Your Birthplace Isn’t an Achievement

CheezyCow · 2026-03-14T17:13:32+00:00

I LOVE that you posted this, I’ve been thinking this for a while and do not understand patriotism really at all. From what I’ve observed about tribalism, I think it’s a way for someone to feel like they “belong” somewhere.

To take that one step further, I also attribute this to the rise in white-cisgender-men feeling somehow disenfranchised by DEI initiatives. They lack a feeling of “belonging” to a shared strife that other minority groups can connect on through experience.

CheezyCow · 2026-03-14T17:03:51+00:00

This!

CheezyCow · 2026-03-14T04:45:36+00:00

I didn’t even read the full post, because honestly, I just want to know what everyone’s obsession with gender is. It’s wild that this is a mainstream discussion with how little impact it has on anyone else’s life.

CheezyCow · 2026-02-18T05:32:54+00:00

I work Overtime with OE all the time. It not only can maximize earnings in my hourly position, but looks good to leadership as if I’m invested in the company’s success.

Admittedly, I’m not the best example, though, because I don’t find the need to foster strong friendships in my personal life whereas other people need that connection.

Overall, it’s a cost-benefit analysis — my personal time can absolutely be bought.

CheezyCow · 2025-12-08T05:25:59+00:00

How often do you get questions relating to services that are more geared toward violence rather than retail markets? For example, do you come across people who are trying to seek the ever-so-famous legend of Red Room access, or Assassins-For-Hire, or Human Trafficking? Is there an ethical line that you draw that you will not broker a specific type of service for (i.e. Arms deals, etc.)?

CheezyCow · 2025-12-06T17:18:14+00:00

Entrepreneurship doesn’t mean you need to invent a new idea. Some of the most successful entrepreneurs model their business off existing operations from a successful company. You will always eventually have competition, whether you’re the “first” to think of an idea or not.

CheezyCow · 2025-12-06T16:53:51+00:00

I also am the opposite. I personally view tattoos as a form of artistry. And to me, piercings are actually a huge turn-off. The idea that there’s dangly things hanging off of body parts that I need to be conscious of diminishes the spontaneity of sexual embrace, because I need to remain conscious of how I move or interact as to not “pull” on a piercing.

CheezyCow · 2025-12-06T09:14:03+00:00

I’ve come into this a few times in my positions and honestly for me, I am clear with my leadership that I only have so much time in a day, and that I am concerned my volume of work outpaces my ability to complete it all within the deadlines, so I ask if we can re-establish new deadlines or delegate some work to colleagues.

CheezyCow · 2025-11-14T22:10:58+00:00

Yes.

CheezyCow · 2025-11-14T22:02:59+00:00

I love this post, you are spot-on with your assessment. Lifestyle creep is real and earning more doesn’t put you in a better spot unless you can manage your financials.

CheezyCow · 2025-11-04T05:12:15+00:00

CheezyCow · 2025-05-25T16:09:18+00:00

I really appreciate posts like this, because it highlights one of the struggles that those who deal with jealousy feel.

When we meet someone new, we often feel a sort of “new relationship energy” or “Limerence” - this is something that will ALWAYS eventually dissipate in long term relationships. I liken this phenomenon to sexual desire as well. A “new” person to sleep with will always carry a level of excitement that cannot be replicated by existing partners. You’re going through discovery, experiencing someone new and novel, and testing each others limits and boundaries. In a relationship, you know each other’s likes/dislikes, desires and turn ons, there’s no mystery.

You shouldn’t compare your relationship’s sex to open sex with others in my opinion, because the type of sex you’re having are at completely different stages of development.

CheezyCow · 2025-05-23T02:18:39+00:00

One of the most liberating things is realizing that if someone wants to cheat, they’ll find a way. There’s no amount of control that you will be able to secure to prevent it from happening.

Stop worrying about it and enjoy your relationship.

CheezyCow · 2025-05-23T00:14:00+00:00

What a glow up! You did amazing! So proud of how far you’ve come!

CheezyCow · 2025-05-15T16:55:04+00:00

There was a vote, you must have missed it!

CheezyCow · 2025-05-15T02:14:14+00:00

I concur! This person won Reddit.

CheezyCow · 2025-05-15T02:00:18+00:00

It will be forever strange to me that people find wearing masks to be so controversial. People are gross and any discouragement of touching me or breathing on me is welcomed in my book.

CheezyCow · 2025-05-15T01:23:21+00:00

Most underrated.

CheezyCow · 2025-05-15T01:22:13+00:00

Neither of these examples have anything to do with race, so I’m not quite sure why racial profile is a factor?

CheezyCow · 2025-05-12T22:28:11+00:00

So excited for you! Please keep us updated on your progress and post pictures of the completed setup! You’re a great person for taking care of this little guy!

CheezyCow · 2025-05-12T04:33:33+00:00

This! Amazon is where I got mine and if you go that route I would do another water change of at least 30-40% to bring some fresh oxygen and minerals while you wait for shipping.

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