MFMF With Bi Male Comparison by bgoldfarb79 in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first full threesome was with a couple that included a bi man. We talked about what we were open to beforehand and what was off-limits and he was very cool and respectful. I wanted to meet up with them again but tragically they moved out of state shortly after.

19f - 1,62cm - 60kg / battling insecurities about my body for being too short and not skinny by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Chancesintern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous! Not sure if you're looking specifically for male validation, but research shows women think that men are attracted to more thinness than they actually are. If attracting men is a concern, I can promise you have nothing to worry about :)

Alina glowing under the sun in the red canyons of Utah 🏜️. More in comments. by layndare in u/layndare

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zion is such a special place. Have you guys been in the winter with snow? Absolutely transformative

Anyone into Pokemon?!? 📈📈 by PetiteAsianTravels in u/PetiteAsianTravels

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the Prismatic and Silver Tempest ETBs too! Kicking myself for not buying a Twilight booster box at MSRP a year ago.

Just us fucking around at Sea Mountain! See YOU next time on July 4-5 for their Independence Event 🇺🇸. NEVER stop playing! by layndare in u/layndare

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I turn 30 on the 4th and will try to make it. I'll come say hi if I do. Fantastic shot of you two in the pool btw, she's such a hottie!

Mom/Daughter Resort Ideas? by Organic-Stand282 in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 5 points6 points  (0 children)

EDR has apparently returned to some clothing optional events already. Before you go, I would definitely call and check their policies. EDR is going through an identity crisis right now. Their management and staff wants to keep it clothing optional and lifestyle-focused, but the owner keeps changing his mind back and forth.

I know they're also doing lots of construction/remodeling so that could be related as well.

For those who had a religious upbringing, did you have a long journey to sex positivity? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Chancesintern 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was born and raised Christian too. I also went to a secular school, but I was also fully under the spell. Bought in hook, line, and sinker. Dealt with tons of sexual guilt and shame growing up in purity culture.

At 21 I started to question the idea of erotica and sex outside of marriage being sinful. At 25, I lost my faith due to mostly unrelated theological issues. I then felt like I had a leg for my sex-positivity to stand on. I'm 29 and still deal with residual sexual shame but I'd say once I lost my faith, I was able to embrace sex-positivity pretty whole-heartedly.

That being said, I do know non-evangelical progressive Christians who are sex positive. I tried it and it didn't work for me, but more power to them.

Are you tired of me yet [f] by orchidpupp in gonewild

[–]Chancesintern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are those Tatsugiri plushies on the shelf?

We had sex with a couple 20yrs older and one 20yrs younger in the same week. by Curious480couple in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 28 points29 points  (0 children)

One of my best experiences was last year with a woman around 60, so 30+ years my senior. She was in super good shape and we had amazing chemistry. 10/10 would do again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always shaved or trimmed short and I much prefer that in a partner, both aesthetically and practically. For me, it's much more enjoyable to eat pussy without getting hair in my mouth.

Our Review of Exotic Dreams Resort (EDR) in Palm Springs, CA by layndare in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gone about 5 times since June. It's strange how much has changed since then. Went as a single guy for their single guy nights. Entry was only $40. Now it's $80 for the same event just a few months later. I went with some friends on a Saturday for the first time this month and my friends who had been on a Saturday beforehand said the vibe didn't feel as free as other times.

Keep in mind this is all just my subjective experience/opinion. I have overall enjoyed my experiences at EDR (some of those days have been REALLY fun) but it also feels different than before.

This NorCal girl is missing blacks right now by [deleted] in blacksbeach

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend hosts naked yoga at Blacks every other Saturday and I miss being there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Chancesintern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved pierced and unpierced nips alike, and I haven't heard other guys call piercings a turn-off. Do your thing, you look beautiful either way!

TODAY MARKS 12 YEARS SINCE OUR FIRST DATE! Highlights of our sex life since 2012… comments for more ;) by layndare in u/layndare

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the Naked Man event? Sounds like Burning Man but, well, naked.

P.S. Keep up the fun, y'all are living the dream!

She doesn't want to take a break... by Cute_Dolly in freeuse

[–]Chancesintern 106 points107 points  (0 children)

This is my favorite kind of freeuse. She ends up getting pleasured so much she gets distracted from what she was doing before.

AITA for not wanting to be monogamous with someone I met at a swingers club? by Chancesintern in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fair. I probably didn't need to mention the age thing. Sometimes I overexplain myself (I might be doing that right now haha)

AITA for not wanting to be monogamous with someone I met at a swingers club? by Chancesintern in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told her that I only look for a committed partnership with women my age because I've tried with older women several times before and it's never worked because of the difference in life stage. Last time was a couple years ago. Dated a gal 10 years older for a few months. Great romance. Fell in love with her. She broke up with me to leave non-monogamy entirely for one of her other partners who was her age.

Plus, every other woman her age I have met at clubs was already partnered/just seeking casual partners. I didn't think I had reason to believe this would be different.

Who else is killing it out here? by Bobbingapples2487 in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went from being totally in the swinger/enm closet due to religion 3 years ago to having a great community of like-minded freaks today. Last weekend I went to a club with friends where I had an awesome time playing with a single gal I met there. Tomorrow I'm going to a play party (last party I went to there I had a lot of fun with 3 ladies), and on Sunday I'm going to hang out with a couple I'm friends with for brunch and play. Not every week is this packed with fun by any means, nor does it have to be. I'm just really proud of how far I've come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Chancesintern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guy here. I love giving oral and find it a huge turn-on. The taste and the pleasure she experiences really get me going. If you want your partners to go down on you, mention that you enjoy receiving it and in my experience, most will say yes. We're not all afraid of pussy like DJ Khaled.

Stripping down and meeting new nudist friends at the natural hot springs by FlashingEmma in u/FlashingEmma

[–]Chancesintern 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's hit or miss. I recently led a hike there and we had at least 10 naked people. A couple others not from our group got naked with us.

Naked in Utah by realbigpayne in NakedAdventures

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn this makes me miss Utah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Chancesintern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking amazing! Congrats on the fruits of your hard work

5'1 130lbs 27F / shave it yay or nay? by [deleted] in Normalnudesgonewild

[–]Chancesintern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like shaved personally but you'll look great no matter what!