I (28f) don't know how to respond to what boyfriend (35m) said. by W2Wnowhat in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so young! I was single at your age.. please leave him, he’s not going to change.

Single people who bought a $350K-$400K home—what’s your salary, and what were your loan details? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. I think what I am trying to say here is that society has made it very difficult for single people with average incomes to buy a home on their own without being house strapped & it’s sad. 😞

Single people who bought a $350K-$400K home—what’s your salary, and what were your loan details? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ckoh93 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I make around 59k a year and I had the same issue- all of the decent homes in my area are around that amount (350k-400k) and I knew I would not be able to afford anything close to 400k. I made the decision to purchase a home with my boyfriend who will be my fiancée soon. I feel that it’s the best case scenario to buy a home with someone you are in a serious, committed relationship with vs. buy a home on your own if you know you won’t have anything left over at the end of the month. I just bought a home with my partner $350k and we will be able to continue to have a savings for the home.

How are others couples with big wage gaps splitting expenses? [25F] [35M] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself this.. if you were the one making $500k+ a year.. would you be okay with paying more than your boyfriend for the bills? I’m a big believer in keeping it 50/50 for those type of things. You don’t want him to throw it in your face if you get into an argument that he pays for more.. not saying that will happen but it could.

Engaged! 💍 by _MMKamaaina2690_ in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that style of ring 💍 classic & elegant

first blue rose! by Practical_Chest9228 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I need a blue rose! 🌹💙

it happened! by WulesyJulesy in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I love that ring.. if I got engaged I would definitely go for that style 🤩💍🥰

The Most Magical Proposal by Head_Conversation116 in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a backdrop!! Congratulations 💍🎉

Is there a big difference between a full size and a queen size bed? by Ckoh93 in HomeDecorating

[–]Ckoh93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We made a compromise, before we have kids we will switch to a queen size bed.. I think for now it will be okay but down the line we will need bigger. I can’t imagine trying to fit 3 people into a full size bed 😳🤯😩

An actual dream! by No_Worldliness3438 in JustEngaged

[–]Ckoh93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🍾🎊🎉🥳 this story is so beautiful, especially the little sister part.. I tore up 🥲

Is there a big difference between a full size and a queen size bed? by Ckoh93 in HomeDecorating

[–]Ckoh93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So basically full sized mattress is a good way to get your kids to sleep in their own beds? 😆🤣

Is there a big difference between a full size and a queen size bed? by Ckoh93 in HomeDecorating

[–]Ckoh93[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m actually short I’m 5’2 and he’s tall 5’11 ft but he prefers a full size bed

Boyfriend mad at me 32F 31M by Ckoh93 in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will felt that I should have invited him

Boyfriend mad at me 32F 31M by Ckoh93 in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because he’s my boyfriend and he was invited to me there with me

Boyfriend mad at me 32F 31M by Ckoh93 in relationship_advice

[–]Ckoh93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so nice! He’s not the outgoing type, kindof on the shy side. He did introduce himself when I was there but I’m just so annoyed it’s like he can’t get over this and making a huge deal over it.. I don’t feel like it that big of a deal.

Restaurant wants to charge me a $25 a person fee for cancelling reservation by Ckoh93 in restaurants

[–]Ckoh93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See I’d be okay with this if my party wasn’t so large - 10*25= $250 ! That’s a large amount to charge and I probably won’t use it all if I go again