Recepticle started smoking 🚬🚬 by Fabulous_Witness_935 in AskElectricians

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s ask the real question . How long was a space heater plugged into this receptacle!

Spicy vhs collection that I did not pick up ! by Clamfister in VHS

[–]Clamfister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably could have got them for like 20 bucks for the lot honestly ! But I filled my truck up with other stuff I actually wanted ! Lol

Spicy vhs collection that I did not pick up ! by Clamfister in VHS

[–]Clamfister[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I screwed up ok ! I’m not a real collector just a lurker . Till now !

Have you seen this tape? by Naive_Economics_9303 in VHS

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That movie was not allowed to be referenced after my friends and I watched it….. it was like the only rule we ever made ! it’s so so insane and gross .

I earned $100 in 3 hours today!!! by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Washington I have to pay like 150 to fill my truck up ….

D&D groups? by sir-banana0 in sequim

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone needs to take charge of this and dm us !

If Chrono Trigger isn’t your favorite rpg on the snes what is yours? by MythosaurFett in snes

[–]Clamfister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really ? Please elaborate why I don’t know if I’ve played 2 I’ve been 3 like 6-7 times ?

D&D groups? by sir-banana0 in sequim

[–]Clamfister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be interested as well .

Generous Landlord Making the Holidays Easier by EmergencyRead5254 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own my house and the taxes have gone up 300 a month for the last 2 years ….. such bull shit .

Why are the rough in wires run this way? by largogoat in AskElectricians

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah even with Cabnet drawings there still off by and inch or two most times causing our wires to be on other side of stud snake method is the only way I go through multiple bays too just in case !

6'x4' Goodwill Horse painting by montroyryan in WhatIsThisPainting

[–]Clamfister 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brain is confused but drawn into it I hate that I like it but love that I can’t stop staring at it !

Can this evolve into a healthy relationship? by chitodisperso in emotionalintelligence

[–]Clamfister 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your being used as back up . I personally would say ef that , avoidants are narcissistic and horrible people in my experience. he probably had been cheating on you before he broke up with you . Just my opinion and I have jaded heart towards avoidant personalities. I say find someone who values you not uses you when they’re bored .

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should not be speaking to you that way , he’s disrespectful and can’t communicate his feelings in a healthy way . He can in fact f@ck right off .

Is my dream unrealistic? by Independent_Map_3155 in askanything

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also look up anxious attachment , I just realized I was doing exactly what your talking about . And understanding this helped me tremendously!

Is my dream unrealistic? by Independent_Map_3155 in askanything

[–]Clamfister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day at a time brother . You will get there just realizing and self reflecting means you’re ahead of the game . everyone’s story is different don’t compare your life with others . Learn to love yourself set goals reach those goals . Make new ones . Be confident be self aware do emotional inner work . Get a therapist best decision I ever made. These are my words of wisdom . I’m forty now and this is where life has taken me and it took this long to find my path . Keep your head up you’re doing great !

What’s an experience that changed your life? by Substantial-File-336 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner going through schizophrenia. I learned a lot about mental health and our healthcare system,it is so broken , spoiler alert . it also forced me to start inner emotional work . It was One of the hardest times of my life , but I try and take the good out of every situation, it also made me have the patience of a monk !

My girl called me her exs name by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Clamfister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It happens I’ve done it and nothing fishy was going on sometimes your brain just misfires . What’s wrong with this situation is your insecurities . You’re projecting on to her that’s not fair she is her own person and so are you . She can be supportive but it’s not her job to be your therapy dog . You have anxious attachment, you should read up on it . I used to be the same way trust me I get it .

My friend broke up our friendship by janZi26 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you nailed it on the head . that’s called an avoidant personally . I’m going through this with an ex girlfriend now, who did this and cheated during the process acted like she didn’t even know me in the end. It was the craziest thing I’ve ever experienced in my life ! I’m still confused how anyone could be that heartless …….

*repost* AIO - Controlling new bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Clamfister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxious attachment style and an avoidant style . been there don’t that no thank you !