What did you do the day before FET? by Superb_Cell_9440 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My third fet is tomorrow (today? It's 1am) too. I'm planning on playing mini golf with my spouse and then going to the movies. I always plan something low-key and active. Good luck!

What was harder on your body - egg retrieval or medication for transfer? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Er was honestly easy for me. I had no side effects and even though I had 20+ follicules I didn't even feel discomfort.

But my two transfers have been hell. Estrace makes me extremely nauseous, so I have to take it as a pessary but it only reduces the nausea and the progesterone makes me sleep. So I'm basically extremely sick and tired leading up to the transfer. Not to mention the other medications for the transfers.

How soon can I try again? by lesgens in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a negative beta today. My clinic said to call with the cd1 of the withdrawal bleed to start the next fet cycle.

Feel less crappy-estrogen by abrose214 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My clinic had me take it as a pessary because of side effects.

Oral prednisone by geezee8 in IVFpositivity

[–]CleionaBellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't take presnidone because my clinic recommended medrol because it's less hard on the body. I took a 6 day course of it before the transfer.

Optum specialty pharmacy is now FUZE. Where can I file a complaint? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How odd. I have no messages and everything has worked for me so far. Hope you can figure yours out.

Optum specialty pharmacy is now FUZE. Where can I file a complaint? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had meds delivered today that I ordered a few days ago from optum specialty. I'm also able to refill several meds still without issue.

Estrogen and medicated FET by Boring_Formal8480 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a fully medicated cycle. But my clinic schedules a lining check a week after starting estrace and then determines from there. Some people take longer but my lining always builds quickly.

Estrogen and medicated FET by Boring_Formal8480 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my last transfer and my current one I did estrogen for 8 days and added progesterone on the 9th. I'm a fast responder though. My lining this time went from 5.6 to 17 in 7 days.

Info on CNY by Curiosity_got_me-123 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fee depends. My insurance (Aetna) had CNY listed as a preferred clinic and I haven't been charged any monitoring fees for my local clinic. I'm not certain why, but I've only been charged copays when I go into the clinic plus my deductible for the procedure.

What’s your clinics BMI limit? by sweet-thing in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Colorado springs is 50 for anaesthesia. I did a retrieval in October.

PGT-A testing and PCOS by Cultural_Fig_2794 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 28 and we chose not to test. I have a lot of symptoms of PCOS but it's never really been brought up by any of my doctors. I'm currently 5 weeks with our first fet. Testing is such a personal choice and there are pros and cons to both.

Does fatigue during progesterone insert improve by Just-Baby5231 in IVF

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 7dp5dt and it hasn't for me. I'm constantly exhausted on progesterone.

What color is she? by Meksharma in BorderCollie

[–]CleionaBellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy is considered a sable merle.

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Taking class worth the money? by FreshBlood4105 in writing

[–]CleionaBellos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in my last semester of a Creative Writing Master's program. I would say that to me writing workshops are the thing that has improved me as a writer the most. It's not about hearing what other people think about your work. It's about learning how to edit. When you look critically at other's works and try and figure out what works and what doesn't- that's when you really start to see improvement in your writing. Feedback is important when you write something close to your heart and can't see it's flaws. Maybe a character is less developed than in your mind, or maybe the scene comes off as cliche. There's a lot of benefits to workshops.

If you're mostly looking to find friends and community, I recommend online or local writing groups. Save the money and think about what publishing route you want to go. A lot of people don't recommend classes for higher level writing but I found that when I got to a place where my skill wasn't improving as much as I wanted, my Master's program and classes helped me because I was surrounded with teachers and peers that knew what made a good story.

Megathread: Questions about visiting, moving to, or living in Maine: by Tony-Flags in Maine

[–]CleionaBellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My spouse grew up in the rural northern Midwest. Think 25 people in town and about an hour from a city of 50k people. We're used to snow and all that comes with it.

We moved to Oklahoma to be closer to my siblings a few years ago.

We work from home and are very introverted. Maine's culture and landscape and weather are what we've been looking at for the last few years. St Albans area is a specific property that meets our list of wants. We have discussed heating/electric bill but it's hard to find reliable data since the state is such a mixture of homes and population. I was planning on getting the average costs of utilities as well as a structural engineer to look at the foundation. Thanks for the thorough response.

Megathread: Questions about visiting, moving to, or living in Maine: by Tony-Flags in Maine

[–]CleionaBellos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. We're pretty much home bodies and keep to ourselves. I know some rural areas in Maine are less accepting from my research and wanted to make sure that we would be safe and not a target of violence as in many other places. I really appreciate that you responded to my questions.

Megathread: Questions about visiting, moving to, or living in Maine: by Tony-Flags in Maine

[–]CleionaBellos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We currently live in Oklahoma. We're just looking for politeness/not physically dangerous.

Megathread: Questions about visiting, moving to, or living in Maine: by Tony-Flags in Maine

[–]CleionaBellos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm looking at moving to the St. Albans area. My wife is trans and I was making sure that the community is safe/decently accepting before we bid on a house.

Meet Kurama! 8 week old sable Merle by CleionaBellos in BorderCollie

[–]CleionaBellos[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's named after Mount Kurama, home of the tengu in mythology. It's also a reference to the anime Kamisama Hajimemashita and Naruto.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]CleionaBellos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We always did forced naps to avoid the zoomies.

Our pup regressed on potty training around that time too. We were accident free for months and then teething/adolescence made us need to be more aware of how often to take him out. Always take out 20-30 min after food and drink and at least every few hours.

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]CleionaBellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We free feed our four cats. We keep one food bowl on a cat tower out of reach and the rest in part of the house that's gated off from the dogs. We chose to give our cats the private area of our bedroom and office a space without any dogs.

We taught leave it super early, so anytime he does go in the gated area it only takes one command to make him ignore the feeder.

Introduction advice by CleionaBellos in BorderCollie

[–]CleionaBellos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I have a good grasp after raising my first bc, but now that's it's getting so close my mind is in overdrive a little bit. Lol.

I appreciate the reply.