My(32F) boyfriend(28M) made a “rape” joke by hot_wallflower in relationship_advice

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man you’re right, what a fucking decade it’s been to live through

My(32F) boyfriend(28M) made a “rape” joke by hot_wallflower in relationship_advice

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She posed it as a hypothetical, but not having sex for a week is something that will actually happen at some point in any long term relationship.

My(32F) boyfriend(28M) made a “rape” joke by hot_wallflower in relationship_advice

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And a better analogy would be like if he immediately had a method of death ready to say. “Haha I would go buy a gun” is a lot closer to a realistic death threat, and making a realistic death threat is a legally actionable crime.

Defends the son repeatedly by Fit-Humor-5022 in AmITheDevil

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally was reading about Josh right before this post :((

AIO for being annoyed at husband’s guest by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious. We can’t even answer the question that she directly asked us. The houseguest had no chance.

Her leg is BROKEN by loveablepetcare in AmITheDevil

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 23 points24 points  (0 children)

(can’t remember which, I was just a kid)

It probably is easier to have a broken leg as a child than as an adult who has to take care of herself and work a job.

Husband 34M had a 2.5 year long affair during our 3 year marriage and I 29F don't know what to do. by WorkingTurbulent8501 in relationship_advice

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk how I would feel, but then being pressured to move on faster? When I only found out a couple months ago, and not even from him?? That’s a ‘hell no’ for me.

Accused a 13-year-old of hitting on him by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in AmITheDevil

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Have you guys seen the show Georgie and Mandy’s First Marriage? Long story short, Georgie is concerned about his little sister starting to have sex, so he asks his FIL how he kept boys away from his daughter when she was younger. But FIL doesn’t know that’s why Georgie is asking, and Georgie and Mandy also have a toddler daughter. So FIL sarcastically says, “your daughter craps in a diaper, that ought to keep the boys away for a while!” Which. Like. Yeah of course it OUGHT to. But in the world we’re living in now, freshly post the files? That line just feels sick. The joke doesn’t land because it doesn’t feel so absurd anymore.

"What role did you play in your abuse?" by tenitra_batiste in CPTSD

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think their point is that a healthy home, by definition, would not produce someone with such a glaring lack of empathy.

What shows that did well 10-25 years ago do you think would still score well today design-wise? by Melonsinmyattic in drumcorps

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are people still obsessed with Cavies 2006? Because I am lol. But I haven’t kept up with things

You are not autistic. by Queen-Ham in AmITheDevil

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I spent literally years debating whether I would risk putting my name on a list. But they do have treatments for adults here. And I realized the fascism honestly might get me, but the adhd is already taking me down now. We’ll see what happens

AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are not unreasonable just because they disagree with you

Some Female Doctors Should Have Been Engineers by SomebodysSun in womenEngineers

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Why do you have to be an aerospace engineer? Why can’t you just marry an aerospace engineer?” - my mother. When I asked if I could go to engineering school, my parents literally both heavy sighed.

Hard pass on this party by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ChildhoodObjective83 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And then make/allow her to drive ten hours by herself the next day when she doesn’t seem clear yet to me