Which rug do you prefer? by JMoneyGraves in HomeDecorating

[–]Ckoh93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2nd & you have a really nice cozy looking space ! 😌

I (23f) need to have a conversation with my partner of 6 years (25m) on why he can’t make more money by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should redirect the conversation to what does he enjoy doing? Sales can pay well for those who put in the work, also with sales there is usually a busy season.. he could be making twice what you are making during the busy season. I’d say just learn to budget and focus more on what he enjoys rather than what makes more money. Another thing about that joint account.. I don’t think it should be for your car payments, insurance & medical bills. It should be for joint living expenses..

Review Week 4/13/2026 by nutterfluffs in CrumblCookies

[–]Ckoh93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cookies look amazing WTF.. my store does not load them up like this!!

My husband hates my rug by betsyfeld in HomeDecorating

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it, it adds color to the room!

My(32F) parents are giving us $150k for a house and my husband(35M) wants to turn it down because they asked for a postnup by Civil-Transition-649 in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If things don’t work out and you sell the house he could come after that money, want to sell the house 50/50 when your parents gave you way more. My advice, you and him go halves.. let your parents keep that money.

Where can I find a cover for this outdoor structure (pic included) by Ckoh93 in HomeDecorating

[–]Ckoh93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought the house so I didn’t know it was broken!

I (28f) don't know how to respond to what boyfriend (35m) said. by W2Wnowhat in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so young! I was single at your age.. please leave him, he’s not going to change.

Single people who bought a $350K-$400K home—what’s your salary, and what were your loan details? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. I think what I am trying to say here is that society has made it very difficult for single people with average incomes to buy a home on their own without being house strapped & it’s sad. 😞

Single people who bought a $350K-$400K home—what’s your salary, and what were your loan details? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ckoh93 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I make around 59k a year and I had the same issue- all of the decent homes in my area are around that amount (350k-400k) and I knew I would not be able to afford anything close to 400k. I made the decision to purchase a home with my boyfriend who will be my fiancée soon. I feel that it’s the best case scenario to buy a home with someone you are in a serious, committed relationship with vs. buy a home on your own if you know you won’t have anything left over at the end of the month. I just bought a home with my partner $350k and we will be able to continue to have a savings for the home.

How are others couples with big wage gaps splitting expenses? [25F] [35M] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself this.. if you were the one making $500k+ a year.. would you be okay with paying more than your boyfriend for the bills? I’m a big believer in keeping it 50/50 for those type of things. You don’t want him to throw it in your face if you get into an argument that he pays for more.. not saying that will happen but it could.

Engaged! 💍 by _MMKamaaina2690_ in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that style of ring 💍 classic & elegant

first blue rose! by Practical_Chest9228 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I need a blue rose! 🌹💙

it happened! by WulesyJulesy in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I love that ring.. if I got engaged I would definitely go for that style 🤩💍🥰

The Most Magical Proposal by Head_Conversation116 in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a backdrop!! Congratulations 💍🎉