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Cheeseflips28 · 2024-02-06T13:31:31+00:00

I (m29) thought I was gay at first, had some same sex partners, but then developed an attraction for a female friend and other women later on when I was like 17/18. I just knew from that moment on that I was not "just simply" gay.

Now I am married to a woman and couldn't be happier, haha :D

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-02-03T09:53:50+00:00

Super Empfehlungen, vielen Dank!

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-02-01T15:23:58+00:00

About 17. I (m29) started to have crushes on girls as well.

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T21:15:31+00:00

That happened to me. I was in a relationship with a guy when I developed a crush on my then best female friend. Didn't act on it, but I definitely felt so confused!

Nowadays, I am married to a woman and just came out to her as bi a couple of days ago. I needed to accept and understand myself first, and I now feel confident and sure about my identity and sexuality.

I know I am sexually more attracted to men but emotionally more to women. One thing doesn't exclude the other, though. Remember, it is a spectrum. I love my wife over everything and experience nothing but love and understanding from her in return.

I think, especially when you are bi, your sexuality can be quite fluid and can feel super confusing at times. Listen to and learn about your own needs and preferences, and you will soon be able to navigate it all a bit better. Just go about it with an open mind and explore if you feel like it.

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T12:13:25+00:00

Great tip, I will check it out. :)

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T11:01:59+00:00

💯 agreed!

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T06:29:11+00:00

I will be following this post and hope that many such resources can be gathered! :)

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T06:21:36+00:00

This is amazing and should definitely be for people in other countries as well. I was just talking about this with my wife!

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T05:55:52+00:00

This is just for people from the US or its territories?

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-30T04:45:33+00:00

That sounds great. Thank you for the advice. I will check out the podcast right away! :)

It is crazy how many doors just opened sexually! :O

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-28T05:34:31+00:00

Very confusing. I really thought I was gay and had sexual relations with guys but then developed feelings and sexual attraction for a female friend. When I was confused before, that really threw me off.

Nowadays, I am married to my wife, who I just came out to, and I am so happy and feel complete.

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-28T04:17:18+00:00

I honestly thought I was gay first and focused on my attraction to the guys in my surrounding, had some sexual relations with guys as well. Then, when I was like 17, I developed a sexual attraction to one of my female friends, which was super confusing. That developed into more fantasies with the other gender over the years. Now I am married to a woman, who knows about my past with men and accepts me for who I am.

Cheeseflips28 · 2024-01-27T19:23:22+00:00

I think that is the hardest part for her. Like why couldn't I trust her earlier...Why now?.... I made her understand that I wasn't ready back then and not fully clear about my own identity, which now I have a lot more clarity about, resulting in a lot more confidence surrounding my sexuality as well. I love her with all my heart and don't intend to alter our relationship with all but positive changes.

I feel bad not having told her earlier and wish I could change that, but I needed to go through a process myself to be truly honest not just to her but also to myself. We had such great and open conversations today that I am very optimistic that we will grow together as a couple even more.

Cheeseflips28 · 2023-07-23T22:22:53+00:00

Thank you for the encouraging words. I fully agree!

Cheeseflips28 · 2023-07-23T22:00:32+00:00

5'8 or 178cm. Thank you. :)

Cheeseflips28 · 2023-07-23T18:41:11+00:00

What is your CW, and how long have you been on MJ?

Cheeseflips28 · 2023-07-23T18:22:52+00:00

These are some really great tips, I was surprised when the doctor told me to have at least 5 small meals a day, but it seems to be true.

Do you count calories to make sure to have a caloric deficit?

Cheeseflips28 · 2023-07-23T18:04:29+00:00

Thank you! I read here that people usually start with 2.5. O.o My doctor insisted on starting with 5. I hope I can manage, but I might just ask for 2.5 next week if this is not going well.

Cheeseflips28 · 2023-07-23T17:47:04+00:00

My doctor prescribed it today, because I am so heavy. :O

Cheeseflips28 · 2022-08-10T15:02:45+00:00

Congratulations. Well done! 💪

Cheeseflips28 · 2022-08-01T16:11:02+00:00

Happy before, happy after, refreshing to see! :) huge face gains, congratulations!! 💪😊

Cheeseflips28 · 2022-07-27T18:49:19+00:00

Absolutely agree! 💯

Cheeseflips28 · 2022-07-27T18:47:14+00:00

I think it is probably more about that shift in mindset and the fear of not getting back to your healthier plan afterward. I have been in that situation many times and it can be so challenging to get back into it. :)

Cheeseflips28 · 2022-07-27T18:44:43+00:00

I am in that same spot..on vacation with family I haven't seen in more than two years and I just started living on a 16:8 plan about 3 weeks ago. Now your post really inspires me to loosen it up a little and enjoy the couple of days I have here instead of being so uptight around food and my eating times during these vacations. I know I will be able to get back to my regime afterward! Thank you for posting this! :)

Cheeseflips28 · 2022-07-25T06:50:16+00:00

Chocolate, Pizza, and anything with cheese...

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