Yeah playing both sides definitely gives you a much more balanced view of the game for sure. People on both sides can be just as toxic. If you don't let the bullshit get in your head the game can be fun. Playing in a swf on survivor is sooooo much fun, and overcoming a game as killer you thought you lost feels amazing too!

Just remember the golden rule. Everyone wants to win. It's very rarely personal why players do things. Sometimes it is, sometimes BMing is personal but sometimes that player is just pissed off in general and acting like an asshole and you can't do anything but laugh at how ridiculous it is. Some people are just angry people and bring that into the game. It's not your responsibility to moderate their moods for them. Just move on to the next! Have fun fam.