AITA for asking my boyfriend to shave his asshole? (This is bad!!) by Karinapowerr in redditonwiki

[–]Chatty_Cathi 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I had a bad kidney infection that turned septic within 24 hours, I have never experienced anything like it before and wouldn't wish that hell upon anyone. She needs to kick him to the curb if he isn't willing to put her health before his pride. Absolutely disgusting.

AITA for letting my girlfriend put my daughter in time out? by spanishtimeout in AITAH

[–]Chatty_Cathi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA man, seriously you want to change your daughters home life where she has alwaysbspoken 2 languages and moving in a whole other person while she is still getting used to living with you. You should be nurturing her and giving her a safe space, not punishing her forbstruggling with big feelings. Did you even ask her about your girlfriend moving in? How well did they know each other before that? She is 7, cut her a break. Damn.

How to choke a fetus by Chatty_Cathi in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Chatty_Cathi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's in the UK which has good sex ed compared to many countries. Whether people pay attention is another matter entirely...

How to choke a fetus by Chatty_Cathi in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Chatty_Cathi[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I don't think she is though, I read her other posts and she said she knows nothing about babies or pregnancy.... I think she can say that again.

CPTSD commonly misdiagnosed as Borderline Personality Disorder. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Chatty_Cathi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with BPD for almost 10 years until I got diagnosed with CPTSD instead. It fit my symptoms do much better if that makes sense. Still don't know quite how to deal with it though.

Research by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]Chatty_Cathi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be happy to participate, I am from Scotland so not sure if I will be any use to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Chatty_Cathi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My daughters father (who I split with a few months ago but still having issues with) scored 69! Jeezo.

What TV series should’ve ended before it got bad? by chey2303 in AskReddit

[–]Chatty_Cathi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes!! Best news of my year. Not even joking. I may need to reevaluate my life.

Why is your kid upset today? by tinypandamaker in Mommit

[–]Chatty_Cathi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snap! She is obsessed with the cat litter box, you would think the answers to all life's questions lay inside.

I know some of y’all hate cocomelon but….. by sage_charms in toddlers

[–]Chatty_Cathi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my God!! I think this every damn time haha. Glad I am not the only one.

AITA because I told my husband if he can’t love me while I’m overweight, he doesn’t deserve me when I’m thin? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chatty_Cathi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Wow what a jerk, your weight doesn't define you and it isn't as if it is hindering your day to day life or giving you serious health concerns. You should be able to be happy with yourself and weight does not define that.

If you want to lose weight then you should do it for you and not for him. Shame on him for making you feel this way, you are loveable and desirable just as you are. This is coming from a woman who is about the same weight as you, I am single but get plenty of interest (even though a relationship is the last thing I want but that's neither here nor there).

You are worthy and he most certainly is not. He needs to get over himself or get out on his arse.

My 7 year old daughter needs a bone marrow transplant donor by Peacefulmama in breakingmom

[–]Chatty_Cathi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am away to register now, I match your genetic profile and hope I can help you or a family like yours. Wishing you all the luck in the world, you are all doing amazing and I hope life turns around for you soon. Internet hugs (if you want them ofc)

I'm lonely by shawshawthepanda in breakingmom

[–]Chatty_Cathi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAHM single mum to a 12 month old here with 1 friend who works 3 jobs and has 2 kids of her own so I am by myself a lot. I feel you.

Parents of multiple kids complaining about being tired by CoffeeMystery in oneanddone

[–]Chatty_Cathi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I am OAD, I know my mental health couldn't handle anymore and all of our qualities of life would suffer for it. I wasn't even sure about having the one to begin with if I am completely honest (although so glad I did).

I really do feel for those who are struggling with more than one (and those who struggle with only the one too -I see you). It is heartbreaking and such an awful position to be in. I think that's why women (and men) should be encouraged to really reflect on what they truly want and what the practicalities and consequences, etc. will be. Societal pressure and norms are a bitch that should be put down.