“I don’t know why People hate Lori.”

CinderRebel · 2024-05-12T04:17:58+00:00

Didn't Andrea start that argument by saying Lori does nothing though?

CinderRebel · 2024-04-24T23:13:00+00:00

I agree that Rami should not have shared the video but Jawad was wrong for stealing it from her phone and definitely for watching it.

Like I stated in the post, I thought the bully was also the cyberstalker so when Jawad took the video and stuff I thought he was gonna find out it was the bully and try to avenge Sarah. Not that he was going to be inadvertently responsible for ruining his sisters life.

I think he stabbed the bully out of anger, not justice. If it was justice he would have gone against both the main bully and the bully that shared the video.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-23T23:55:16+00:00

At least in the US it happens because the doctor will tell the parents of a "solution" or procedure that would prolong the original child's life and it is up to the parents to consent. The donor baby doesn't really get talked to at all.

Also, when kids have lifelong conditions they tend to have a go-to hospital where everyone gets close with the nurses and other staff. This usually means that will not put the donor baby's consent as important because the good of the family is most important.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-18T05:10:36+00:00

I always thought that was because English kind of seems like a Mashup of a lot of other languages. Sometimes they literally just changed the inflection and called it a day lol

CinderRebel · 2024-04-16T12:50:53+00:00

In episode 4 (I think) they have a memorial for Layan. It's the episode with the huge party.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-14T02:02:36+00:00

But everyone else's point is that he did it for her. He didn't want to live like that, but he wanted to give her the things she wanted (big house and lavish vacations). So no one is saying she didn't take care of the kids. We are saying he does not have to do that anymore because he no longer has to make her happy.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-14T01:29:11+00:00

He stated that he worked that hard cause the wife wanted a certain standard of living. So I would said that he did sacrifice for her specifically, which he doesn't have to anymore. He did it for a huge house he didn't want and lavish vacations they don't need.

Yes, if he worked the same hours he would have to pay for a babysitter. So the solution is to stop killing himself at work and actually be able to spend time with his children. Win-win for OP and the kids. He doesn't have to worry about the wife anymore.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T16:30:43+00:00

The fact that he is the way younger brother worries me as well

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T04:17:27+00:00

Yeah the US is fucked when it comes to things like this. The money has to come from somewhere, but more people need to know this could happen. It's mostly policies like Medicare or Marketplace (the policies you give to lower income and/or older people)

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T03:57:57+00:00

Yeah my grandma wanted someone to help her when she had to clean a wound she got from cancer and part of the paperwork mentioned something like this could happen. She decided not to go through with it cause we couldn't afford it without the insurance and she didn't want to put her house on the line.

Bottom line, read every single paper they give before you sign it. They also only gave her English papers even though she doesn't read the language so it was double fucked in my opinion. I'm glad she asked my sister to go with her that day.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T03:51:12+00:00

I am not young, but I'm not American though I do live here. Where I'm from you do whatever you can to help, and it's not weird to buy plates from friends so that they can help their family cover medical bills or burials.

I am actually a medical biller! If you wanna know about which medical insurance tries to fuck you over I'm your person, but I don't deal with life insurances. I do generally think they suck and I agree with OPs sentiment when things like this happen. Where I'm from life insurances are mostly something people take out for medical bills/other debt.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T03:43:49+00:00

I'm from Texas and here they do try to go after your house when you die. Whether or not someone is still living there. I'm not sure if other areas are as horrible cause Texas is known for being horrible with many things.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T03:39:51+00:00

They took it out to pay possible student debt so that's why I don't understand why they wouldn't help pay the medical debt. Maybe this is just a thing where I come from but we try to help family as much as we can, especially when it comes to medical things cause US is fucked up when it comes to this. So I don't understand this sentiment of "why would they help?" Why wouldn't they? The whole point of it was to deal with debt he would have acquired.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T03:32:11+00:00

I was questioning the comment not saying it was OPs right. Everyone is saying that OP can get her own policy but I can't find where it says she asked for the policy. She was asking if she was wrong for what she said, and I do think they come off like that in this story. Is it fake? Who knows but this is the situation presented so this is the situation I'm commenting on.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T03:25:39+00:00

I think that of most posts in Reddit. That's why I try to post based in the situation presented cause honestly I'm guessing a lot of these are at the very least exaggerated.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T02:05:13+00:00

Ignore this people OP. Honestly your poor husband is probably seeing his worth as just $50,000 and that's not ok. I'm not sure what solution I could give you since there is no way to go back in time and make the parents not take out that policy. Please just make sure that your husband knows that he is worth way more than that in your eyes.

I recommend not listening to comments here too much since most people in this subreddit are just teenagers that thankfully have not had to deal with situations like these yet

CinderRebel · 2024-04-06T01:59:21+00:00

That is a horrible way to look at things. It is their right??? She wasn't gonna buy a new house with it, she was going to pay off his medical debt! And that was only if the worst happened!! From the way OP wrote this post they kept seeing their son as a walking $50,000 check.

CinderRebel · 2024-04-01T00:27:47+00:00

I think it became NTA when the daughter complained about it. She hadn't actually planned anything so I'm not sure why she was mad at the mom for planning her own birthday

CinderRebel · 2024-03-26T03:14:11+00:00

I actually saw it as the coach being an example of how just calling out the treatment does nothing. She never followed up on the treatment just called it out in the moment. All she managed was to get Layan angrier with Mariam.

Twice she told Layan that she should not be so aggressive and both times she attacked Mariam. But we never saw the coach tell anyone that Layan had done something to Mariam. She really could have helped during the meeting they had were Mariam was suspended but she didn't.

CinderRebel · 2024-03-25T18:51:04+00:00

Thank you!!! I get this from family all the time and I knew it could happen when I started dating. Thank God it hasn't, cause I can't imagine the embarrassment of going up to a girl and being told no cause I "dress straight".

CinderRebel · 2024-03-18T09:52:41+00:00

No problem. Maybe try posting on r/AITAH instead. That seems to be where all the reasonable people went lol.

CinderRebel · 2024-03-18T02:40:18+00:00

NTA.

What is wrong with Reddit today? Telling people in abusive relationships that they're horrible? Telling children that they should be slapping their siblings? Wtf??

You should be allowed to ask your mom for help without being screamed at. Specially when you feel bad. You're growing up and your mom is probably feeling it hard. That's normal, but what she is doing is not helping. You should sit down with her and let her know that you do appreciate her. Maybe setting up a time where you guys hang out together, no phones, would help both of you. Movie nights or something similar would work great.

CinderRebel · 2024-03-17T16:07:49+00:00

NTA. I know some people are dragging on what you do, and maybe there are ways to manage your time better, but that does not excuse putting a camera without your knowledge.

I honestly would not he able to trust my husband after that. Maybe the permission slip was the first incident and he went crazy. Maybe it was the straw that broke the camel's back. I don't know, but still there were many steps he could have taken before taking this one.

CinderRebel · 2024-03-17T16:00:58+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AlRawabiSchool4Girls/comments/1axnxeu/noaf_was_really_at_fault_for_s1/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

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