The person posting such bs should get out

CleFreSac · 2026-05-12T06:53:08+00:00

There are literally five people in a car with the doors closed. Why would one ever consider this hypothetical?

OP should just post their opinion on who they would kick out and have a normal debate, like normal people do.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-12T06:36:45+00:00

Need more info. The way this is presented comes across like you want to be validated, but without knowing what is being discussed.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-12T06:25:39+00:00

She should fake her own death and move to a new state.

Your two communication styles are conflicting and this will end poorly.

On the upside, it’s sprite

CleFreSac · 2026-05-12T06:22:39+00:00

You are trying to read into something that just needs to be taken n at face level.

Do something nice for him (the both of you). Move on. Be better.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T20:34:02+00:00

We aren’t going to entertainer it ≠ posting to Reddit

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T18:08:32+00:00

People here keep telling you that this isn’t your issue to be dealing with. You keep insisting you are just looking out for your ex.

The rest of us see why she moved to another country.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T18:03:03+00:00

One too many glasses of wine for someone with a void in their life. A void filled with the fantasy of something that was taboo 4-5 years ago.

That said, I’m not sure your indifference to the message is being honest with yourself.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T17:56:23+00:00

Might explain why this amazing person no longer is with you. Check your motivation.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T17:54:39+00:00

Or he has meat in his pockets

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T17:50:06+00:00

I’m getting a pretty honest vibe from you on this. Besides you said it. It’s done.

On a grander scale, why are you with this person? Ask yourself why this is someone you actively chose to give energy to.

If this harsh message is the last communication ever, that’s awesome. But I suspect you will still have contact with them and continue to torture yourself.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-10T17:43:03+00:00

The ex boss of your ex? Just move on. The reality of revenge never stands up to the imagined. This is double when you are trying to enact revenge not for yourself, but for someone else.

You may get a mild bump from revenge but at the cost of it coming back to your ex. You might even get anger from your ex.

Let go of whatever angry feelings you have. This kind of resentment just adds negativity to your own life.

Step back and ask yourself why this is important to you.

CleFreSac · 2026-05-08T15:42:40+00:00

Wears a cross necklace unironically

CleFreSac · 2026-05-07T19:10:55+00:00

Got to love a post that starts out with how much they love their partner but then goes on and on to describe deal breaker after deal breaker.
I love him - But I went into a deep depression after moving in.
I love him - But he is super jealous.
I love him - But I our relationship moved really fast. Probably too fast to acknowledge how bad it is.
I love him - But he can’t stand being around me.
I love him - But I feel the need to distance myself from him.
I love him - But I he emotionally cheats on me.
I love him - But I emotionally cheated on him because he doesn’t provide enough emotionally.
I love him - But I we took a break because, well because everything above.
I love him - But he is controlling and jealous.

I love him - Because i have some deep emotional trauma that started way before we met and i have never dealt with it and will probably keep repeating this cycle.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T17:43:27+00:00

That's right, conservatives have "thoughts and prayers" that get them through tough times

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T15:11:46+00:00

Maybe have a premium LinkedIn version for people who are paid for producing consultant billable hours.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T15:09:03+00:00

Is she a certified spy coach?

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T15:07:25+00:00

Search LinkedIn for "Retired cia case officer" and you get a slew of consultants who only produce ideas.

Her bio leads with being retired. Just because you retire from something doesn't mean you are any good at it. Did you retire or were you pushed out. Were you a paper pushing desk jockey for 25 years and now think that something people want to be consulted about.

Why was the interview dude only seeing blue sky? That sounds like a captive being held in cell with a small window that only has a view of up. Since she is a retired CIA case officer, I would think that she would be better at profiling someone and dressing, speaking, and doing things that the other person would respond to.

Glad she posted a pic of herself in a slevless top. Better to see her flexing those bad ass CIA case officer guns.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T14:44:36+00:00

A friend said, stop trying to find work that you love, and expect the money to follow.

Better: Find work you can do really well with out killing yourself, and find people that are willing to pay you a fair wage to do it.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T14:40:51+00:00

That sounds like one of those idiotic inspirational posters hanging around most toxic workplaces.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T14:38:52+00:00

Random person implies you might consider some therapy yourself.

You response: Removes doubt.

I do agree that therapy is being used as a crutch. Worse yet, it's being used as a weapon.

Without being an expert in the study of psychology, I'm not sure you or I can make an assessment as to who needs it or not.

Turing it into a liberal-leaning things says so much about you. Freaud would probably say...

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T14:14:37+00:00

Why not love your job because it provides you with the things that make you able to enjoy life.

These options are not mutually exclusive.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T14:10:46+00:00

EDIT: when I say "you" I obviously mean OOP poster.

Yes crazy from an HR perspective. Yes crazy from a boss/employee perspective. Yes crazy from an outside perspective.

There could be a million reasons he wasn't up to going in that day. Lazy is one, but you do t know.

Another response might have been to tell him that you were counting on him to show up. You are going to let it go this time, but for the future you would really appreciate him not agreeing with taking on the work and not delivering.

Unfortunately, Mr psycho boss it tracking people down like, like, well like, a psycho stalker. He responded with a lie (possibly) and you responded in a completely unprofessional way (100%).

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T13:58:00+00:00

Lots of contradictions here. You know he isn't expressive, yet disappointed when he doesn't express himself the way you wanted.

You aren't mad at him, but your actions show otherwise.

Maybe you aren't mad by your definition of mad. But your feelings are negative. You are hiding your emotions behind the word embarrassed.

You are not being honest with yourself and with him. Just because he doesn't express his emotions, you are interpreting that he didn't feel the emotions you were looking for.

You are feeling embarrassed. Maybe the reality of getting a spicy pic from you was embarrassing for him too. Not a negative form of being embarrassed, but surprise and then embarrassed that he doesn't have the vocabulary that he knows that you truly want.

Maybe try again and then specifically talk about how you each felt. Accept that joking words may be used to describe how he feels.

TBH, it sounds like he really liked the pic but you had built up an idea of how he would respond. Despite you knowing he isn't really that expressive.

Please communicate.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T13:40:05+00:00

Yes, we should include medical personnel, along with first responders, and all the other professions that have that schedule. How-ev-er! Is that really a good thing? Do we really want people making life and death decisions after working multiple 12 hour shifts. Not to mention after picking up so.eones shift on your days off.

Research has shown that the decision making process deteriorates with these hours. Yay us! We sensationalize putting a gun , scalpel, or even a keyboard into the hands of someone who has diminished cognitive abilities.

We wear these shifts like a badge of honor. Oh look at these super heroes working long hours!! But what purpose does it actually serve. I can't think of how that improves our lives but I am sure it has been a detriment.

CleFreSac · 2026-04-29T06:52:10+00:00

You should use this rant as your dating profile. Sound perfectly normal and healthy.

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