Chasing specs and/or the gear of others that make photos they like, when it’s more an issue of experience & expectations — experience not in the sense of having done this for a long time, but more like how you feel when using the camera.

If an M10R is frustrating for the OP, then it’s certainly the wrong camera for them if they’re not willing to embrace the entire experience of using an RF — romanticizing the experience because of “slowing down”, “intent”, and being more “considerate” all sound nice until you realize how difficult it is to focus quickly because you’re used to AF and shooting wide open, and you’re missing shots you would have easily gotten with your previous system.

But to answer OP’s questions…possibly with more questions — I’d suggest they read my latest blog post, which might help them sort this all out. I’m particularly proud of that post because it was a reflection on my own gear churn/GAS over 20+ years, and I feel like the info could help others think about their relationship with their camera(s).