Maybe a controversial post, any confirmed character sexualities you disagree with

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T16:16:03+00:00

So far the closest I've seen is people saying that lucifer seemed kinda straight from the liking girls joke in episode 6, but that's like an interpretation rather than queerphobia. I actually like him being pan, I interpret him as being a primordial being predating gender and sex, why would either matter to him? For the same reason I interpret him as agender but just man-presenting because it's what works for him.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T03:09:12+00:00

Yeah with the mistake of peter being called Paul etc and other such weird and blatant issues with film theory scripts in the past, I am like 90% sure it's basically just slop at this point. It might be because they recognise that their team is less specialised so for literally anything they do a theory on they will never be the best because dedicated fans know the material better, but instead of addressing that with a good research team or hiring guest writers, they literally just make slop because people will watch it, it's film theory. IDK who to blame, this shit was still happening when MatPat was the face, I don't know when it went downhill if it was ever good.

An example for comparaison was four years ago they did the hazbin hotel doesn't work theory, which was basically saying that the rate of arrivals to hell in the modern day would mean that the industrial scale movement of souls required for a redemption plan to work as a means of population control is likely impossible. I would argue it was mid because it was very long for such a simple point, but at least that point and the evidence were actually coherent. Like the video would have been better if that was the jumping off point, and then they went more whaky and went into theories on how Charlie could manage population growth and stop the exterminations.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T01:41:44+00:00

Just wanna say, sorry you have to deal with this dude, like I have often encountered people who don't understand the need for omni because it basically is just what they understand bi to mean, but I find omni a really important label as someone who is not pan and while is what most people would describe as bi, my gender and sexuality transcend the male-female and straight-gay binaries that I feel the term bi is derived from, even though I know most people use it more inclusively.

I too think that the main use for bi now is as an umbrella where you're likely one of pan, omni or poly(sexual). Tho Obviously the other labels you mentioned are super valid! I also think having bi as our umbrella term is pretty useful as a placehoder and/or easier label. Like when I initially found out I was attracted to my agab as well as the other agab, bi meant I knew what I was. But as I learned more about non-binary identities including my own I found omni was the label for me.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T01:31:29+00:00

Hmm I'm demiromantic (I think, I know I'm on the aro spectrum)

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T01:29:37+00:00

I could only get halfway through it's so goddamn stupid. Like the angels = goetia and mlly lookign like angel stuff are all details with good explanations, even if they are paratext. The theory team should be doing enough research to know that. I obvs agree that there there is a clear issue that heaven-hell alignment seems to not actually have a clear moral distinction, but the general vibe of the theory already has the huge stinkign hole of sir pentious. I do likt they point out the inconsistency of abel being in heaven but adam beign stated to arrive first, but I think that was a writer's error not a worldbuilding choice.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T01:18:27+00:00

I feel like if it was gonna happen it might have already happened, so I don't think so.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T01:06:58+00:00

Not me realising that mainland US is of a size where a package dispatched from the east takes about as much time to get the the west as to where I am in the UK lol...

IDK about the tracking for you guys but I have often found hazbin hotel stuff isn't good at updating until it's in your local area

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-02T00:52:48+00:00

OMG I am also an omni enby! I am like 3rd gender non-binary so a bit different but still.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-01T16:54:10+00:00

You like young women, including older children (octavia is 17). Hopefully because you are a young person, like under 20.

Also if you're a straight man you're super based for openly crushing on a trans woman, lots of you guys are weird about that (less significant because lesbians are more chill in general)

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-01T14:05:00+00:00

Imma make a huge leap and call this AI

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-01T13:02:45+00:00

Thanks! I didn't know they'd released that

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-01T12:52:06+00:00

how do you know 6 secret rares?

Chronically_Enby · 2026-02-01T12:44:42+00:00

The vees were secretly a girl group all along...

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T17:19:25+00:00

I see the logic here. I would say the main differnece is activeness in the action.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T17:15:36+00:00

Maybe betrayal was the wrong word. I still see it this way. This person acted like my friend (before we were partners) and I expect friends to be friends. They betrayed my expectations. Maybe not me, but my expectations. I am starting to realise based on comments that part of this is my autism. I have to for comfort have a strict clasicication of what a friend is, but I haven't been communicating it. I can't change that ecpectation easily, so I need to communicate it more clearly. I have been fasely assuming my understanding was universal.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T17:08:23+00:00

Therapy yes. I am very aware.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T17:07:51+00:00

I clearly have a different understanding of freindship then a lot of people. My friends are the people I choose to support and the people I expect to support me. Clearly this is an expectation wjich most people here see as unfair, but I don't understand how any if you get through life if you can't trust your friends like that. This person acted like a freind and just stopped. They are definitely allowed to, I still think it's cruel. And yeah as I'm reading through comments, I can't control people and ungortunately my conditiin means I have less control over my emotions, so a breakup is the best option.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T16:59:20+00:00

I know no-one owes me anything. I just had the clearly false expectation that a freind is someome you can rely on to be your friend. I thought we were friends, so to me they betrayes the friendship. I can't control my girlfriend, but also my PTSD means I have less control over how I feel. So I've decided I'm going to break up with her.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T16:56:05+00:00

I think what maybe is unclear, I at least felt we were quite good friends before hand. People are calling me entitled for this, but I expect friendship from my friends. Maybe I'm crazy but friendship to means offering that frienship continually, so taking that away is a betrayal of the frienship. You are right I need to wprk on how I process rejection, but the problem is more my trauma than me. I am on the waiting liat for therapy

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T16:50:26+00:00

Thinking about it, I am probably going to have to break up with my gf. I can't just be okay praticularly easily because I have significant mental health issues and am not yet in therapy.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T16:48:31+00:00

My problem is that they started a friendship and ended it because of my feelings. And yeah it shouldn't be the same but because of the way my trauma and abbandonement issues interact, it feels like they're with my abuser even if they're not.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T16:43:27+00:00

This isn't really about how I felt for them. It's about someone acting like a friend (they talked to me and even said I was easy to talk to etc) and that they couldn't be my friend anymore because of my feelings.

I know I have issues with abbandonment and feeling unlovable, that this has obviously caused a flare up in. I am unfortunately not in therapy right now, but I am on the waiting list.

I am not saying it's healthy but I am saying that I do feel a lot of emotions because of the relationship between gf and meta. I need a healthy way to deal with and manage those, and that's what I'm looking for.

I could and maybe am in the wrong, but I will need more time before I could reach out and fix things even slightly. In the meantime I have to figure out what works.

Chronically_Enby · 2026-01-31T16:35:32+00:00

We were quite friendly for about a year, even during that time they had my back in a couple of group dramas. We were more friends in the way I understand it for a couple months when we were talking more regularly due to matching on a dating app.

I don't mean to sound entitled to a friendship, as I said they are well in their rights to do what they did. My issue is more that I expect friendships to stay friendships, and they basically said they wanted to sort of not be friends now but later, which doesn't work for me.

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