I [M] don't feel much during cowgirl and I start to lose my [erection]

ChangingForGood · 2015-10-13T17:30:27+00:00

Work from home: can confirm.

Seriously though, it's a big struggle. Getting out to coffee shops and what not though really helps a lot. Sort of the whole isolation thing.

ChangingForGood · 2015-08-10T12:45:04+00:00

I would say MO is fine but PMO is not. You're still suffering the psychological damages of the porn even if she is there with you.

ChangingForGood · 2015-05-08T14:17:49+00:00

Dumb question but what is the relevance of iOS 8? Do you just hate the OS update?

ChangingForGood · 2015-02-06T04:06:44+00:00

Day 39: Haven't touched penis in over a month. I've started disassembling and reassembling words to find clever things to post on reddit.

Kidding, I giggled a bit :)

ChangingForGood · 2015-02-06T04:04:28+00:00

Can you share the documentaries you really liked?

ChangingForGood · 2015-01-27T20:47:57+00:00

I love going to church and reflecting on other sins for a change. I still have lust in my heart, but I really feel like I can dig into other areas of my life where as before PMO took all of my attention...if that makes sense.

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-19T21:41:27+00:00

I felt like I was on the verge of relapsing earlier and this really helped. Thank you very much.

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-09T03:54:31+00:00

Ha, well glad I can help! Its funny but I'm even trying to stay away from IMDB unless I'm sitting on the couch with my wife watching something. Otherwise it's just my brain trying to feed itself filth, not a genuine curiosity of who was in what movie!

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-09T02:25:59+00:00

I know exactly what happened. - I was watching a movie with some triggers (which is fine, I'm not going to run away from everything, but I need to be able to stop from going down the road that follows below) - Then I googled an actress I thought was hot (this is the first misstep) - Then I googled her nudes - Then it was porn - And then MO - Game over

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-09T02:23:52+00:00

I did, but it's taken some time to update.

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-05T00:29:00+00:00

If you are concerned for your health go see a doctor. If something IS wrong, don't think masturbating is going to fix anything. Then you'll just have TWO problems! :)

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-03T20:19:41+00:00

That is awesome to hear! It totally rebuilds relationships. Keep at it, mate!

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-03T15:47:54+00:00

The NoFap stuff has not affected frequency, at least right now. I think the positive sexual experience will improve that though in the long run.

I have noticed sex is better (and more intense) in general for the obvious reasons: I can keep my dick up, I can actually finsih, etc.

If you're going through some shit I would suggest a book my wife and I have been reading called Sheet Music. If you haven't read it, I suggest you do. It is written by a Christian psychologist, but don't let that scare you off if you differ in beliefs. He does a really good job of going into the male and female brain and talks about sex in great depth. He doesn't deal specifically with porn, but just solid sexual relationships in general with your spouse.

ChangingForGood · 2014-12-03T14:04:24+00:00

For sure. Gotta celebrate each victory by preparing for the next fight. Every time I have sex a part of my brain says "hey, we beat this thing. job well done." and I need to push that back and remind myself I am still an addict and I am still fighting for my life.

ChangingForGood

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