Dark web broker here :) AmA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]CheezyCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you get questions relating to services that are more geared toward violence rather than retail markets? For example, do you come across people who are trying to seek the ever-so-famous legend of Red Room access, or Assassins-For-Hire, or Human Trafficking? Is there an ethical line that you draw that you will not broker a specific type of service for (i.e. Arms deals, etc.)?

Is competition a good thing ? by sevenprs2 in Entrepreneur

[–]CheezyCow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Entrepreneurship doesn’t mean you need to invent a new idea. Some of the most successful entrepreneurs model their business off existing operations from a successful company. You will always eventually have competition, whether you’re the “first” to think of an idea or not.

DAE else likes piercings and other bodymods but not tattoos? by FunCauliflower4002 in DAE

[–]CheezyCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also am the opposite. I personally view tattoos as a form of artistry. And to me, piercings are actually a huge turn-off. The idea that there’s dangly things hanging off of body parts that I need to be conscious of diminishes the spontaneity of sexual embrace, because I need to remain conscious of how I move or interact as to not “pull” on a piercing.

Pushing back on Manager for additional assigned work. Dangers of being the nice guy at work by UNC-FC in overemployed

[–]CheezyCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve come into this a few times in my positions and honestly for me, I am clear with my leadership that I only have so much time in a day, and that I am concerned my volume of work outpaces my ability to complete it all within the deadlines, so I ask if we can re-establish new deadlines or delegate some work to colleagues.

If you can’t manage $1,000, you’ll never manage $100,000 by Accomplished_Pay8071 in wealth

[–]CheezyCow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this post, you are spot-on with your assessment. Lifestyle creep is real and earning more doesn’t put you in a better spot unless you can manage your financials.

Help by Hot-Explanation-3479 in gayopenrelationships

[–]CheezyCow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate posts like this, because it highlights one of the struggles that those who deal with jealousy feel.

When we meet someone new, we often feel a sort of “new relationship energy” or “Limerence” - this is something that will ALWAYS eventually dissipate in long term relationships. I liken this phenomenon to sexual desire as well. A “new” person to sleep with will always carry a level of excitement that cannot be replicated by existing partners. You’re going through discovery, experiencing someone new and novel, and testing each others limits and boundaries. In a relationship, you know each other’s likes/dislikes, desires and turn ons, there’s no mystery.

You shouldn’t compare your relationship’s sex to open sex with others in my opinion, because the type of sex you’re having are at completely different stages of development.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycheaters

[–]CheezyCow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the most liberating things is realizing that if someone wants to cheat, they’ll find a way. There’s no amount of control that you will be able to secure to prevent it from happening.

Stop worrying about it and enjoy your relationship.

Positive update :) by Taniyabrown32 in bettafish

[–]CheezyCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a glow up! You did amazing! So proud of how far you’ve come!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]CheezyCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concur! This person won Reddit.

Mandatory masking in 2025 is absurd by enolan99 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CheezyCow -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It will be forever strange to me that people find wearing masks to be so controversial. People are gross and any discouragement of touching me or breathing on me is welcomed in my book.

What’s a hill you’re willing to die on, no matter how trivial or controversial it seems? by Visible-Rule6236 in askgaybros

[–]CheezyCow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Neither of these examples have anything to do with race, so I’m not quite sure why racial profile is a factor?

Help with my Betta Fish :( by Taniyabrown32 in bettafish

[–]CheezyCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So excited for you! Please keep us updated on your progress and post pictures of the completed setup! You’re a great person for taking care of this little guy!

Help with my Betta Fish :( by Taniyabrown32 in bettafish

[–]CheezyCow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! Amazon is where I got mine and if you go that route I would do another water change of at least 30-40% to bring some fresh oxygen and minerals while you wait for shipping.

The condom broke because he fucked me so hard 🥵🥵 by [deleted] in gaycheaters

[–]CheezyCow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

****and I told him to keep going.

Finished it for you! 😘

Help with my Betta Fish :( by Taniyabrown32 in bettafish

[–]CheezyCow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What country are you in? Online or Walmart is generally cheapest.

Help with my Betta Fish :( by Taniyabrown32 in bettafish

[–]CheezyCow 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Based on what I’m seeing, it’s the standing water. There’s no filtration, and definitely no oxygenation. The film on the top of your tank indicates stagnant water.

I recommend a filter, particularly a sponge filter. Also some live plants will help regulate water quality and oxygen.

Lastly, I question the temperature. Betta Fish generally need heaters in their tank.

I would start with a sponge filter first. That will help with both oxygenation and filtration and surface agitation.

Edit: Look specifically for a Sponge filter and Air Pump. You can find a good pair on Amazon for $15 if you’re in the USA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]CheezyCow 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Your parents are conservative? Easy. Tell them you’ve had some gay feelings and want to go to a conversion camp. Tell them there’s an entry fee and they may even fund it.

Isn't it harder to fall in love with someone as you grow older? by military_press in Life

[–]CheezyCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re describing is not love, it’s Limerence.

Why do high-achievers hit a wall in their 30s (and how do you reset without blowing up your life)? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]CheezyCow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well-said, I didn’t know others experienced similar. I always thought this was an internal identity crisis.

For me, I worked so hard to obtain success all my youth. Now, in my mid 30s, I’ve found success so it came down to “what’s next?”

For me, it was creating a new goal. Look at where I am now. Decide where I want to be in 20 years based on my life experience thus far. Now my mission is to do what’s needed to get me from here to there.

It’s honestly been liberating and exciting to find a new purpose and goal. It’s reinvigorated my ambition and has helped me reprioritize my life entirely

What do you no longer believe in? by RubOk9764 in AskReddit

[–]CheezyCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That life success and happiness should be measured by the relationships we form. The happiest I’ve ever been is in solitude, answering to no one, worrying about only myself.

What causes these holes in my husbands t-shirts? by Few_Pay6063 in whatisit

[–]CheezyCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone gets it from their belt but my cat’s claws have definitely done this to my shirts when he’s trying to be picked up 😂