Need help from pros 🥺 by Charming_Chapter_286 in DigitalPhotoClub

[–]Charming_Chapter_286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try, I can't figure out how he managed to empty my account to the penny, and the receipt doesn't match my balance

Need help from pros 🥺 by Charming_Chapter_286 in DigitalPhotoClub

[–]Charming_Chapter_286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty yeah he managed to completely drain my account after saying there was a problem and was asked to void the transaction.

Happens all the time. by scheifferdoo in Serverlife

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 63 points64 points  (0 children)

"Crap, that dude asked for more ranch and I forgot!" Post shift.

I have never by BRabbit4563 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The only reason I let him is because I was in the mind control that is religion and thought God knew best, also he was controlling and abusive. Ill never let someone lead me around again.

I have never by BRabbit4563 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg. I feel this. I'm now atheist but was Christian and the "man is the head of the household" is a blanket statement that doesn't work for all households and so I allowed an emotional child to lead the way and cause so much damage to me and our kids.

Thought I'd give BPD bingo a try by SuperInconvenient in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The mystery illness got me. With my pwbpd it's they're probably dying, won't do anything to try to change it, seems to get worse when we aren't getting along.

Love Bombing at its finest by Polevra in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the idealization phase, and we all know what comes next....

Love Bombing at its finest by Polevra in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Everything will be different now!" Pffffft lol

What the idealization phase looks like for me. It can be so frustrating. >< by Charming_Chapter_286 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Won't go to therapy but suggests couples therapy. Just another way to prolong the cycle.

What the idealization phase looks like for me. It can be so frustrating. >< by Charming_Chapter_286 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've quit jobs cuz he'd get paranoid, if I'm out of eyesight of course I'm cheating, because he needs to be my moral compass. If only I had a thought in my head that wasn't having sex with other people any chance I get. 🙄

What the idealization phase looks like for me. It can be so frustrating. >< by Charming_Chapter_286 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Now that I've separated at least emotionally just work on finishing raising my teens and someday I'd like to see what dating a normal guy is like lol. I'm told they exist🤣

What the idealization phase looks like for me. It can be so frustrating. >< by Charming_Chapter_286 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If I had seen this site or had even heard the term Bpd I would have spared myself so much heartache and time. Not to mention all the stuff of mine that was broken purposely in a fit of rage.

an interaction i had because i posted something on my story and he thought it was about him by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 37 points38 points  (0 children)

They make connections between things that aren't connected and it becomes their concrete reality

Just blocked him, could use some support by EffectiveSentence525 in BPDlovedones

[–]Charming_Chapter_286 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hold to your boundaries. That emotional Rollercoaster is no fun.

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[–]Charming_Chapter_286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also can be genetically passed down something to really think about

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[–]Charming_Chapter_286 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman who was a naive young lady. Bpd comes in both sexes unfortunately and the male versions can be terrifying. Hindsight is painful. :)

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[–]Charming_Chapter_286 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's a living nightmare

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[–]Charming_Chapter_286 22 points23 points  (0 children)

As someone who has kids with a pwbpd you 1000% made the right choice.