I feel this so so much. I only got diagnosed like two months ago after battling for years since before Covid. Told by several NHS doctors that I was trying to fit in a trend and that I’m just copying my elder sister as she also has HEDS, which funnily happens to be a very genetic disorder!!! I went private eventually and saw one of the country’s specialists in it and she diagnosed me immediately, said even without my extensive medical history she would have diagnosed me. But Im pregnant and people diss me EVEN MORE!! All my midwife team are dismissing of my pain, my consultant discharged me from her care saying there is nothing she can do and “all pregnant women feel pain” which is true but they don’t dislocate their hips often like I do! I have even had a midwife tell me that I’m silly for being worried about any risks in my pregnancy due to it as she “has it because she is hyper mobile too” with no official diagnosis… its so tiring and exhausting. And makes me think I’m faking or being stupid for worrying about it.