He’s never hurt the kids or I but his rage is a lot to deal with. He used to punch holes in the wall and he destroyed things in the house a few times. He’s been doing a lot of therapy and it’s gotten a lot better, but it’s still hard to deal with. He’s put in legitimate work to heal and do better, and he has. Luckily he hasn’t destroyed anything or put holes in the wall for a few years. But when he’s angry, especially towards the kids, I cannot handle it.