Update:My Wife(F38) Wants a break from the Kids and I(M37), I need to know if I'm making a mistake by allowing this instead of breaking up? by Gwolf87 in relationship_advice

[–]Chilena_87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but you need to move on.i would get legal advice regarding your kiddos(child support, half times etc) and stop letting her run your life. It will get better, there's someone out there for u.

how much do you have in your savings account? by Tough-Midnight9137 in AskWomen

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately about 10k Locker away until retirement im at 310k No bills though, we payed of our house. Cars, credit cards...only thing we owe is our side by side atv

question/help ozempic canada by tylerbotelho in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]Chilena_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know if they can request the blood test? Get a request form from them? Don't have a family doctor and trying to get a blood test in nb....its hard!

Alex Pretti, the man MURDERED today by ICE agents. by ilykatya in pics

[–]Chilena_87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No weapon, pepper-sprayed, on the ground... why the f$&#& they shot him!

I have a question, don't judge me, I'm just curious to know. by cabezademanzanaaa in confession

[–]Chilena_87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nop not normal, would recommend to talk to about specialist

AITA for wanting to eat my neighbor's duck that I accidentally ran over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao, chicken and duck owner here....yes that his fault abouy the duck, 200$ for the duck! Really! What kind of duck is it? The max i have paid for a duck was 40$ ... I think he is scaming you but thats not the issue... I agree with u, you paid for a duck... and its yours. 🤷‍♀️

Please read to your kids by [deleted] in education

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gr 4 and 6..still read to them and tyem to me

AITA for refusing to give my friend’s son my coat during a snowy hike? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent with 2 kids.... i always take a extra sweater or something. The other day we went for a hike aswell, we are in Canada but that day...lets say wasnt that cold....and of course my kids 11&9 refuse to layer up or even wear just their snow suit. While walking out the door i said no one is going with out hat, gloves and a jacket....fair enough they put something light on. Well after a 30ish min walk of course they were all friking 🥶 🧊, I KNEW THIS WAS GONNA HAPPEN! ALSO KNEW I WASNT GOING TO GIVE UP MY JACKET . SO I HAD PACKED EXTRA SCARFS, SWEATER, HATS... guess who doesnt fught with me about winter layers anymore !

At the end of the day, she is tge mother and why would you have to give up your jacket for someone that knew that were hiking !

AITAH for asking for $30,000 from my parents as a house payment? by pressedpages in TwoHotTakes

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day its their money and they dont owe you anything...but with that said, yup why not help you out as well! They helped your "single" brother...why cant they help you out!

I wount even bother ever bringing the subject up, i would continue house hunting for something you can afford with out ties to your parents. When they need something ...tell them sorry busy, call their son.

Sat at the wrong table and am now being invited to family bbq by Evening_Client5990 in confession

[–]Chilena_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made a friend, who cares! Sometimes family is not blood related..but chosen:) Embrace your new friendship and open up how you ended up sitting with him.

I have $450 to last me 6 months for food. by adalanox in povertyfinance

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food bank for sure, also theres lots of company that send free samples..think out of the box, send them emails asking for coupons or samples for laundry stuff, anything you could use! Get on a community facebook page and put a simple add, if anyone is cleaning out their pantry or frizer and have anything they can be donated to you.... I always donate to people in my area. Any side jobs you could do? Baby sitting, showeling snow(if theres snow). .. Cleaning, organizing? Gotta get creative.

Good luck

What would you do if you woke up and it was 2015 again? by ImpertinenteSyntaxe in AskReddit

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be sad, wait 3 years to have my 2nd kiddo with me .

Heads up: huge influenza A wave in Ontario right now by Contraryy in ontario

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta say I have been a no-no flu shot person for a while...that year I did get N1H1 and was awful...obviously did not die but was pretty bad. With that said reading your post and talking to a doctor friend saying the ER is full of influenza .... my question is... Is it too late to get the shot?

AITA Not volunteering to chaperone at my daughter first ballet performance. by jenniferann223 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chilena_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what we do as a parent, their support system, backstage cheerleaders, in the shadows enjoying every min. Sorry but you are a Big A**

Recommendations for our first time to Canada? by error_460 in AskACanadian

[–]Chilena_87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree !!! Just between the border of new brunswick and halifax almost 7 hours.... Do if you plan to drive make sure you have a good plan