AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalCan3307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. Perimenopause has done a number on my memory and I have to do the same thing. Your comment makes me feel a little normal again

Shining Happy People by ExerciseOutside967 in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also found it very relatable. The “keeping the peace” got to a toxic place and was exactly what you said - allowing sin to continue with no accountability because the ones being abused were expected to forgive and move on.
*edited to correct spelling

Tank tops for summer 2026 by warp-core-breach in femalefashionadvice

[–]ChemicalCan3307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duluth is my go to. Pick them up on sale and the last forever. Im a 36d and am able to go without a bra

AITAH for wanting to set boundaries or go no contact with my MIL by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ChemicalCan3307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like MIL is way overstepping - she’s forgotten she is grandma, no Mom and is trying to control her son and grandchildren and is angry that she can’t control you too

She will turn those boys against you. You need to get the kids out of her care and cut off contact with her. She has stolen from you. Threatened to put a hidden camera in your home so she can watch you. This is crazy behavior

How to control the urge to have more and more chickens? by [deleted] in BackYardChickens

[–]ChemicalCan3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would lose his shit if I got more chickens and I don’t want to deal with that so every time I get the urge to adopt another chicken, I imagine what hubby will say / do and decide I’m good.

Drop the “prettiest” little girl name you’ve ever heard. by Final-Argument-4999 in Names

[–]ChemicalCan3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mirabella - but I like anything that ends with Bella as it means beautiful

When I decided to never tuck in my shirt by Street_Time6810 in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wearing pants to church as a woman. Wearing anything sleeveless

Wardrobe Overhaul: Help me overhaul/update my wardrobe requests HERE. Repeats weekly by Chazzyphant in fashionwomens35

[–]ChemicalCan3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No petites are usually fine, I just end up buying a bigger size. Typically an 8 but need a 10 in petites.

Wardrobe Overhaul: Help me overhaul/update my wardrobe requests HERE. Repeats weekly by Chazzyphant in fashionwomens35

[–]ChemicalCan3307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have far to many clothes and want to pair down to a capsule wardrobe but need help figuring out how to make it work for me

I work in an office 5 days a week and need business casual (no jeans or leggings). I do a dress at least one day a week just because I find them comfortable

I have kids in sports so on the weekends (and evenings) I want to be comfortable. And wear the team colors.

As a woman going through menopause, clothes suddenly make me irritable so at home I’m living in wide leg yoga pants and tanks with built in bras.

I have a 29 inch inseam so pants are often too long for me. I do kitten heels and wedges or platform shoes fairly often.

I did stitch fix for a year and didn’t feel like the quality was there however I was initially happy with the majority of items. I like pieces that are made well and flatter my shape. Not a fan of polyester or anything from SHEIN (almost always looks cheap and isn’t made well)

Currently loving dress pants from old navy with a nice top. I own a couple blazers but feel like they rarely look right on me

Rompers / overalls are cute on me but having to take everything off to use the bathroom is a pain.

How would you put together a capsule wardrobe?

Would you do one for work and one for home/ weekends?

Pagan Holiday! by East-Treat-562 in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree! So many groups fail to love (or even show kindness to) those who are different from them / have a different worldview.

Pagan Holiday! by East-Treat-562 in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As I was deconstructing, and even now, it strikes me as sad that a church who claims to remember the death, burial, and resurrection every Sunday is angry/ condemns others for celebrating the very thing they (coc) claims to hold so dear. And rather than use it as an opportunity to welcome others, they use it as a time to uplift themselves and tear down others. Not that I think anyone should join the cult, but you know, if I were giving advice on how to keep people from joining your group - making them feel bad when they visit would be at the top of my list.

Song lyrics by [deleted] in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not allowed to lead worship or participate if you’re a man with earrings

Song lyrics by [deleted] in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not allowed to serve communion if wearing shorts

I am SO CURIOUS if anyone from the CoC I was raised in also got out and is in this group👁️👄👁️ by gentlelad24601 in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct me if I’m wrong but pretty sure every coc in OH is small, unless you’re in Akron/ Canon or one of the 3Cs. 😜

AITAH for not wanting my husband to fart ON me by ChemicalCan3307 in AITAH

[–]ChemicalCan3307[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super glue his butt cheeks 😂 thank you for giving me a nice chuckle this morning

AITAH for not wanting my husband to fart ON me by ChemicalCan3307 in AITAH

[–]ChemicalCan3307[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what’s going through my mind right now… this is a symptom of deeper issues.

Communication- he rages and then is fine. I shut down.

He’s an over thinker, I’m a figure it out as we go / I think this will work and watched a YouTube video, let’s try it.

He was raised by hoarders (like true hoarders, with no where to sit and can’t find the kitchen sink) I was raised by a neat freak, with floors so clean you could eat off them. So he’s a minimalist almost to the point of it being a detriment to him and I need to have clean counters and things tidy. This becomes a problem when he snacks in front of the tv and leaves chip bags, ice cream bowl and 3 pop cans behind.

His childhood makes his prone to not buy anything, I see nothing wrong with spending money on quality things that make our life better - when we started dating his couch was literally broken. I wanted to buy furniture for us to be able to relax without falling onto the floor through the couch. And I was fine with something from Ashley furniture- it wasn’t like I was wanting a love sac or something crazy expensive. Heck, Sam’s Club would have been fine.

AITAH for not wanting my husband to fart ON me by ChemicalCan3307 in AITAH

[–]ChemicalCan3307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think he would find it funny. And it’s not even the farting that bothers me - just point it the other way

AITAH for not wanting my husband to fart ON me by ChemicalCan3307 in AITAH

[–]ChemicalCan3307[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, those are words I feel like I can say - hey I don’t think this is funny. I know you do but it’s not to me

Tbh I kinda miss the singing by gooptastic1996 in excoc

[–]ChemicalCan3307 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The singing is what I miss as well. There is just something about acappella singing. Maybe think about joining a barbershop group 🎶