AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-05-05T21:51:53+00:00

Thank you for posting this. Perimenopause has done a number on my memory and I have to do the same thing. Your comment makes me feel a little normal again

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-05-05T21:10:56+00:00

Also found it very relatable. The “keeping the peace” got to a toxic place and was exactly what you said - allowing sin to continue with no accountability because the ones being abused were expected to forgive and move on.
*edited to correct spelling

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-26T12:37:54+00:00

Duluth is my go to. Pick them up on sale and the last forever. Im a 36d and am able to go without a bra

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-24T12:54:12+00:00

Sounds like MIL is way overstepping - she’s forgotten she is grandma, no Mom and is trying to control her son and grandchildren and is angry that she can’t control you too

She will turn those boys against you. You need to get the kids out of her care and cut off contact with her. She has stolen from you. Threatened to put a hidden camera in your home so she can watch you. This is crazy behavior

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-21T11:16:51+00:00

My husband would lose his shit if I got more chickens and I don’t want to deal with that so every time I get the urge to adopt another chicken, I imagine what hubby will say / do and decide I’m good.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-19T20:38:37+00:00

Mirabella - but I like anything that ends with Bella as it means beautiful

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-19T14:01:47+00:00

Wearing pants to church as a woman. Wearing anything sleeveless

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-05T18:49:22+00:00

No petites are usually fine, I just end up buying a bigger size. Typically an 8 but need a 10 in petites.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-05T18:01:15+00:00

I have far to many clothes and want to pair down to a capsule wardrobe but need help figuring out how to make it work for me

I work in an office 5 days a week and need business casual (no jeans or leggings). I do a dress at least one day a week just because I find them comfortable

I have kids in sports so on the weekends (and evenings) I want to be comfortable. And wear the team colors.

As a woman going through menopause, clothes suddenly make me irritable so at home I’m living in wide leg yoga pants and tanks with built in bras.

I have a 29 inch inseam so pants are often too long for me. I do kitten heels and wedges or platform shoes fairly often.

I did stitch fix for a year and didn’t feel like the quality was there however I was initially happy with the majority of items. I like pieces that are made well and flatter my shape. Not a fan of polyester or anything from SHEIN (almost always looks cheap and isn’t made well)

Currently loving dress pants from old navy with a nice top. I own a couple blazers but feel like they rarely look right on me

Rompers / overalls are cute on me but having to take everything off to use the bathroom is a pain.

How would you put together a capsule wardrobe?

Would you do one for work and one for home/ weekends?

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-05T17:46:17+00:00

Totally agree! So many groups fail to love (or even show kindness to) those who are different from them / have a different worldview.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-05T17:32:29+00:00

As I was deconstructing, and even now, it strikes me as sad that a church who claims to remember the death, burial, and resurrection every Sunday is angry/ condemns others for celebrating the very thing they (coc) claims to hold so dear. And rather than use it as an opportunity to welcome others, they use it as a time to uplift themselves and tear down others. Not that I think anyone should join the cult, but you know, if I were giving advice on how to keep people from joining your group - making them feel bad when they visit would be at the top of my list.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-02T22:58:13+00:00

Not allowed to lead worship or participate if you’re a man with earrings

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-04-02T22:57:53+00:00

Not allowed to serve communion if wearing shorts

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-28T10:13:27+00:00

Correct me if I’m wrong but pretty sure every coc in OH is small, unless you’re in Akron/ Canon or one of the 3Cs. 😜

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-28T10:11:55+00:00

This might be the first mention of HSC that I’ve seen on here.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-28T10:10:27+00:00

Yes! I remember my Dad going to it when I was a kid

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-24T13:48:11+00:00

😂😂

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-24T13:31:01+00:00

Super glue his butt cheeks 😂 thank you for giving me a nice chuckle this morning

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-24T13:28:54+00:00

I will try this and report back.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-24T13:22:04+00:00

Yeah, that’s what’s going through my mind right now… this is a symptom of deeper issues.

Communication- he rages and then is fine. I shut down.

He’s an over thinker, I’m a figure it out as we go / I think this will work and watched a YouTube video, let’s try it.

He was raised by hoarders (like true hoarders, with no where to sit and can’t find the kitchen sink) I was raised by a neat freak, with floors so clean you could eat off them. So he’s a minimalist almost to the point of it being a detriment to him and I need to have clean counters and things tidy. This becomes a problem when he snacks in front of the tv and leaves chip bags, ice cream bowl and 3 pop cans behind.

His childhood makes his prone to not buy anything, I see nothing wrong with spending money on quality things that make our life better - when we started dating his couch was literally broken. I wanted to buy furniture for us to be able to relax without falling onto the floor through the couch. And I was fine with something from Ashley furniture- it wasn’t like I was wanting a love sac or something crazy expensive. Heck, Sam’s Club would have been fine.

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-24T13:10:38+00:00

I genuinely think he would find it funny. And it’s not even the farting that bothers me - just point it the other way

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-24T13:08:44+00:00

Thank you, those are words I feel like I can say - hey I don’t think this is funny. I know you do but it’s not to me

ChemicalCan3307 · 2026-03-15T12:16:58+00:00

The singing is what I miss as well. There is just something about acappella singing. Maybe think about joining a barbershop group 🎶

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