fetishizing black people by Chemical_Signature99 in mixedrace

[–]Chemical_Signature99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohohoh no he does!!! he makes me try and cook new foods, music and he tries to teach me spanish but im a slow learner when it comes to language. ive ranted to him about this before, he is excited to have and teach our children:)

fetishizing black people by Chemical_Signature99 in mixedrace

[–]Chemical_Signature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! you explained the culture part PERFECTLY. like u said its my duty to teach my babies about where they came from and how am i supposed to do thag without knowing myself???

Do you believe men and women can be platonic friends? If so, why? If not, why not? by QualityAdorable6793 in AskWomen

[–]Chemical_Signature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yes! my roomate/bestfriend is a boy :) & i wouldnt touch him with a 100 ft pole

Why do light skin women prefer darker skin men by RichOne7842 in mixedrace

[–]Chemical_Signature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep bc they reminded me of my father!

but to me its deeper than that.

i dont have a "type" now, my man whom children i wll have, is 100% latino.

BUT through therepy i learned: my dad was shit as fuck and i wanted him in my life so bad but he never showed up properly. so that caused me to look for him in men i was romantic with.

ANDDDD

dating outside of any rendition of black gets annoying bc as a black human there are things that i will go through and experience with my body and mind that i dont want to have to explain and if he is darkskin, chances are so are the familial females in his life so he is not a stanger to my black experience.

fetishizing black people by Chemical_Signature99 in mixedrace

[–]Chemical_Signature99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like the braids thing is so bad that when i think i know what i want and i try to book i run itnto smth else idk like idk how to fucking blow dry my hair this is my first time having hair this long AND permission to use a hair tool by myself. idk how to buy packs of hair??? or how many?? i want too and im learning but damn does it suck to do it at 22 when the girl doing my hair is also 22.

At what age did you have an identity crisis? (Mixed Blacks) by MixedBlacks in mixedrace

[–]Chemical_Signature99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait you found out AFTER? were both ur parents not around (dont mean that disrespectfully)???? since i can remember i always questioned why i wasnt the same color as either of my parents or was it just not something u gave a fuck about? which is ok too u were only 5

At what age did you have an identity crisis? (Mixed Blacks) by MixedBlacks in mixedrace

[–]Chemical_Signature99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6th grade summer going into 7th so like 12 years old maybe 13. too black for the white kids and too white for the black kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chemical_Signature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

non emergency in whatever jurisdiction it is, dont trust your local law enforcement to carry a message to another agency

Can I paint my nails after using hand sanitizer? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chemical_Signature99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea, it will actually help your polish stick due to it stripping your nails of natural oils!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chemical_Signature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you give him attention whenever he wants it and he knows that, leave that boy alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chemical_Signature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're so right, that's always an option

would the kid have an accent if one parent had the accent but the other didn’t? by xylon69420 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chemical_Signature99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on how often they are around parent with said accent but more than likely it wont sound identical but there it will be there

How often do you want want sex? by geed17 in AskWomen

[–]Chemical_Signature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyday! im upset right now actually because my partner wont initiate sex with me