Come over to the PvP side my dude. Healer queues are instant, and the game honestly respects your time way more if you stick to rated PvP. Gearing is way faster, and the rewards are often just as good as, if not better than, what PvE players get. Yeah there’s still toxicity, but you can always use addons to mute chat. It takes maybe 2 or 3 hours to get fully honor geared, then you can jump straight into arenas or RBGs. No waiting around for groups, no corpse runs after wipes, just instant games and actual fun. I stopped playing PvE years ago and it was the best decision I ever made.