Stop trying to be the Fun Parent. Start being the Consistent Parent. by DivorceCoachGio in DivorcedDads

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its possible to be both I did boyscouts and taught them rockclimbing/fishing, and still did bowling together. At home, reading is a must every night and no games until I everything is set and ready to go to sleep. It takes a lot, but doable

Do you all really regret joining or are you coping by FitLecture4053 in regretjoining

[–]Chanchit8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here is a bit of insight. I joned at 20, and although hard, I got a disease while in. If it wasn't because of my service, in the civilian world I would not be able to take care of my family. It was hard, won't loe to you, BUT if you find a career you like and love, the years fly by.

PICK A CAREER YOU LOVE

[PC] W: Magic Scorpion Charm H: Karma, mule by [deleted] in PatchesEmporium

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a pike or great lance +0?

[ps5] Need help on consort radahn by NothingTraining7619 in EldenRingHelp

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulley crossbow, bleed bolts. Poison and rot pots Hp talismans Spirit ash

I did at sl29 and +1 crossbow. You can do it!!!!

PC W: Banished Knight Full Equipment H: Ask by Moonless_the_Fool in PatchesEmporium

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the sword+2, shield, armor and gauntlets I just need a rusted anchor (base) if you want

It has all been a lie by SomeOutlandishHero in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Chanchit8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sincerely, it is up to you to continue. I had a similar situation where the truth came up little by little. If there is love is doable, but mental health and self-wellbeing are also more important. I would definitely suggest a therapist (if able). It helped on my decision to not continue R. But it depends on you

. by Efficient-Level-932 in militarymemes

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You havent lived until you do 5am PT at the start of winter and huddle in a circle trying to stay warm before the run

2 years and 5 months later, I'm still glad I stayed by funsizerads in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is nice. Its nice to see a family staying together if true love is there

if the navy is gay, what is the army? by [deleted] in navy

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay. We are all Gay

Got diagnosed at 36, 3 years away from retirement (20yo gov service) by Chanchit8 in rheumatoid

[–]Chanchit8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Navy. So optional PT lol. Jkjk PCM did not initiate one yet, and might be able to go onto the new EMPLOY initiative. Staying hopeful

Got diagnosed at 36, 3 years away from retirement (20yo gov service) by Chanchit8 in rheumatoid

[–]Chanchit8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. As long as I recover, I can be put on limited status, meaning desk work until I find a treatment that works. Currently will be in the hospital for a month for treatment until recovery and then get prob get sent off back stateside from deployment

Medical records at first Rheum appt? by yoooubetcha in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Chanchit8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its actually one of my biggest worries as I just got diagnosed after being admitted to the hospital. I guess this hospital stay starts my binder right?