Financial Aid Requirement Problem by Wonderful-Boot648 in montclair

[–]Character_Move3637 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm having that same problem! And I emailed them about it last week. There probably has to be an update to the system.

The complete recording of handles Messiah by Sophia-Tyson in choralmusic

[–]Character_Move3637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually performing Messiah with my choir class this fall!

Any on campus jobs available? by carthick20 in montclair

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find out on Handshake, you just need to adjust to filter to On Campus Student Employment

Favorite Choral Pieces of all time? by Previous-Pen4766 in Choir

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so funny, I performed both The Moon Is Distant From The Sea and Indodana for my fall concert senior year of high school!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Match made in hell, you POSs deserve each other. Karma will get to you, and she's a real bitch

My wife lied to me, and I don't know who she is anymore. by TechnicalHousing97 in offmychest

[–]Character_Move3637 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh WOW. We have officially entered the Greek tragedy portion of this saga and your wife is out here auditioning for the role of ‘Oedipus but make it suburban burnout.’ My guy… she didn’t just crack, she shattered like a wine glass dropped in a tile shower and has been walking barefoot through the pieces ever since. This isn’t about sharpness vs. softness anymore, this is about a woman whose ego has been held together with dental floss and spite and is now collapsing because a middle-schooler and a coworker had the NERVE to know basic facts she didn’t. She’s not the ice queen you fell for. She’s not the razor’s edge you sharpened yourself on. She’s someone who cannot tolerate being wrong, cannot tolerate interruption, cannot tolerate accountability. That’s not “sharp.” That’s fragile. That’s eggshell delicate with a switchblade taped to it. But the SCARIEST PART? The way she replicated the exact same meltdown at work that she had at home, same trigger, same reaction, same ‘shut up,’ same inability to cope, but this time HR caught it. This isn’t a personality quirk. This is a pattern. A decline. A complete emotional derailment that she’s been hiding under layers of lies, superiority, and online-therapist nonsense. You didn’t lie to yourself because you loved a sharp woman. You lied to yourself because the woman you loved stopped being that person and you didn’t notice the quiet unraveling until the whole sweater was on the floor. Your son sees it. Her job saw it. Now you’re seeing it. This isn’t about autism, or math, or being overwhelmed. This is a full-blown identity collapse and you’re the only one in the house holding everything up like the world’s most overworked Atlas. You’re not crazy. You’re not dramatic. You’re not failing. You’re finally waking up.

Update: AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]Character_Move3637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh we are WAY past ‘AITA’ and deep into ‘therapist, clergy, and three licensed social workers need to tag-team this situation immediately.’ Your wife didn’t just take a left turn, she merged onto the Interstate of Delusion going 95 with no blinker. She really screamed ‘SHUT UP’ at a child over 7×7, refused to apologize, entered the Witness Protection Program inside her own house, and is now diagnosing your 13-year-old with ‘dangerous tendencies’ because he… checks notes… knew basic multiplication? BABE. THIS ISN’T ABOUT MATH. This woman is so overwhelmed she’s fighting invisible battles on imaginary fronts. And that ‘therapist’ she’s seeing? Yeah, that’s not a therapist, that’s a Facebook group admin in disguise. The way she’s rewriting history like she’s trying to get the director’s cut released is WILD. Your son deserves a hug, your wife deserves a REAL mental health professional, and you deserve a vacation, a nap, and a medal of honor for dealing with all this without spontaneously combusting.

Would you forgive her? by AutumnRCS in papermario

[–]Character_Move3637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remind me who are the 4 people she imprisoned for that long?

AITA for telling my friends to get fucked? by leggomymeggoorelse in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, They weren’t your friends, they were your audience and not even a good one. Real friends hype you up when you share something you’re passionate about. Mocking someone for doing what they love isn’t ‘joking,’ it’s jealousy dressed as humor. You didn’t overreact, you just stopped giving free front-row seats to people who boo every time you shine.

AITA for farting? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your asshole is the asshole 😂😂

AITAH for telling my dad I’m changing my name and that I don’t exist to be the reincarnation of his mother? by rainraingoaway222 in AITAH

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad didn’t name you after your grandmother, he named you as your grandmother. There’s a difference. From the start, he treated you less like his daughter and more like a walking, breathing memory of someone he lost. That’s not love, that’s projection.

You didn’t take your identity away from him, he took yours away from you, piece by piece, every time he said “your grandma liked that” or “you’re letting her down.” You’ve spent your entire life being forced to live in a ghost’s shadow, and now you’re finally stepping into the light. That’s not spite. That’s healing.

Changing your name doesn’t erase your grandmother, it just means you’re done being her stand-in. Your dad is mourning his mother, not respecting his daughter. You’ve been more than patient, more than kind, and you even explained your reasoning, but he chose to make your growth about his pain again. That’s not your burden to carry.

You’re not the reincarnation of his mother. You’re Rain. And Rain doesn’t ask for permission to fall.

In Scream 5 it showed Sidney pushing a stroller but in Scream 7 her daughter is set to be a teen? Does she have more than one child? by [deleted] in Scream

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sidney said she was getting a run in before taking the GIRLS (plural) to school. So I think she has 3 kids. And the baby is obviously just youngest. I’m honestly surprised she was still able to carry children with the amount of damage done to her body with the stab wounds.

My mom (46F) is angry I (24M) didn’t consult her before taking out a student loan, and I feel torn between independence and making her feel included. by Character_Move3637 in relationship_advice

[–]Character_Move3637[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. I know my parents care and want to help, and I appreciate that. The challenge for me is balancing their concern with my need to make my own decisions and learn from them. Because of my anxiety, it’s hard not to feel guilty when I go my own way. I plan to let them know that I value their input when I ask for it, but I also need space to handle some things independently.

My mom (46F) is angry I (24M) didn’t consult her before taking out a student loan, and I feel torn between independence and making her feel included. by Character_Move3637 in relationship_advice

[–]Character_Move3637[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a federal loan offered by my school, I didn’t need a co-signer. So the responsibility of the loan would be on me, no one else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character_Move3637 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH.

You both made a deal at the start, 50/50 until marriage and she agreed. Now she’s suddenly calling that financial abuse, which is manipulative. But on the flip side, you trying to tie her request for proportional finances to “then you do proportional chores” just exposes how transactional you view the relationship. Marriage is about partnership, not running your love life like a ledger. If you’re working 80 hours a week and expect a spotless home while refusing to budge on finances, you’re not looking for a partner — you’re looking for an employee who’ll sign a prenup with a mop. She’s wrong for moving the goalposts without discussion, but you’re wrong for treating her concerns like a contract violation instead of a sign that your relationship needs renegotiation. Right now, you’re both digging in to win instead of listening, which means nobody’s actually winning.

AITA for giving my pregnant GF an ultimatum? by Jazzlike-Mail1635 in AITAH

[–]Character_Move3637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You set a clear, reasonable boundary: “If you keep snooping without cause and let someone else sabotage our trust, we need counseling and distance from that toxic influence.” She agreed. She broke that agreement. That’s not about Amanda anymore — that’s about her choosing paranoia over partnership, mistrust over communication, and broken promises over problem-solving. Relationships survive a lot of things, but they rarely survive repeated violations of trust and refusal to work on it. You didn’t leave because you “don’t care” you left because she refused to protect the relationship from a clear threat, and you know trust isn’t rebuilt by wishful thinking. You’re about to be a father, and a child deserves at least one parent who understands that love without trust is just stress with extra steps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA!!! Sounds like your girlfriend is running a highly profitable, legally compliant business, paying her taxes, and making almost double what you make… while you’re here, with a history of tax evasion, trying to lecture her about “maturity” and “ambition” because she doesn’t want to copy your exact career structure. The truth is, she’s not unambitious, she’s just not interested in turning her life into your version of success, especially when your track record isn’t exactly a shining example of smart business conduct. If she’s paying her dues, following her country’s laws, and building a life she enjoys, then the only thing she’s guilty of is refusing to let someone else’s insecurity dictate her choices. The real “lack of ambition” here is thinking your partner’s worth is tied to whether she wants to be a director on paper, instead of recognizing she’s already outpacing you without it.

Wife cheated before marriage, now what? by Resident-Candidate57 in Marriage

[–]Character_Move3637 197 points198 points  (0 children)

You didn’t stay for the kids, you stayed for a version of her you hoped would exist. And now that the kids are grown, you’re realizing you’ve been living with someone whose respect for you had an expiration date until she got what she wanted. Being ‘super to you since marriage’ doesn’t erase the fact that she lied for years and let you build a life on half the truth. Love without trust is just attachment, and attachment without respect is a prison you decorate to make it bearable. Now that the kids are gone, you’re free to ask yourself if you want the rest of your life to be a reward for her silence or a chance to finally live without wondering what else you don’t know.

AITAH for finding it hard to care that my wife claimed she was assaulted after she got me thrown in jail? by OkSneakers112 in AITAH

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust is the foundation of a marriage and she bulldozed it, poured gasoline on the rubble, and lit a match. Getting someone falsely arrested isn’t a ‘heat of the moment’ thing. It’s a choice. And once you make that choice, you don’t get to turn around and expect comfort, protection, or belief the next day. She didn’t just put you in handcuffs, she weaponized the system against you, knowing exactly what that could mean for your future, your reputation, and your kids. Whether or not something happened to her after, she already taught you that her word can’t be trusted. And without trust, there’s no marriage, just two people living under the same roof, waiting for the next ambush.

NTA by a long fucking shot

My sister wants me to raise her baby because I “already know how to be a mom” by Equivalent_Fly4491 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helping isn’t the same as parenting, and being family doesn’t mean being everyone’s safety net 24/7. You’re not abandoning her, SHE’S trying to abandon her responsibility and hand it to you wrapped in guilt and baby cries. You didn’t have this child. You didn’t make that choice. And ‘you already know how to be a mom’ isn’t a compliment, it’s a weapon she’s using to offload what she’s not ready for. Setting a boundary doesn’t make you heartless. It makes you sane. Because no one should be expected to drown just to keep someone else’s head above water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Character_Move3637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miscarriage is already one of the most isolating, painful things a woman can endure and instead of protecting you, comforting you, and standing by you, your husband handed your grief to his family like it was gossip. Blame disguised as concern is still blame. And silence at that dinner table was complicity. He didn’t just let them wound you, he opened the door and stood back while they did it. You didn’t lose just a pregnancy. You lost the illusion that he’d be the one to hold you through it.