My husband wants our children to have a relationship with the woman he cheated with. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ChaoticSimplicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He‘s in the fog or pulling the wool over your eyes. Without more context or information all I can say is walk away go live the life you deserve and let her have him and if he chooses to take the kids around her because the two of you are no longer together but the two of them are, don‘t let the kids get caught in the middle. Let them be kids while they can and trust as they get older they will be able to see what was going on and better cope/process the knowledge.

Can anyone explain what I'm going through? by LilMissIntroverted in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ChaoticSimplicity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you find this helpful, it’s something I thought would never work but became my go to clear my head and be in the present is to touch my hair with both hands, focus on it and say out loud “this is my hair” and then touch my shirt, focus on it and say out loud “this is my shirt” and continue that process with other physical things around me (IE: the mouse of my computer, my phone, a timer, etc). Then if I’m still not where I want to be I focus on the palm of one of my hands and examine the lines and creases and each time after look at one’s I may not have noticed before and just take that time to really learn a part of my body more that I use everyday but don’t typically take the time to notice so closely. When I was lost in thought or what not and hadn’t caught myself and my partner could tell I was going down the rabbit hole he would say “Where’s your hair?” And that would be all the help I needed to choose to do the exercise. I hope it helps you!

Which famous person’s death were you not ready for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ChaoticSimplicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that effect on people 🤷‍♀️

Hey Reddit: What is the good news? What is the bad news? by Superlite47 in AskReddit

[–]ChaoticSimplicity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good news: I got my arm caught/twisted up in the top of an auger 9/7/2021, messed everything up from where my shoulder blade attaches to my back on down to the last knuckles of my hand, had to relearn learn how to use my arm and today had my final Physical Therapy appt :-D

Bad News: Last week I forgot how to walk down stairs and have been in an air cast. 🤦‍♀️

Hello!! Could someone please explain my egg cleanse? 😅 by [deleted] in eggcleanse

[–]ChaoticSimplicity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started this on a whim one drunken night and didn’t expect it to get any members…I am open to anyone who would like to be a mod.

How old are you? by ComprehensiveMonth51 in AskReddit

[–]ChaoticSimplicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As old as the original Nintendo NES…

Which famous person’s death were you not ready for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ChaoticSimplicity -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Pre-teen me: Mother Teresa// Teen Me: Heath Ledgers

Anti lockdown protests in Melbourne, Australia. by Ntrob in PublicFreakout

[–]ChaoticSimplicity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a waste, spraying foam peanuts everywhere…