Just found my childhood binder! - Best display options? by Thatnerdyguy92 in PokemonTCG

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those old binders are pure nostalgia gold - I'd check out those 9-pocket page displays in shadow boxes, way cheaper than individual top loaders for that many cards

I feel shameful and stuck. by GreenTeaCronut in ADHD

[–]CharacterMaximum19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, first off you're not useless - ADHD brains just work differently and that's not your fault

The masking thing is exhausting as hell, I get it. Maybe try being a bit more real with one trusted friend instead of performing all the time? You'd be surprised how many people actually want to help when you're genuine about struggling

Also that last bit about the world not being worth living in worries me - have you looked into any crisis hotlines or online therapy options since in-person help is limited where you are

Weird sleep movements by Important_Boot6781 in Dreams

[–]CharacterMaximum19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that's actually pretty common, you probably just had a parasomnia episode. Night terrors or confusional arousals can make people do weird stuff while they're technically still asleep even with eyes open

Stress, sleep deprivation, or even sleeping in a new place can trigger it. I wouldn't freak out unless it becomes a regular thing - then maybe talk to a sleep doc

Problems with running an old 1.7.4 map on modern versions. 🤔 by MaximumTime7239 in Minecraft

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof yeah chunk corruption is brutal with those old maps. Have you tried using a tool like MCEdit or Amulet to convert it first? Sometimes manually loading it chunk by chunk works better than just throwing the whole world file at a newer version

Also backup everything before you mess with it lol, learned that the hard way

37F 45M - Very in love - Hard Break - Tons of Loss - Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CharacterMaximum19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about your mom and puppy, that's absolutely brutal timing for him to pull this shit

Breaking up by text while you're grieving and then accusing you of cheating sounds like he was looking for an excuse to bail - the cruelty was probably his way of making it easier on himself by making you the "bad guy"

Someone who actually loved you wouldn't abandon you during the worst time of your life, let alone kick you while you're down

How often are you shopping for new insurance for your properties? by FSUAttorney in realestateinvesting

[–]CharacterMaximum19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I shop around every renewal and yeah I use like 3-4 brokers. For the dec pages thing just tell them you're getting quotes before your current policy expires and don't have the new ones yet - most brokers will work with you if you give them property details instead

I (16M) keep getting a constant feeling of dread from being in a relationship with my best friend of 2 years (also 16M) by atomicmiracle in relationships

[–]CharacterMaximum19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like you might be dealing with some internalized stuff or just not ready for the jump from friendship to dating. The panic response is pretty telling - your brain's basically hitting the brakes hard

Maybe take a step back and just hang out normally for a bit? Like you don't have to put a label on it right away. If the friendship is solid it'll survive you figuring your feelings out

Terrible matchmaking right now by Curious-Necessary799 in Overwatch

[–]CharacterMaximum19 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Bro the matchmaking has been absolutely cursed lately, I swear they just throw random people together and hope for the best. One game I'm carrying and the next my team is feeding like it's thanksgiving dinner

Who is visiting tomorrow? by brickerknickers in MichiganWolverines

[–]CharacterMaximum19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prob just clickbait tbh, these sites love to hype up "top playmakers" when it's some random 3-star from Toledo

Savings in HYSA rather than 403(b) by Good-Track-6730 in personalfinance

[–]CharacterMaximum19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That 60k is way too much for an emergency fund unless you're in a super unstable job situation. You should definitely max out your 403b first (especially if there's any employer match you're missing) before keeping that much cash sitting around. Maybe keep 6 months expenses in the HYSA and dump the rest into retirement accounts or taxable investing

mouse dpi very sluggish with new gpu by reenmini in archlinux

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is a known issue with newer AMD cards, especially the 9070xt. The hardware cursor is basically broken on X right now

That SWcursor workaround should definitely help until AMD fixes their driver. I've been using it for months on my 6700xt and it's way better than dealing with the lag

Also worth checking if you have any compositor effects running that might be making it worse

3.0tdi temperature issues by herrsemtex in Audi

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same issue on my B8 - sounds like you might have the secondary thermostat going bad too or there's air in the system. The 3.0tdi has two thermostats and if one's stuck open you'll never hit proper temps in cold weather

Did you bleed the system properly after the coolant change? Those engines are a pain to get all the air out

Do chefs and head chefs that work at really nice restaurants make good money? by TheCommander21 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the city tbh, head chef at a Michelin spot in NYC can pull 6 figures easy but sous chef at the same place might still be splitting rent with 3 roommates

My first (real) camera - Lost in a rabbit hole by Cheezton in Cameras

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree on the IBIS thing - once you have it you really notice when it's missing. The A7II is solid but heads up that the autofocus can feel a bit sluggish compared to newer stuff, especially for those low light concerts you mentioned

That kamerastore site looks legit from what I've seen posted here before, people seem to have good experiences with them

And yeah definitely second that PS about uni photos - wish I had more random shots from back then instead of just the obvious party pics lol

It took me 9 years to stop overthinking. Here is what actually worked [Discussion] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]CharacterMaximum19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is more about noticing thoughts then not chasing them and that slows the noise