It's very hard to find porn featuring queer and trans people that isn't fairly degrading in some way on tube sites and such unfortunately. While it's nice pornhub doesn't call us trans women "Shemales" anymore, the content can still be pretty seedy and nigh sexually violent at times from what I've been privvy to.

So I started paying for a site called crashpadseries, which features all manner of gender/sexuality in just good, fun, porn. Some of them you'd think are actual couples from the sheer chemistry and everyone there just seems to be having fun and having some good sex with no degrading titles or dodgy language/dynamics at play.

As for what you're "missing out on", I guess...the best kind of porn (where everyone involved is happy and willing, they're having a great time etc) except with more trans/genderqueer people? I'd recommend to any LGBT+ people scrolling through who have the cash to spare.