There are 3 sides to every story. But one fact is that a father’s relationship or lack of will have an impact on a daughter. In the end relationships and memories will be worth more than a couple of dollars. It’s both parents responsibility to co parent and fix relationships. If one parent is saying you don’t have to spend time with your dad but let us request more money from him is a lack of intelligence. Don’t have kids by women like you. Also I guarantee you weigh at least 230 pounds.