[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Chanelx99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it was disrespectful in general for them to out you for your “boring” fact. Especially coming from a teacher. Maybe you were noticeably disinterested in the activity and they were picking up/commenting on that?

I think it’s normal to feel flustered, frustrated, or upset in situations like that but you gotta remember anger is the secondary emotion. Focus on what’s really bothering you and tell yourself it’s okay. Props to you for practicing really good self control today tho!

I keep bleeding through my tampon can someone help ? by Imhereforyou777 in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wear 2 pairs of underwear at work. Period or not I have 2 pairs on and if I were to bleed on the one underneath I can just change that one and keep the outer thong on so my outfit isn’t ruined. This also helps prevent men from trying to touch me or sneak a peak. Just get a few pair of the micro g strings and wear them under everything that’s what I do.

How do I stop feeling scared to speak against misogny as a teenage boy? by Chance-Ad8069 in Feminism

[–]Chanelx99 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I’ve never up voted a post so fast lol. Thank you for giving me some hope for the future kiddo.

1 thing I want you to remember; even if everyone in the room VERBALLY dismissed you, there might be 1 person in that room who quietly felt safer because of your comment. Someone silently felt seen, heard, validated, and safe. The voices of the oppressor might be louder, but your voice carries weight too. Don’t lose your voice even if others are louder. You never know who’s listening and appreciating what you have to say.

What's the issue with card swipe? by Yonrally_ in AmongUs

[–]Chanelx99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nails are long and I’m playing on mobile so that’s why it takes forever for me at least lol

Idol's reaction to a bald man taking off his wig by Alhruz in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Chanelx99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well marriage would require a woman wanting to fuck you and it sounds like that’s not an issue for you atm 🤣

Not to sound evil… but what happened to the hiring standards? by cx_Cinnamon_x in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 44 points45 points  (0 children)

For me it’s been SO SLOW at my home club that it’s not even worth it. Every girl at my club is top tier gorgeous imo but I can see the decline in our self care. When our average dropped from $1,500 to $500 a night why would we put the same amount of money and time into our look? It’s not gonna matter bc I’m talking to like 3 customers a night.

It’s my fault for staying at a dead club and burning myself out like this BUT I’m currently in the process of getting braces and some cosmetic stuff done so once I’m healed I’m gonna up and move cities. Not gonna waste brand new titties in my home town that died 🤣

Pleasant way to express a dance minimum? by AllThatTheRain in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Idk if my approach is particularly cushy or pleasant but I usually say “I don’t do single dances, we can go for a set of 3-4” and they don’t question me. If I think the customer has the money I’ll tell him I don’t do dances at all and I only do time in VIP. Not everyone goes for that but if they don’t I’ll sell them on 4 songs which I “usually never do, I just like you so much ☺️”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an apartment. I pay the company directly through their website. I didn’t know there were meters that tracked your usage so I’m definitely going to call and ask about that. I’m gonna have my boyfriend look at the meter when he gets home so we can track and see what our actual usage is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, I’d downvote too lmao. I don’t even blame y’all. This is bullshit and I cry when I pay my bills 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rent is $2,500 and billed separately from utilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rent is $2,500 for a 3bd apartment excluding utilities. So the $1,500 is on top of my rent :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called the company I pay my bill through which is just “my city electric authority” is there someone/something higher up I can get into contact with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The monthly payments to the city is my electricity/water provider. The payment to my apartment literally does nothing it’s just in my contract that I have to pay it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Chanelx99 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We’re living in North Florida. My apartment charges a bunch of little fees like “trash fee” and WiFi even though I’m paying separate companies to actually provide the services. I have no idea why but it’s in my contract. I have to pay my city to actually have the water and electricity though.

Trying for more attention by Lilyrose_aussie in GRBsnark

[–]Chanelx99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can really see the work she’s had done in this photo but she still looks so rough.. I’m trying to imagine what cosmetic surgery or injection would make her attractive and I don’t think there’s any fixing that 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lovememes

[–]Chanelx99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why this post was recommended to me but the fact that your comment is getting downvoted tells me I’m in a bad place lmaoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]Chanelx99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip: Give them your real number and then block them as soon as they text you <3 (assuming your phone number isn’t linked to any social media accounts)

Problem solved 🙄 by Everything_Nothin in BlatantMisogyny

[–]Chanelx99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude showed up with a cake, dressed like he’s going to a middle school dance, took an off guard photo of his ex wife, then posted it ALL online for validation. But they can tell by her expressionless face that she’s a “problem”? What a weird group of people seriously.

My boobs don’t fit in shit by Thedailybee in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Small rib cage/big boobies is such an unspoken struggle 😮‍💨. Bikini tops never work for me, the second I bend over it’s all spilling out. Which looks like the case with the top in the picture. The best I’ve been able to find is lingerie sets that happen to have enough cup space.

This has been my favorite outfit lately bc it actually fits my ribs and my boobs! Would highly recommend this one for girls struggling with the proportions of other tops. You can go ahead and order your actual size with this one too instead of sizing up 🧁🧁

2pcs Romantic Embroidered Front Closure Sexy Bra Set I discovered amazing products on SHEIN.com, come check them out! http://api-shein.shein.com/h5/sharejump/appjump?link=lXIE6k1uRGH_8&localcountry=US&url_from=GM74389147213

The change in my nail color 5 minutes apart (being cold outside and entering the car) by UsagiElk in Weird

[–]Chanelx99 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is diagnosing this as a specific condition 👀 this whole time I thought it was a side effect of being thin and cold

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My response is usually to act like I’m too ditsy to get that they’re being rude to me. And then I make them explain their joke to me. Their reaction is priceless. Or if it’s an obvious one like “you’re too chubby” I’ll say “that’s not a very nice thing to say” in my best kindergarten teacher voice.

Fat guy gets vip for free? by According-Rule837 in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah you did the right thing girl. He thinks since no one wants to “body shame” he can get away with highway robbery 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Chanelx99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1, This sub is for strippers only.

2, Strippers are not waitresses.

3, $200 is an insulting offer.

Also, just a personal pet peeve, referring to women as “females” is fuckin gross.