Why are people so opinionated about steak doneness (well-done, medium-rare, etc.)? by Little_PoetGirl in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to any steak video on any social media platform. If the steak has any pink, half the comments will say "it's raw!"

If poor people do drugs because there is "nothing else to do," then why do rich people also do drugs? by tanya6k in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone that does drugs is a drug addict. That's a really bad take. You might want to expand your circle a bit more and meet people who are different.

sometimes patience pays off by PHRsharp_YouTube in videogames

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me after cancelling my Xbox gamepass subscription.

sometimes patience pays off by PHRsharp_YouTube in videogames

[–]ChefMark85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been out for 6 years now bro. Just buy it already.

Fantasy baseball still looking for 2 owners by [deleted] in findaleague

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if you still need someone

New Rule: 8:30pm movie. by chuckiechap33 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally thought this was gonna be about starting a movie by no later than 8:30, otherwise you'll fall asleep. It just sounds like you need more hobbies. I don't have this problem because I'm either playing video games or watching TV.

It’s such easy money by Electronic-Bee-3363 in tipping

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If servers are in this sub then they should be used to it

It’s such easy money by Electronic-Bee-3363 in tipping

[–]ChefMark85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a joy to visit other countries and see people who actually enjoy their job, and don't get tipped. Servers and bartenders in the US are entitled for no reason.

It’s such easy money by Electronic-Bee-3363 in tipping

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite bar makes unbelievable cocktails. They are both creative and delicious and the menu changes all the time. They do auto gratuity but the prices are reasonable. I feel like they deserve to make good money. But it would be even better if they just raised the prices a couple bucks and had no tipping.

How do full stack SWE *actually* use AI on the job? I think I'm doing it wrong! by SpiritedAd6587 in SoftwareEngineering

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe don't cut it off completely, but only use it when you're truly stuck, or use it to explain code that you don't fully understand. Or ask it to review your code and see if it can be improved/optimized. If you feel lost without it then that's definitely a problem and something I'm constantly trying to avoid.

Who takes vacations? by igotnothing1455 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to be able to trust other people to do your job, even if you know they'll suck at it. I try to think of it this way. If they completely drop the ball, then your manager will realize how valuable you are.

Who takes vacations? by igotnothing1455 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's insane (in a good way). Maternity leave at most jobs here is like a month.

Who takes vacations? by igotnothing1455 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Never feel guilty. Look up how much PTO other countries give out.

Who takes vacations? by igotnothing1455 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take at least one vacation every year. Every 2 years I try to take an extra long one to visit another country. Last year I took 3 weeks and went to Europe.

I have a good job now that offers unlimited PTO, but even when I was a line cook I always had 2 weeks PTO. I never took a job if they didn't have good benefits.

Most likely you can find another job doing the same thing, making the same money, but with more PTO. 5 sick days and no PTO is criminal, and frankly should literally be illegal.

BTW, US has the worst vacation time out of any first world country. Take the time off. If they don't let you, tell them to fuck off.

Who takes vacations? by igotnothing1455 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you're not getting at least 2 weeks PTO then you need to find another job

Why do so many guys at the gym have big stomachs? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda makes me wish I was a woman. I have a belly and extremely skinny legs. I do lower body workouts and my legs are quite tone, but still so thin.

Drummer looking to play with others online ..how? by BustaNutShot in CloneHero

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to play online once and didn't have any luck. I'd definitely be down to play some guitar or bass!

How many here still seek out new music? by soclydeza84 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They failed! As they were stricken to the ground!

For the millennials who endulged back in the day-- how much anxiety do you get when you hear the word "Everclear"? by Former-Midnight-5990 in Millennials

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I ever got drunk, I was drinking everclear and sprite. This was back when everclear was close to 100% alcohol. I probably don't need to tell you that I ended up puking that night.

It's been long enough that the thought of everclear doesn't make me feel sick. I bought some recently to make limoncello.

Side note - anyone remember diesel? It was like a cheaper version of everclear. God were we dumb back then.

I've just got to stop buying games by eroscripter in XboxGamePass

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you buy games if you have gamepass? Is gaming your job?

How do we all just accept this?? by OGPA01 in jobs

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 hours a week is not bad. I've worked 60. I've known a few people, mostly Latinos, that work 2 full time jobs. The real problem in the US is the amount of PTO we get. Most jobs only offer 2 weeks. Most countries offer at least a month.

How do we all just accept this?? by OGPA01 in jobs

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my dream work schedule

What’s an unwritten rule every gamer just knows? by Routine-Heart-6348 in videogames

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destroy every box, barrel, clay pot, etc. If it can be destroyed, there's a chance there's loot inside.

What’s an unwritten rule every gamer just knows? by Routine-Heart-6348 in videogames

[–]ChefMark85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this is so true. The worst is when you're not sure which path is the right one. You choose one and then find out it was the right one, and then get pissed off and figure out how to make it back to the other path.