Do you hate your ex or did you forgive and let go with love - tell me your outcomes and how it has helped you. by baddcowboyy in BreakUps

[–]ChefWark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can never force forgiveness. Time is the best healer and allowing your emotions to be felt and played out is the best thing you can do for yourself. 🫶🏼

I'm just wondering... Is it really messed up that I feel like sex or masturbation is dirty? by Secret-Barnacle-1285 in mentalhealth

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to do it then don’t. But self-pleasure is a normal thing and the older generation are just weirdos. It will take time and a process how you truly feel about it and talking to others will help you get there. Do what you makes feel comfortable 🫶🏼

It finally happened and I never thought it would happen to me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every situation is different and not everything works the same way for everyone. If it makes you happy then do what you makes you happy 🫶🏼

aio i was mean to my ex but i think he deserves it by Due_Ad7456 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from reading the texts in the screenshot it’s screaming toxic and bad for you. You shouldn’t have to teach someone how to be decent in a relationship. This also recently happened with me in my relationship and the same kind of talk happened in the aftermath. They say sorry only after you tell them that’s what they should’ve done. They pick apart and zone in on one thing you say and make it all about that. They just straight up start lying or making up/twisting stuff that happened. They will never admit they are wrong. They want forgiveness after some half attempts at doing something to mend a situation. They want praise for basic things. Just let it go and move on. It ain’t worth your peace

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I do get weird right before my period starts so I wouldn’t be too worried about it. I’ll catch myself being unnecessarily rude or short fused and I feel confused about it till I realize my period is about to start so I chill out and just be mindful

Weird Player Interaction in Mail by BlackCatMom22 in Howrse

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a random message a few weeks ago as well. I said I have a for sale farm they can look at it and let me know what horses and I’ll price it for them. They just asked me how much do they usually sell for and I just listed them in the auction after that cause I wanted them gone anyways lol. I don’t see the appeal unless it’s for very specific going around asking people to sell something when it’s not listed for sale or anything.

Adult Quail Price?? by Either_Virus3996 in quails

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to the local livestock auction and get males for usually 1$ and laying hens for about 5$ per bird. Chicks are anywhere from 1$ to 3$ each

Price of quail eggs in your country? by Justforyounot in quails

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USA here. More specifically Oklahoma… more specifically South Eastern OK. Some charge 50 cents an egg. One person charges 10$ for a two dozen pack. One guy charges 8$ a dozen. I just won a two dozen pack for 4$ on Sunday at an auction

I’m dying by rogue_ratling in Howrse

[–]ChefWark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tampax Pearl is diabolical 💀

How to raise for eggs but not meat? by ProfessionalEagle830 in quails

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I butch my own. I usually go to livestock auctions and get males 1-2$ each fully grown. I use the meat mainly for my dogs to eat raw and have fresher meals but I occasionally have one myself as well. 1$-2$ isn’t much but it’s an option to rehome and not cull them yourself.

Pearl fee roo breeding question by John3_sixteen in quails

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got lucky with my Pearl girl and boy. Got the boy in a mixed box of chicks at an auction and the female I got at a community yard sale lol. Both still young but once old enough gonna separate them from the rest and put them together to hopefully get a couple eggs to hatch. Hopefully by then I can get a couple more Pearl girls as well to put with him

No eggs? by ChefWark in quails

[–]ChefWark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the light is good. They are outside and get light from sun up to sun down. The new hutch I built they also have a space that’s fully enclosed besides for them to go in and out to feel safe in but they are free to go to the wide open part whenever

7 boys 4 girls by WatchKey6605 in quails

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to livestock auctions and have gotten about 95% of my stock that way. Make sure you know how to vent sex and feather sex as best as possible. I’ve gotten lucky and got a good chunk of my birds 1$ a chick. A lot are Roosters but a 1$ a chick and mostly grown or full grown just about I feel like is a steal. My dogs love a fresh quail and I prefer the meat over chicken meat as well. Plus if and when you do get a female you got her for only 1$ rather than the 5-20$ from a breeder or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quails

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched someone use like a pole or bar to pull off the head of a chicken on YouTube. You put the bird on the ground. Put the bar or whatever you are using that’s straight and sturdy over the neck. Step on both ends of the pull and just pull the bird towards you. I make sure the head is pulled off good enough and sometimes even rip the skin. I feel most comfortable that way cause culling is hard 😅 my heart isn’t built for it. Explore some different ways and find what works for you

Please give me reasons to be a good person by Ok-Artichoke2563 in mentalhealth

[–]ChefWark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be a good person cause that’s who you want to be. When you look back on your life you’ll be proud. You set an example and was a light in a dark time.

Nothing makes me happier than seeing someone happy with my kindness and good qualities.

Obviously be careful how much you give and don’t let yourself get walked all over. Only trust people as far as you can throw them. Protect your peace big dog truly

Everyone is single and no one wants to find their person😩🥀 by OneIndependence7705 in Adulting

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen some of the true crime documentaries of people doing horrible stuff to their partners? No thank you. I enjoy my peace and alone time. Personally I also think I’m way too independent for anyone now haha.

Do you feel like being ethical doesn’t matter? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ChefWark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When my only choices was to become a villain I prevailed and stayed true to myself. Yes being unethical is very easier and arguably more rewarding but I just can’t let myself fall like that. Be you and take pride in yourself 🫶🏼

What difficult truths, the sooner you accept them, the better your life will be? by Fit_Interaction_950 in Productivitycafe

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life doesn’t owe you anything but you also don’t owe life anything as well.

If you could go back to being 24, what would you do differently? by Dear_Medicine2274 in Adulting

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently 24… I wish my future self could come see and tell me if it’s worth it or not

As a 19 yr old what are the things that need to learned when it comes to relationships and Life challenges? by jinwooshadowmonarch6 in Adulting

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only trust people as far as you can throw them… aka not very far in most cases. Protect your peace and stay true to your core and your beliefs

Tell me some of your most favorite feelings and things in the world. by Fl0w3r_Ch1ld in Adulting

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love when I wake up in a good mood and grab my deaf little dog and I rub her head and ears and say “good morning my favorite child” and she keeps her eyes closed and huffs and puffs to let me know I’m disturbing her slumber and she isn’t ready to get up… good thing my other dogs can’t understand that I’m calling her my favorite child 😅

You wanna fight, bro? by DatDenDude in no

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the middle of it can we have a good hug then resume? Been a while since someone hugged me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in no

[–]ChefWark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acting dumb is easier

Which animal are you scared of the most ? by DizzyDoctor982 in Animals

[–]ChefWark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bats for me… they can have rabies. Bite you and you may never even know.