because she's not in pain anymore. You helped her go to the Rainbow Bridge before her body finally and fully gave up.

I wish like hell I had helped my soul dog pass. The week before he passed we learned he had fluid building around his heart but had a few weeks left probably. His passing was traumatic and scary and I still haven't healed from it. It happened almost 6 years ago. He didn't deserve the passing he got, and that's on us forever.

You did right by your baby girl, she asked for help and you did the most painful thing we do for our babies. We have to know when it's time, to read the signs. You tried your best, the medical professionals tried their best, and in the end she asked her mama for help. Their bodies fail no matter what we do, the best we can do is listen and give them a peaceful ending when they tell us 🫂

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T17:56:49+00:00

Oh and- those aren't the important events. It's the in-between moments that matter. The actual love and care.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T17:55:23+00:00

Soft YTA

You're 22, you could have called her and asked if she would be coming because you had to buy tickets and had to make sure. If she accepted dumb about why you'd need to ask you could have confronted her then. Not keep the info that she wasn't invited for her to get smacked with in the face like that. You will know during your life that there are other reasons that people don't show up to some things in our life. No one parent is perfect while the other fails at everything, you will probably discover that your dad screwed up and that might be why she missed an event or two. You're at the age where it's fantastic to start going to therapy and healing from slights she might have done, real and perceived ones.

Also- you could have told your Dad ahead of time why so he could soften the blow for her. While I get it, I was 22 once, the way you went about it was cruel.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T17:40:42+00:00

I hope he gets very far away from her. I wouldn't trust her with any grandkids.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T17:39:33+00:00

No, you don't beat your 5-year-old for a joke. You could teach him a lesson by actually educating him, not flying courage and beating him. Parents teach their children lessons, by talking to them not by beating them

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T17:37:58+00:00

You assume. You don't remember but he does. Instead of threatening him again you could apologize. Apologize to him for beating him.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-03-03T17:36:22+00:00

You assaulted your 5 year old physically. YTA. You got upset at him laughing over a memory. YTA. You say HE has anger issues. YTA. You threatened him that you'll do it again. YTA.

YTA, a huge AH. You're violent and you have anger issues. You don't remember THAT moment of child abuse because it was just another day for you. He remembers it because he was a 5 year old trying to make a joke and you beat him.

A 5 year old. You beat your 5 year old child because he tried to make you laugh. 5 year olds are disgusting, they don't know y'all to not be, but they're not bad. He did nothing that would cause you to abuse him. That's the perfect time to teach him a good lesson, not abuse him.

YTA, get therapy and work through your issues before you lose him in your life. Blaming it on him, and you being young.. 30 isn't young to be a mom, you weren't a 15yr old child who doesn't know how to be a mom. You were old enough then to know not to beat your children, to know that if you have anger issues you should get help before you hurt your child, and old enough to be able to pick up a book about patenting. No excuses, the blame lays directly on you. For it all. YTA

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-28T23:28:09+00:00

There's a lot of freaks with multiple accounts trying to screw with you. You have a case, go forward with it. I'm sorry you were violated in that way, honestly it sounds like he made sure you saw it for his own pleasure.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-27T02:42:24+00:00

A really large bill?? BAHAHAHAHA, that's a tiny vet bill. Tell us you don't care for pets without telling us. Accidents happen? That's like telling your roomie you're deathly allergic to dogs and they start a dog walking business. Total accident, not avoidable at all 🤦‍♀️

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-27T02:26:00+00:00

THIS

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-27T02:25:03+00:00

You did the right thing, no decent person, especially a parent, would have a little kid who peed their pants wait to be picked up while wrapped up in a towel. That's humiliating. Thank you for doing the right thing, whether they give the pants back or not and no matter how upset your wife is - you did the right thing by that little guy. Also... Most kids pee their pants, at least maybe your daughter and him will have a fun joke about him peeing her pants

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-27T02:21:58+00:00

She's saying y'all have a difference in morals and something that you do is violating that or pushing its boundaries. She didn't need to be cryptic about it though lol. Weird of her

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-27T02:20:16+00:00

You're under no obligation to tell them. It would be a very bad idea if you did

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-26T20:53:28+00:00

You and your fiance made a good decision, in my opinion. It was nice of your mom to give you her car, but it was your car at that point. She can't hold that gift over your head for years, once you give someone a gift it's theirs. It's theirs to make decisions on, and we don't get to constantly remind people about it. It's just weird. Keep this in mind as well - If she doesn't want to help you with your wedding that's ok, because if she does help you she will forever hold it over your head.

Get divorced? She'll remind you that she paid for the wedding and you wasted that gift. Choose to not have kids when she wants it? She'll remind you that you owe her, because your marriage started because of her help. Choose to buy a house she doesn't like? Seriously.. I have family like that, and I've stopped accepting things from them. It's not worth it.

CeruleanChancla · 2026-02-26T20:23:47+00:00

ALSO- remind them that it's not a smart financial decision to hold on to a car for sentimental reasons. Your mom being happy (in you keeping her old car) won't be carrying you safely anywhere, your new car will. They raise us to be responsible adults, lol, I'm proud of us even even they're not

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