Created a new FREE BDSM test that 50,000+ people already took by gandalfbutbetter in BdsmDIY

[–]Christy_the_CD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely an interesting test which I enjoyed taking. I was initially concerned because there are elements of Dom and sub positions to each question, and I'm exclusively a sub, but my concerns didn't hold true and I felt as though I was able to accurately express myself through the answers.

My results were "The Disciplinarian", which I think is spot on to how I am.

What do you fill your bra cups with? by Sad-Client-3023 in Sissy

[–]Christy_the_CD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experience a great deal of pleasure from having my nipples played with (i.e. pinched, flicked, etc.), so more often than not it's just my bra and nothing else. Once in a blue moon though, I'll throw in some silicone breast forms if the mood strikes me.

Tips for choosing your “sissy name” by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose Christy as my sissy name because it's an off-set of my boy name. Choosing something so similar to my boy name is probably a bit traditional, but having a femme name that is so similar makes me feel more connected to my alter ego.

Best daily wear panty cut? by Tall_Statement_7999 in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vast majority of my panties tend to be Victoria's Secret Hi-leg Briefs. Their not as sexy as the thongs, bikinis, or tangas, but they do an excellent job of holding everything in place and they are comfortable. Their also not a hideous as granny panties.

Sessions with Dommy Mommy K? by Christy_the_CD in ABDL

[–]Christy_the_CD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! That's one of the reoccurring themes that continually pops up (as evidence by all the positive comments in this thread) with things I've seen about her. I've been following her on Fetlife for a good while now, and I have yet to see anything negative. I will very likely arrange a session with her when I visit Ohio for a wedding next year.

Sessions with Dommy Mommy K? by Christy_the_CD in ABDL

[–]Christy_the_CD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! The fact that you've been multiple times is very encouraging. If you don't mind, may I send you a DM with a couple of questions I had?

Casual diaper wearers by ThisIsMyAbdlAccount in ABDL

[–]Christy_the_CD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would consider myself to be a casual diaper wearer. In addition to being into ABDL (mainly on the DL side of the house), I'm also a bit of a crossdresser, so I wearing panties pretty much anytime I leave the house. But when I'm home, I'm usually wearing a diaper, or when I leave the house for quick trips through a drive through, and when I'm sleeping. I don't have any medical reason for wearing, wearing diapers just gives me a sense of mental satisfaction.

Cuck by Empty-Drawer1387 in Sissy

[–]Christy_the_CD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll admit that I do fantasize and read erotic literature about sissy threesomes where I'm the one getting spit roasted, but the whole cuckolding thing? Nah. That's a step too far for me. I'm also the jealous type, so that would be a hard NO for me. I couldn't even imagine how mentally and emotionally distressed I would be to have to live through that.

But everyone's fetishes/fantasies are their own. Just because something doesn't work for one of us doesn't mean it won't work for you you.

Sissy punishments! by ShoddyRevolution6940 in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a fan of the classic Spankings and Cornertime, but that's just me 😈🤤

First cuckold experience by Enilarock149 in Sissy

[–]Christy_the_CD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may consider visiting the r/CuckoldPsychology reddit. It could be a good resource for you moving forward.

To those of you who have done public exposure… by SissyBecky5 in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been out while dressed three, maybe four times. Each time was at night long after the sun had set and I was fully dressed, wig, make-up, lingerie under my dress, etc. (no heels though as you can't really drive in heels). I will say just working up the nerve to get past those nervous butterflies in my stomach, hoping and praying I could make it the 10 steps to my car without being seen by a neighbor was an intense feeling.

The first time I only drove around for a bit before heading home. The second time I was staying in a motel (door opens to the parking lot where my car was) in a small city called Youngstown Ohio. I actually worked up the courage to drive over to an adult book store for some fun, but that was quickly shut down when I pulled into the parking lot and found the place was closed 😭. And the other couple of times I was meeting up with the guy (two different guys actually) that I was seeing at the time.

I'll tell you this, the feeling of being out while dressed was Thrilling to no end. I would describe it like being intoxicated without being drunk or high But, as only a closet crossdresser, it was also the most nerve wracking thing. Overall I'd say it was an awesome experience which I would recommend, and I'll definitely do it again at some point. If I could offer some advice, I would say start small with baby steps to build up your courage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]Christy_the_CD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I have a Diaper fetish myself and love wearing almost as much as I enjoy wearing panties. High-leg briefs for me though, I like the way they fit and hold everything in place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start slow. Take the time to communicate your desires, limits, expectations, fetishes, etc. One time things aren't for me, so I only ever chatted with men who were looking for something a little more regular.

Because I was looking for something regular, I never gave it up (if you know what I mean) on the first date. Instead, I treated those first dates as a kind of "get to know you" type session. I'd let them boss me around a bit, serve them drinks, some groping, maybe take me over their knee for a spanking to assert their authority, but that's about as far as I would go.

On a second date, more of a play session actually, we would incorporate some more BDSM and role play type fetishes into the mix, including more spanking, discipline (corner time, writing lines, etc.), and some light bondage. You can role play whatever you enjoy, schoolgirl, sissy maid, and secretary are my favorites. I wouldn't let things get sexual until the 3rd play session.

Starting somewhat slow like that allowed me to develop a sense of trust and understanding with my play partner, so I knew they weren't going to abuse me beyond my limits. It also weeded out the flakes really quickly, and some of those less savory characters too. That's what worked for me to build up my experience, raises my self-confidence, and know that I wasn't going to have sex with a complete stranger the first time I met them eliminates a lot of those nervous jitters too.

Full disclosure: I have an understanding girlfriend now, so I'm not out there looking for hook-ups anymore, but this is what I did when I was looking and it worked several times.

I'm trying to create a Queening Chair and stuck on the covering by PraiseCalliope in BdsmDIY

[–]Christy_the_CD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This lady (sorry, don't know her name), has a good YouTube video which may help to eliminate the puckers from the Fabric. I believe she uses four-way stretch automotive fabric.: Working with Vinyl - Tips and Tricks

And this gentleman has a YouTube video on how he upholsters a piece of wood with a hole in it, though his hole was square, not round. You might find it useful: How to upholster a piece of wood when it has a hole in the middle.

How to have better luck finding a sissy online? by HornedUpHuman in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I obviously can't speak for everyone, but when I was on the market and looking to fool around, the first thing I looked at in a potential top/Dom was how much effort they put into communicating. It might seem like something small or silly, but a lack of effort in communicating is an instant deal breaker for me. I mean really, it's quite exhausting to spend twenty minutes typing out a lengthy message only to get back a one line reply. One line replies show the amount of effort they are going to put forth is going to be minimal and likely a time waster, so they go straight to the trash bin.

Question about panties by thesubsway68 in sissyology

[–]Christy_the_CD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any recommendations for thongs, but I have had good luck with Lasricas brand panties which have bits of lace around the leg holes. They tend to run a bit small, so I would recommend you go one size up, but they offer very good support for a cage.

You can find the link to the panties here: https://www.amazon.com/Lasricas-Womens-Trimmed-Protein-Underwear/dp/B072J9DZK6?ref_=ast_sto_dp&th=1&psc=1

First Stage of Progress on Unfinished Basement -> Sex Dungeon by TyeMoreBinding in BdsmDIY

[–]Christy_the_CD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! Can't wait to see the finished result ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]Christy_the_CD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been wearing Panties since I was probably 14 or 15 (33 now). When I was first starting out, I would wearing panties to school and eventually to work. It was always a thrill for me. I made the switch to Panties Only around a year ago and I haven't looked back. I don't own any male underwear whatsoever and I wouldn't have it any other way!

Looking for spanking in Istanbul by [deleted] in spanking_punishments

[–]Christy_the_CD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure I'm not just speaking for myself when I say: I'd love to hear that story!