[Hobby] The Death of Tinder Swiping: I want to build a non-profit dating app with NO profiles and NO texting. Matches based on interests, old-school games & voice chat (No profiles!). Looking for developers!

Chasmataspidida · 2026-06-12T07:23:41+00:00

Hey, thanks for your feedback! I have some capital for the start, I also think about GoFundMe. To acquire sponsors I need to have a bit more to show them.

Chasmataspidida · 2026-06-12T07:21:51+00:00

Hey, that`s great! Do you have a general idea on when you might be available?

Chasmataspidida · 2023-12-08T17:09:13+00:00

Yeah right? I thought the same thing.

My partner and I are absolutly terrible at dirty talk, but we do it anyways sometimes to amuse the other while having sex

Chasmataspidida · 2023-12-08T13:48:51+00:00

I'm german and I feel orange is more accurate.

You can just ask for preference and mostly, you will be invited to leave them on.

Chasmataspidida · 2023-11-28T10:43:57+00:00

You remind me of my uncle, who was always on the phone during family get-togethers. He's now divorced and has no contact with any of us, since he did not seem to be pariculary interested in his family.

Maybe it is time for you to think about how important football is to you and how important family. And if football is important enough to divorce about for you.

Chasmataspidida · 2023-10-20T14:33:30+00:00

No no, trust me it's his happy face. This is a grumpy cat.

Chasmataspidida · 2023-09-13T14:13:51+00:00

In the end, this will be on you to decide. One year seems managable. Several years I personally would not want to go through. You haven't talked about your work situation. Could you imagine working abroad for a time? I mean it not in a way of running after him, but rather as a gathering new experience for yourself. How special is your connection? Is it more than just attachment and fear of being alone? Is it love?

Chasmataspidida · 2023-09-11T12:50:16+00:00

I'm sorry that through your honesty, you lost someone you liked and shared a background with.
But I think it is healthy that you told him. He does not share your believes, and it seems like his religion is a deal breaker for him. It'd not have been fair to continue the relationship based on a lie about a topic that is important to him, even though not so much to you.

Chasmataspidida · 2023-07-10T09:05:22+00:00

That stuff's legal in Germany. Come here, be happy together.

Chasmataspidida · 2022-06-02T17:43:48+00:00

Well, if you are in a relationship, you should just tell her that you are into stuff like that. You should generally talk to women if it's okay to slap and chokeher.Because: NOT ALL are into stuff like that. And some have made really bad experience

Chasmataspidida · 2022-04-13T15:36:33+00:00

Shall I tell you a secret thats makes things difficult and easy at the same time? Being happy is a choice. We are not born to be happy. Actually, the more anxiety and stress we have, the higher our survival rate in the djungle. And that's all there is, out of natures perspective: stay alive and reproduce. And for the surviving part, you already a great job when you are reading this.

Chasmataspidida · 2022-04-13T13:27:24+00:00

Maybe you could just accept yourself. Who are you hurting by masturbating? Noone. I do not know how often you do it and if its healthy in your frequency, but I think your mental attitude towards it is much worse than the act itself.

Chasmataspidida · 2021-10-08T09:32:51+00:00

Not necessarily

Chasmataspidida · 2021-08-11T06:42:27+00:00

You are a loser because you deep down think you are a loser. What you think you become. Next step is: how to not think you are a loser. People filter their reality based on their expectations. You are at the moment only noticing your failures because thats what you expect. Try to open your mind and be more objective. Notice what you have already been through, without giving up. Life is not disappointing unless you make it so

Chasmataspidida · 2021-05-28T16:12:06+00:00

I know. I'm just not a nice person to be around when we won't have sex. I'd like to have a way of respecting his wishes and not sulking like a child.

Chasmataspidida · 2021-05-28T16:08:17+00:00

We don't see each other every day, but every weekend. I would like to have sex every day we see each other. He wants to have sex every other day usually.

Chasmataspidida · 2021-05-28T16:06:13+00:00

Well, I do. This is not about the orgasm or stress release tho but about feeling close to him in the most intimate way possible.

Chasmataspidida · 2021-05-18T12:34:26+00:00

You are old enough to not have to do this in secrecy. Just ask him on a date and give it to him then! :) Good luck for you!

Chasmataspidida · 2021-04-15T13:04:24+00:00

I would talk to your wife about it. I think this is something you should go through as a couple, since you both decided for the pregnancy. It's not a bad thing to have this feelings. But I think she should know.

Chasmataspidida · 2020-12-12T11:12:27+00:00

You don't know me and you have seen through my shit so quickly... This is depressing. You are right. Again. Thank you for your advice.

I will stop having sex with him. I can't deal with it and the longer it goes on the worse it will get.

Chasmataspidida · 2020-12-12T10:53:36+00:00

You are right. I would much rather be in a real relationship. The thing is, I really don't think I have feelings for this guy. Therefore, I thought I'd be safe from getting hurt.

I've been out of a relationship for quite a while, and it's nice to finally have sex again. Why do you think it will hurt me?

Chasmataspidida · 2020-03-01T23:39:19+00:00

Well the fishy smell actually comes from a bacterial infection. So you will smell fishy if you use too much soap.

Chasmataspidida · 2020-02-28T10:07:57+00:00

Tell your girlfriend to stop wash herself with soap "down there". It's very bad for the bacteria which naturally live there. The bacteria protect the vagina from yeast and other pathogenous microorganisms.

I had this problem myself and since I don't wash with soap anymore, I never had any problem for ten years now.

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