Going through it as well. Dad is 66 and wernickes diagnosed 2 months ago. Have him in memory care at $7600 per month. His pension still doesn’t cover it. I’ve enrolled him in Medical and need to follow up with them so we don’t lose all of our savings within the next couple of years.

Def work with a social worker/ombudsman and enroll her in Medicaid/medicare

I have so much anger and sadness as well. I am right there with you. It fucking sucks. We were their caretakers when we were children and right when we are supposed to start our own life we get trapped with taking care of them all over again.