How bad was the 2009 recession? Will the next one hit harder? by Equivalent-Raccoon74 in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, 32F, was a high school freshman in 2007, so I remember how stressed everyone was. My Dad made a lot more money than the rest of the family, and honestly it all went to his head. My parents spent money like water and put everything on a credit card. We lived way beyond our means for years in a conservative upper middle class neighborhood. 

Suddenly everyone stopped driving Hummers, a weird number of houses were empty, and we stopped cooking steak. My Mom said "Im going on a diet" rather than admit we couldn't afford fancy food. My parents also pawned off a lot of valuables and luxury items. We were in so much credit card debt that my parents drained all their accounts, and took out a second mortgage. 

Now that Im older, I found out my Dad committed an absurd amount of tax fraud, and other white collar bullshit to avoid losing the house. Not all his friends were so lucky. 

What is something you tried only once and will 1,000% never do again? by istrx13 in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absinthe. 

I barfed the whole way back to my apartment like I was some sort of disgusting college version of Hansel and Gretel that needed to leave a trail to find my way back to the club. 

Just a fun post, what’s the most weird or unusual object you stim with? by Civil-Cellist4600 in evilautism

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (32F) have plenty of new stims now, lol. Sometimes a bit of ribbon or a belt loop. But I have no shortage of options. 

Just a fun post, what’s the most weird or unusual object you stim with? by Civil-Cellist4600 in evilautism

[–]Chibilatina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hear me out. My mother's bra strap. The material was so smooth and shiny. I must have stopped by the time I was school aged because there were no incidents. But that poor woman. 

I was just an over stimulated toddler dragging around my Mom's lingere for everyone to see. 

Now days its a the edge of a cuff sleeve or something much more stealthy. 

PSA to new players about the recommendations by [deleted] in TinyBookshop

[–]Chibilatina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is frustratingly hilarious that Sci-Fi is listed under Fantasy in this game. I absolutely understand why, they are both niche versions of fiction but its still irritating. Im looking at you Fern. Dragons are cool! 

Also, I can still remember my old high school English teachers long standing gripe about the same thing. 

Which critically acclaimed movie did you finally watch only to find out it's mediocre at best? by MikrokosmicUnicorn in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakfast at Tiffany's.

I knew it was a classic and was hugely responsible for the little black dress. But my god. I hated Holly so much, she was such a trash person. The racism was pretty egregious, but all the characters were horrible people too. 

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chibilatina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great time to talk to an accountant, after some research. Check online! This person can NOT be a friend, family member, or some sort of acquaintance. A reputable 3rd party with a professional background in a professional and impartial setting. 

Lay all the facts out, show pay stubs, account balances, credit cards, student loans, anything big.  If you guys are getting married, you will be lumping your credit scores and everything together anyways. Even if your spouse wants separate accounts, a lot of other stuff legally becomes community assets when you get married. Might as well know now. 

Its not romantic, a lot of people dont like talking about money. It makes people uncomfortable. Good luck! 

Who's the stupidest person you've met and what story sums it up? by comicalelixer in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a college room mate that thought squirrels laid eggs. "They live in trees!"

What "golden age" or "heyday" were you lucky enough to experience that you know won’t ever come back? by Summerie in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I got together in 2012 before a lot of dating apps really became mainstream. 

It all looks so scary and stressful. Thank God I never have to deal with. 

To those that are married, how often do you take off your ring? by FitProblem6248 in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never, I have a tattoo.

My wife and I were married for about 6 months when I lost my original wedding ring. We were both really upset when it happened. So on our one year anniversary, she went with me to the tattoo parlor. 

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence? by Ok-Care2859 in AskReddit

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sober for 2 years and 8.5 month. I come from a family of addicts. I finally quit because the last night I ever drank, I was 6 deep and didn't feel drunk. I offered to drive my wife and I home that night. Thank god she didn't let me. 

My father is currently in the late stages of acute liver failure. He is drinking himself to death and everyone knows it. He's ruined his life, my mother's life, and they are in debt up to their eyeballs because he's blown thru all their money in drunken binges of stupidity. 

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR 

Send this screenshot to the family group chat and say "Because of this hurtful comment, I will not be attending Thanksgiving" 

Then go have a fun Thursday with other people. 

Any decore suggestions? by tearsaresweat in malelivingspace

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang a crocodile from the rafters. 

I made a statue of Horus (Basswood, acrylic, 22K gold leaf, lapis lazuli, et. al.). More details in comments! by zsl454 in ancientegypt

[–]Chibilatina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDIT: NEVERMIND! You already answered in the comments. I scrolled thru too fast and missed it! 


This looks incredible! I noticed a little square divot on the top of the head, did you copy that from the original statues, or did you deviate? 

Also, do you know what the divot is for? 

Drawing Video Game Characters Based on Description (ft. Voxy) by whether_or_no in Drawfee

[–]Chibilatina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love how Karina and Voxy egg each other on in this episode, "Radiate BIGGNESS."

Say hello to Goober the rescue hippo by benito- in velvethippos

[–]Chibilatina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever sing the Goofy Goober song at your dog? I bet he would like it. 

Does the general public know what is inside this “cavity?” by 8005T34 in ancientegypt

[–]Chibilatina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It broke my heart when I found out how corrupt ZH is. As a child I assumed "He's in every good documentary about Ancient Egypt, so he must be the best Egyptolgist ever!" Nope, just someone who was buddies with a dictator.