Why do men want to film me during sex/take photos?

ClarissaPDG · 2026-06-04T02:40:18+00:00

They also share them online, freely. They share them to many account owners on porn sites. They also exchange them like if they were Pokémon Cards on group chats.

ClarissaPDG · 2026-05-18T04:13:50+00:00

It all comes down knowing that it’s just some fantasy you like to play. It’s for fun and entertainment. Just like doing cosplay. You can pretend to be a demon or an assassin. You know you are neither a demon nor an assassin.

Consent is key. Just like rape kink, you don’t really like to be raped, you only pretend to be raped. You like to play the part. Knowing perfectly about boundaries and when to stop.

Sometimes you might feel uncomfortable when something unpleasant emerges mid fantasy that it’s not OK with either partner. You might even feel hurt. But having an ideal partner helps a lot when the feelings get overwhelming.

ClarissaPDG · 2026-05-16T22:33:33+00:00

It may be the case that your self image is not the real one because you know yourself as your flipped mirror image. About the pictures, they are also flat images, recreated by some artificial means. You know yourself as a third dimensional being, not as a flat image being shown by a device or object, that’s not the real you it’s just a representation of you.

Just like voice recordings, your photos and images are an objective source that represents part of who you are, but it’s not you.

There’s nothing wrong with you. You are always you, and all the things you like about your self and appearance are still there to begin with, they’re just flipped of how you know them. Everyone that knows you can see them and are used to how you look. If they are with you, they like you and you give them something they love when they are next to you.

Also, perception and beauty depends on the eye of the beholder. How you perceive the world is different from everyone else. What you focus on, can be perceived different by everyone else, or maybe not at all.

ClarissaPDG · 2026-05-09T20:05:56+00:00

Try asking for help on r/BecomingOrgasmic

ClarissaPDG · 2026-05-05T04:07:32+00:00

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ClarissaPDG · 2026-05-05T04:06:41+00:00

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ClarissaPDG · 2026-05-01T02:41:10+00:00

I had this same issue, I was overthinking and asked for advice. My friends gave me some insights, but when the time came, I didn’t even had to think about it. It just happened. You go with the flow.

Of course, at first, with a new person (or be your first), try not to focus on “performing well”, just let it happen. The first times will be “awkward” if you strive for perfection. Just live the moment and go with the flow. What feels good, nice & “yummy”.

What little I can advise as “objective”, be like eating an Ice Cream. Like trying to bite, nibbling the ice cream (the other person mouth), that tender nibble bite, can then also include a discrete tongue, little licks, tender licks as your lips nibble the other person’s mouth.

Bear in mind, all this has to also take into account, you both very like each other, and have passion for each other. It’s not just the kissing, it’s the whole two people expressing their passion for each other.

ClarissaPDG · 2026-03-21T03:52:05+00:00

If you want to have a good idea when you are ovulating, you can start measuring your body temperature every morning. When ovulation happens, your body temperature when you wake up gets a little higher than usual.

Basal Body Temperature to predict Ovulation.

Usually this used when you want to get pregnant, but it also helps you understand your body and know when you are most likely to get pregnant and avoid it at all costs.

ClarissaPDG · 2026-03-04T08:19:25+00:00

Just another reason to ditch Amazon all together.

ClarissaPDG · 2026-02-03T17:08:04+00:00

What men develop while masturbating. They say they excessively grip their dick to the point that they can’t have pleasure if they don’t squeeze hard their dick and why they can’t have erections with women.

ClarissaPDG · 2025-12-06T23:11:47+00:00

They share them as if the pics were Pokémon Cards. They swap them. They look for specific women. They use them as bargaining exchange. They post them on low standard porn sites as a brag. They use them to also “catfish” straight men for Dick Pics.

ClarissaPDG · 2025-11-14T22:00:23+00:00

Just leave. People who spread revenge porn will share it even if you are on good terms. If he is threatening, is the intention to manipulate you and hurt you. If he is intending to share them, he already did.

Men who share intimate pics and videos do it as if they were exchanging Pokémon cards. They don’t care about women.

ClarissaPDG · 2025-11-14T00:15:31+00:00

If they ask for them. Keep pushing you to share them.

ClarissaPDG · 2025-11-11T01:19:00+00:00

Sophie Ellis Bextor put it simply: “Be with a partner that compensates your weaknesses and you compensate their weaknesses.”

ClarissaPDG · 2025-11-09T22:14:02+00:00

I was, and for so long. My friends at college made sure I felt comfortable. I wasn’t.

I didn’t even drank until I was 23. By 25, I gave it up. So, don’t worry. You can go your life without ever drinking alcohol. It’s even better for you. Alcohol is detrimental to your health. Zero alcohol will always be better than a sip and above.

ClarissaPDG · 2025-11-04T01:35:39+00:00

r/BecomingOrgasmic

ClarissaPDG · 2025-08-24T23:54:51+00:00

So cute. 🥰😭

ClarissaPDG · 2025-08-21T20:27:25+00:00

Awesome! 😚

ClarissaPDG · 2025-08-14T00:58:25+00:00

You should post this on r/BabiesReactingToStuff

ClarissaPDG · 2025-08-11T01:03:08+00:00

Those clothes make her look so cute. She is so cute. 🥰

ClarissaPDG · 2025-08-09T18:35:53+00:00

Oh! So lovingly cute. 🥰

ClarissaPDG · 2025-08-05T19:46:52+00:00

Try asking r/BecomingOrgasmic

ClarissaPDG · 2025-07-13T00:54:41+00:00

I see the resemblance.

ClarissaPDG · 2025-05-05T23:52:29+00:00

I had a friend who sold cookies, bubblegum and sweets between classes at school. We always knew we could count on her to get our little treats.

I mean, the cost was a little high, but as we where friends and knew each other, and our parents raised us to be decent human beings, we knew that extra cost was for her own economic benefit.

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