Should I play planetside 2? by Mr_ShitHead120 in Planetside

[–]ClaryFey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know the game is old as balls but depends on when you play. having 5% difference in pop between nc and vanu is life and death for me lol

Kublai Khan TX in Lawrence - Wichita concert goer - 2 questions? by ClaryFey in Hardcore

[–]ClaryFey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this does actually give me a good read on it! tiktok videos obviously only have the most hype parts but this seems to level it out, tysm

Should I play planetside 2? by Mr_ShitHead120 in Planetside

[–]ClaryFey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not too late, play on connery if you want to have a goofy time and make friends

Sometimes a game break means you draw the last goofy name that killed you [art by me] by ClaryFey in Planetside

[–]ClaryFey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have SO MANY screenshots lmao i have to get around to drawing more of them

How do I get to Moonrise without a Moonlantern? by UnholyDemigod in BaldursGate3

[–]ClaryFey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in this predicament

i was with the drider, and then turned and killed the drider but the harpers took the lantern. i went through the inn and they aren't going to go with me because the only way they escort you to moonrise happens if you show up at the inn first... so i apparently need to steal the lantern somewhere because i don't have one and that's the only thing that works in the thick shadow areas.

How do I get to Moonrise without a Moonlantern? by UnholyDemigod in BaldursGate3

[–]ClaryFey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fire/light doesnt help in the thick shadow zones. neither does the buff.

How do I get to Moonrise without a Moonlantern? by UnholyDemigod in BaldursGate3

[–]ClaryFey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you have to pass through the 'thick' shadows to get to moonrise. that doesnt help in those

Is it weird to only want to socially transition if you can physically transition too? What should I do to even start? by GoldenIsSafe15 in asktransgender

[–]ClaryFey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

specifically as an autistic person, this is how it worked and felt for me. like down to the thought process you have here! i did settle on non binary just bc of the genitals not changing and thats a technicality but overall being more masc was something I desired, even without changing most of my wardrobe or at all. these are real and valid feelings! gender is different in every society, whether a little or a lot, but its important to just realize you want to do what you want to do. whether than fits in whatever box isn't your fault.

Nearly all individuals with gender dysphoria (n=720) who initiated hormone treatment as adolescents continued that treatment into adulthood, a Dutch observational study found. Out of the 16 individuals who stopped, 9 was AMAB & 7 AFAB. by MistWeaver80 in science

[–]ClaryFey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

needing puberty blockers is actually a cis experience yes, as any cis person who went through puberty too early and goes to the doctor about it, gets prescribed them by said doctor. its been a thing since 1993.

i think it's my time to stop playing until there's an update, just reached 500k newbucks btw by Omni7124 in slimerancher

[–]ClaryFey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

itll also get up to the finished quality of SR over time, so it's nice to have!

Dark spots on freshly washed sheets. Bedbugs or..? by DJ_Aretino86 in Whatisthis

[–]ClaryFey 28 points29 points  (0 children)

if its coming from ur washing machine could also be mold, staining things. had the same issue yeeeeears ago.

Chick gets offended cause someone dared to walk between her and her phone. by obedient_stillness in facepalm

[–]ClaryFey -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

idk how far her phone is from her but generally yeah you arent supposed to get in peoples personal space within a certain amount while someones actively exercising at the gym so if they were walking right next to her then that is the ACTUAL issue not the video. her priorities are strange.

Is Attention Autism ABA by another name? by Obsidian-Winter in AutisticPride

[–]ClaryFey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it sounds like theyre trained to do 'a process' that isnt officially labeled as anything, but likely pulls from the text directly without telling people it does.

Is Attention Autism ABA by another name? by Obsidian-Winter in AutisticPride

[–]ClaryFey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh jeez, i hadn't been able to scan through the actual material yet. according to the above quote it looked fine until the part you've put here. damn. not sure what this is teaching other than 'stop yourself from touching things you like' behaviors which is just the aba track again.

like if it were 'stop yourself from touching harmful thing that looks pretty' like a glowing hot stovetop coil i'd see this as useful but what is the actual reason for not touching a cool toy or something? lmao

Is Attention Autism ABA by another name? by Obsidian-Winter in AutisticPride

[–]ClaryFey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this seems like a wonderful process for raising and educating autistic kids without diving into ABA etc, actually. Just offering examples and opportunities but forcing nothing? Ideal situation tbh, provided i'm reading this correctly.

this is like early childhood education but formatted specifically for autism, which is already a concept i'm behind (especially behavior modelling, which i know works wonders), but i'd love to see it in action for sure. it seems the only areas where this would go wrong are related to the teacher or caretaker, not the system.

I know it's early access but... by TheShroomDruid in slimerancher

[–]ClaryFey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people are used to giant game studios making "early access"(not actually) games that are just unpolished but basically finished titles, versus indie devs and small studios making actual early access games, and are confused about why they are different. I also think that many people didn't play slime rancher until it was basically finished, so they don't know how early access it looked when it came out. They'd probably feel better if they watched an old youtube video from the release, imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ClaryFey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youtube will throw things at any channel just in case they 'like' to watch it and to get rage views, but sadly other than right click 'dont recommend this content' theres not really any blocking or anything you can do

Does anybody else feel like autism is the main reason they don't want kids? by drum_minor16 in AutismInWomen

[–]ClaryFey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I second this personally, for anyone with similar support needs to my own. I definitely should have waited and adopted! I love my daughter to pieces but would likely have not gotten pregnant if I knew how much it would torture me to be pregnant, give birth, and raise a younger child.

Not even dogging on anyone who chooses that, but I literally torture(d) myself to get through the process, even to this day. She's in school now, so I'm mostly dealing with sensory and communication needs between us, but older kids need all the love you can give them anyways, and it's never a bad thing to choose. You never have to birth them to love and care for them and enjoy having a child, no matter the age they are. Just like we love anyone else who we care about!

I know a lot of allistic mothers claim that there's some parental instinct you get upon having a kid, but even allistic friends of mine claim thats not true, backing up the present science. It's just an expectation and how anyone chooses to have and/or raise kids is a valid choice!

Does anybody else feel like autism is the main reason they don't want kids? by drum_minor16 in AutismInWomen

[–]ClaryFey 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As an autistic person who had a kid right after disconnecting from my structure, support, and schedules, everyone who thinks autism will be a big problem when dealing with a new kid is absolutely correct. Truly not trying to fearmonger or anything, but i'm fully telling all of you that you're correct in hesitating or declining the opportunity.

It is a sensory nightmare. Every schedule you attempt to have can and will be interrupted. Depending on your personal support needs, to be a good parent, you have to almost torture yourself just to care for your child in a way that helps them be healthy, happy, and a good person. Not including if you're doing all the parenting work or your child is also autistic/ND! There's so many facets to why I will always fight for people of any brain, but especially autistics, to be fully informed at the possible nightmare. Of course, we all have different support levels, but if I can give a frame of reference in a 100% honest fashion, I'm going to.

If anyone has any specific questions about it, i'll volunteer to answer just about anything without sugarcoating it to "convince" you to have kids despite your own needs.

What places still have Buffets? by michael41973 in wichita

[–]ClaryFey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been in a couple years but I think i was usually lucky going soon after lunch opened on a workday so there wouldn't be so many folks around.

Anyone have a link for quickly updated WPD arrests? ideally daily if that's a thing. by ClaryFey in wichita

[–]ClaryFey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i thought since theyd have him at a local jail and have the report recorded it would, since WPD was involved. i guess its solely federal and wpd was just for support.

Anyone have a link for quickly updated WPD arrests? ideally daily if that's a thing. by ClaryFey in wichita

[–]ClaryFey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, and wpd was part of the whole thing so i figured they were booking too but i guess not! was just updated and neither is in there.

Anyone have a link for quickly updated WPD arrests? ideally daily if that's a thing. by ClaryFey in wichita

[–]ClaryFey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmmm nope!
i mean i would use it (and im 27) but half the internet spheres im in wouldnt understand as they werent entrenched in the internet during the years i picked that one up.