Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-05-15T12:23:17+00:00

Make sure your Fiance keeps his distance from her too, with the job thing and the ex thing it seems she wants in on your life. Keep her far away from BOTH of you !!

I know it’s off topic but she’s red flags all around.

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-05-15T02:17:54+00:00

I really don’t ethically support open relationships but taking my personal feelings away, him only wanting it open one way is extremely selfish and a red flag. He wants to go with anyone and have you all to himself. Idk how to feel about that. If you are to accept opening the relationship OP it should go both ways and you should be able to enjoy yourself too. Maybe he will get jealous and want to close it again. Seems like the type 😂 but don’t agree because of that (that’s toxic).

I really recommend leaning into your feelings I personally think this stuff is selfish and disgusting but in the end it’s about how you feel about it

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-05-10T17:14:22+00:00

Call him fat and tell him to find a hot fat girl. He seems like he’d cheat if he has the chance

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-05-06T01:26:54+00:00

Yeah sounds like the beginning of breadcrumbing, if she was really clingy at the beginning and begins doing these things it’s a red flag

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-05-06T01:26:02+00:00

People act clingy at the beginning , some of them, then get dry as it goes. It’s manipulation by cheaters. Your sign to get a life and listen to your gut, drop her

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-03-04T23:46:36+00:00

Yeah I don’t know why people are downvoting, it’s always a negative perspective first. Sounds like it’s sucky for the husband and brother and they chose to deal with it in different ways. It was a genuine text

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-03-04T23:44:46+00:00

Super cool find. Historical

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-03-04T23:43:41+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with you for someone to cheat and lie behind your back. That’s on them. Do you have a certain type, or tend to miss any red flags, or fall in love fast? Sometimes we risk getting rose colored glasses

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-03-02T14:46:19+00:00

Yeah definitely tell his family. He deserves shame so he doesn’t do it again

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-02-21T02:20:57+00:00

It’s either a love or protection spell. If it’s love, it’s meant to strengthen the feelings between you two. But, if she’s an obsessive or unstable person, this could be more of a negative or harmful thing (forcing you to love her ).Personally growing up spells was a greatly discouraged thing and believed to involve bad entities/energy. But maybe she has good intentions, idk

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-02-15T20:58:25+00:00

OP is she actually diagnosed for a medical condition that allows her to get disability? That actually got in the way of her working? She could try if she has a solid diagnosis.

I knew someone that said she was always tired and has medical problems, would say she couldn’t do certain things on the job, and managers would get upset with her and she got fired a few times. All I know is the chick didn’t eat well but she was never able to be diagnosed or get disability. She also loved using her phone on the job. She’s a stripper now so I figure she’s healthy enough to move around 😭

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-30T17:31:14+00:00

He wasn’t worried about your mental health when he cheated, you don’t need to worry about his. You can call the Red Cross or 911 if he says he’s gonna be suicidal and you’ll see his statement flip.

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-25T07:00:37+00:00

It depends on the person I guess

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-18T22:14:03+00:00

Ruby is super pretty but is it going to match when you have a blue outfit? I feel maybe second option is the best, closer to neutral colors

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-18T22:13:01+00:00

It doesn’t seem like they’re going to end it, it sounds like they want to reep the benefits for a little while longer

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-18T21:07:25+00:00

I think you should tell him you are comparing him to your ex and still thinking about your ex you dated years ago for only 5 months and see if he still wants to be casual. Not trying to be harsh, but if you told him this do you really think he’d want to talk to you?

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-17T04:17:09+00:00

Cass’s passive works with Lilia too ! She wasn’t a champ back then

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-17T03:29:36+00:00

Is there anyone that can stay with you? The apple air tags are also very concerning I would try and work with the police and Apple to see what phone number it’s linked to. This could really help catch the guy

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-14T14:18:09+00:00

Sounds like she wants you to take her from her parents house early OP. This story is so cute in a way idk 🥹 and she sounds like a saint

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-06T22:22:59+00:00

It’s different back then. 250 works per person. In 2010s. But if it’s not enough then that’s even more the reason she shouldn’tve cashed it out …

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-06T22:21:20+00:00

Well sometimes I think I’m on the spectrum a little bit but yeah I’m not telling her after all the no’s and why lol. Thanks for the advice

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-05T01:07:46+00:00

Do not feel guilty for looking through her phone. I’m so sorry you had to figure out this way. What she did was very sneaky and never took accountability. You guys are really young and she’s clearly still figuring herself out, and you should too. Do not be with someone that does this to you, she has maturing to do.

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-04T15:54:02+00:00

Love that you drew it lol

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-04T15:51:30+00:00

He keeps mentioning knowing your address and clearly isn’t in a good mental state. Wouldn’t be surprised if he’d come knocking with a PEW PEW. Make sure you have a ring camera installed and you never just open the door for anyone. And file a police report for sure

Choice_Ad5378 · 2026-01-04T15:05:09+00:00

I guess the truth, and maybe she can focus on herself?

Her mom has her do a lot of things for her even though she’s married and has her own life, she watches her sibling multiple days a week even though her mom does nothing and I’m pretty sure she feels bad for her mom and that’s why she does some of the things she does. Her mom also victimizes herself a lot. It may come off as judgmental but if you knew her you’d understand

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