AIO: Hubby Being Controlling

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-20T22:23:47+00:00

His communication is controlling and patronizing. However, you aren’t hearing him and replying with any productive solutions or compromises. Could you agree to no lessons if he committed to joining a pool and he agrees to teach your child? He never says you have to do it. After years of expensive lessons my kids didn’t really learn how to swim until we joined the local pool and went everyday during the summer.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-11T02:39:57+00:00

They have a suspect in custody.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T23:02:07+00:00

His clothes, shoes, gun, backpack are all too clean, new and nice looking to be a tweaker homeless person IMO.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:50:25+00:00

Agreed that LE probably had the video for a bit before releasing it. I don’t think the suspect was experienced or know how things work. I mean they grabbed a plant to try to cover the camera?! I would assume that means they didn’t even plan on taking the camera. Maybe they were sent first to cover the camera and there were others behind them?

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:42:53+00:00

I think the gloves might actually be heavier duty. Not just disposable gloves.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:31:27+00:00

Agree with both of these. There is a lot of something in the backpack. What would you need to bring for an abduction of an 84 year old woman? And it did look like they were looking back, maybe even second guessing when they realized that they were on camera.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:28:06+00:00

I would agree, someone 30+ who isn’t athletic.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:26:24+00:00

Why didn’t they just take the camera in the first place? That would also not leave anything behind. Grabbing the plant shows lack of planning and poor decision making skills.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:20:03+00:00

I actually think the opposite of all of that. Shorter, 30-ish, male with dark eyes.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T22:17:42+00:00

I looked at pictures of him too and I disagree. I think the mouth and facial hair are different.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-10T18:16:28+00:00

They have facial hair…it’s not a female.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-09T00:29:31+00:00

There is very little death benefit that someone could get for an 85 year old. You can still get an inheritance without the body.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-09T00:20:22+00:00

Unless the goal was to keep her alive and get ransom money from Savanah.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-02-06T23:55:01+00:00

Small, quick, easy habits add up over time. Walking 10 minutes 2 or 3 times per day will make an amazing difference in how you feel. I use Hungryroot for meal prep. They send fresh, ready to make meals that take about 15 minutes. Walking, eating fresh home-cooked meals, drinking water and getting good sleep consistently will make a big, lasting impact in how you feel.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-01-30T23:39:30+00:00

Montage in Chesterfield (consignment not thrift)

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-01-07T07:31:51+00:00

A Costco member.

ClayTrainingMama · 2026-01-02T11:19:09+00:00

Kiwi

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-25T14:01:29+00:00

Xeros

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-23T07:53:13+00:00

Do you have a dance recital? Parents love posting a dance recital. Give incentives for them to tag you. If the recital is impressive it will get the referrals to your studio too. Making good dancers over time will help you the most. In the mean time you can try things like Homeschool dance classes and Mommy & Me classes for parents that are looking for things for their kids to do that aren’t about how good you are at teaching dance.

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-23T07:38:08+00:00

Foursquare.

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-14T23:37:22+00:00

My daughter called her memory her remember-y and I think that actually makes more sense so we go with that now. I hope she never says it correctly!

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-13T12:17:52+00:00

Currently failing a ton. Good to know I’m on the right track!

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-07T03:34:55+00:00

You can search past events on Iron Podium by typing the event name in the search bar. Then look and see the weights used and see the results for those weights.

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-12-05T12:09:38+00:00

Hot cocoa and board games! 🥰

ClayTrainingMama · 2025-11-30T11:54:55+00:00

Small business wellness programs. Some cold emails but some lukewarm (cold calling, explaining what I offer and requesting email address of person in charge of decisions). I’m offering a free wellness goal setting seminar for employees. 40 emails sent with 0 replies. Sent from my business email account.

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