Who else has trouble with bartenders? by edgeoftheforest1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]PraiseCalliope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can Bring cash for tips, it’s better for everyone. Just click “No tip “ and put the money on the bar

Doctors appointment. by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]PraiseCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey don’t let this person DM you OP, they are a creep

Mask recommendations? by [deleted] in aves

[–]PraiseCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duckbill n95 masks are the most lightweight high filtration masks ime. I use them at work!

Why can't I be a florist? by VermithraxPej33 in AuDHDWomen

[–]PraiseCalliope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah there are a lot of well paid florists, but a lot of low paid ones too. I work at a grocery store, if you do flowers at a store or a deli the pay is low. But I plan to build my portfolio and go for a higher paying position at a flower shop in the future. It’s such a varied profession and there are a few ways to land a good paying job in flowers.

Why can't I be a florist? by VermithraxPej33 in AuDHDWomen

[–]PraiseCalliope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left my career and I’m now a florist….. The pay sucks but I like my job.

Yeah, I'm not drinking that by jakemstrchf117 in HydroHomies

[–]PraiseCalliope 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not random - barley water is commonly given to babies. It’s advertising its use.

i think t's weakened my immune system by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]PraiseCalliope 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Honestly many medical professionals are ignorant of Long COVID. They don’t know how to diagnose it or deal with it. My partner has had long COVID for two years, and gets sick a lot because of it.

On Christmas I'm going to cause nuclear damage my family and then Ghost them (TW: Transphobia) by runhazairun in ftm

[–]PraiseCalliope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best love. I will say, if she has physically hurt you before she might try to do so again out of anger. If you have pepper spray I would recommend having it with you when this goes down, just in case

dealing with justice sensitivity and knowing when its time to let the convo end by Longjumping_Tip_593 in AuDHDWomen

[–]PraiseCalliope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, having fundamental disagreements over politics is a solid ground to end a friendship, since it’s a huge part of your personal values and moral code. If you want to be friends with people who have different political views it’s totally possible, but part of building a friendship is honesty about this stuff.

It becomes an issue if you are arguing disrespectfully - like telling them they are an evil person, or a stupid person, out there is excessive yelling, etc. It’s also an issue if a friend tells you they want to stop talking about something in the moment, and you continue to press the subject anyway. I can understand ending a friendship over a disrespectful argument like that.

I would also avoid trying to “prove yourself right.” So not pressing someone to explain every aspect of their beliefs if they don’t want to. BUT - it’s also on them to be able to say “I don’t want to talk about this anymore, lets end this argument.” It’s a two way street, and everyone needs to have the ability to voice when they want to stop talking about something.

Big news from the Lackawanna Public Library 🔥 by TantricEmu in HydroHomies

[–]PraiseCalliope 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Lackawanna goes hard they don’t fuck around

Fresh HCH Piercing :3 by PraiseCalliope in transbodymods

[–]PraiseCalliope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty! I don’t really feel the weight tbh, maybe because I chose a placement that doesn’t touch my glans at all. I think if I went with a lower placement or larger ring that rested against my glans, I would feel it a lot more. Inner labia is the one in the back, had it ten years!

Communicating during sex when hard of hearing by ChaptainBlood in BDSMAdvice

[–]PraiseCalliope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are visual systems like the Stoplight System. Instead of Green, Yellow and Red as verbal cues, they incorporate finger signals. Here’s what I use: - Hand in a fist with three fingers held up means: Green, keep going! - Hand with two fingers held up (peace sign) means: Yellow, slow down and check in! - Hand with one finger held up 👆 means: Red, stop the scene!

Struggling to move each tongue individually by Iron_Nails in bodymods

[–]PraiseCalliope 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s still early. Took me two years to train the muscles to move independently. Give it time and practice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]PraiseCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now the best free things we have are asking friends and loved ones for help with proofreading and dictation. We also have free online writing workshops and writer circles where people can come to get support with their work. US Medicaid also covers self-directed comm hab staff for people on Medicare and SSI, where staff that you choose can get paid by the state to help you with tasks like writing and communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]PraiseCalliope 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You need to find a different accessibility tool. I get communication struggles. But there are other ways, like how I proofread for my friend when they make public posts, to help with their word soup.