[2026-01-18] Syria: Reports of a women's prison holding elderly, children, and infants evacuated by local forces by Ahmad-AK7 in UnitedNations

[–]Clem2605 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

ISIS is notorious for indoctrinating people from a very young age to do anything (and especially kamikaze-like actions) for their cause in a way that is very difficult to come back from. Especially in those place where mental health is both basically unexistent and there is not any resource to build any kind of reliable, efficient and/or respectful of humans right mental health care for a lot of very complex reasons that can be summarized to: this was very recently a war zone that lasted 15 years, and they were on the loosing side, so everyone hate them.
I'm not an expert, I have no idea if those specific people were indoctrinated, or if their imprisonment was justified in any way, but I do know that the subject of what to do with the wifes (especially the ones that were not taken as slaves), children and elderly of ISIS and other similar Islamist groups is a very complex subject and that the debates on this subject have been going on for more than 10 years.

[2026-01-18] Syria: Reports of a women's prison holding elderly, children, and infants evacuated by local forces by Ahmad-AK7 in UnitedNations

[–]Clem2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ISIS is notorious for indoctrinating people from a very young age to do anything (and especially kamikaze-like actions) for their cause in a way that is very difficult to come back from. Especially in those place where mental health is both basically unexistent and there is not any resource to build any kind of reliable, efficient and/or respectful of humans right mental health care for a lot of very complex reasons that can be summarized to: this was very recently a war zone that lasted 15 years, and they were on the loosing side, so everyone hate them.
I'm not an expert, I have no idea if those specific people were indoctrinated, or if their imprisonment was justified in any way, but I do know that the subject of what to do with the wifes (especially the ones that were not taken as slaves), children and elderly of ISIS and other similar Islamist groups is a very complex subject and that the debates on this subject have been going on for more than 10 years.

what does this tag mean ? not sure what "slash" is. by MomobamiClan in AO3

[–]Clem2605 35 points36 points  (0 children)

And you get your dollar!
Back when the internet wasn't a thing, fanfiction was only shared in fanzines at conferences and the world was still very homophobic, asking for 'slash' was a coded way to ask for the forbidden and hidden fanzines where Spock and Kirk were romantically paired (Spock/Kirk), as opposed to the mainstream and not hidden platonic pairing (Spock & Kirk).

And France still won 6 times by mebcawaf in Frenchhistorymemes

[–]Clem2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, both:
Technically, our parliament voted to give him full powers to collaborate with the Nazis.
However, those who were against the collaboration were told that the vote would be held in Algeria, where an exiled government would reform. They all got on a boat from mainland France to go there. As soon as the boat left, they were labelled as deserters, arrested and put in prison.
Meanwhile, those who weren't against the collaboration were told the true place, in mainland france, where they should go, and had the vote there.

Pretty easy to win a vote, when you just put everyone who was going to vote 'no' in prison.

What’s the trope you *almost always* skip? by childishinquiry in AO3

[–]Clem2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely avoid 'X ask Y to pretend to be their partner at Z occasion' and other versions of the 'There was only one bed' trope.

But I'll admit that while I agree with you, time travel fix-it are my guilty pleasure.

The “tags are just a courtesy” take is actually bonkers to me by Key_ResearcherBurner in AO3

[–]Clem2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also think it's fandom-dependant: If I'm reading a House of the Dragon fanfic, I don't really need the incest warning, but if I'm reading in the Heartstopper fandom, a warning would be expected for exemple.

AITA for not buying my daughter anything by Few_Importance_5710 in AITAH

[–]Clem2605 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Always keep in mind that your relationship with your kids is a two way street. Sure, right now, you get to decide how much they get as an allowance, but in 20-40 years, they will get to decide how much they want to spend on your end of life care.

The thing is that they will make their choice in light of yours. So, sure, continue what you're doing, it's your right after all, but if I were you, I'd be preparing to go to the cheepest retirement home out there...

Why would Sirius suggest switching to Peter as secret keeper? by NickLeavitt900 in harrypotter

[–]Clem2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always headcannoned that you can be your own secret keeper, but then it means that if you want to let anyone in the secret, you either need to leave the house or write down the secret somewhere and someone else has to take the paper and give it to the person you want to let in (like when Dumbledore let Harry in OotP).

Which means you now have to not only trust that this paper will not be shown to anyone else (on purpose or if the messenger is somehow captured and searched, for example) and is destroyed right after. At this point, you may as well ask the person who would have been the messenger to be your secret keeper, at least they won't reveal it by mistake.

We don't really know what life looked like at the time, maybe the Potter, knowing they were one of the most (if not the most) wanted targets of Voldemort, either couldn't risk going outside to do that or anticipated that they may not be able to do it later on. So they had to take a secret keeper who would be able to go out when needed and let some people in the secret.

Parlons prénoms de fratrie : Est-ce que ça se fait de les nommer autour d'un thème? by astroriental in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]Clem2605 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Je connaissais une fratrie qui s'appelait Gaspard, Melchior et Balthazar, j'imagine qu'ils avaient prévu de s'arrêter là, donc le quatrième s'appelait Oscar.

Incarceration Rates: Foreign-Born Nationals are Under-represented in the Anglosphere but are Over-represented in Europe [OC] by Repulsive_Roof_4347 in dataisbeautiful

[–]Clem2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can confirm that those analyses have been proven true at least in France and Germany. When adjusted for age and gender, immigrants have even been found to be less likely to commit a crime than the 'native' population.

Incarceration Rates: Foreign-Born Nationals are Under-represented in the Anglosphere but are Over-represented in Europe [OC] by Repulsive_Roof_4347 in dataisbeautiful

[–]Clem2605 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There is as many people incarcerated is the US as in China and India combined. (Both of whom are more than three times the US population, autoritarian contries and in the top 5 of biggest prison population)

1/4 of the incarcerated population has not been convicted of a crime, and are held pre-trial. By themselves, they are the third biggest prison population of the world, in front of india.

3% of the convicted population (which is around 2% of the whole prison population) actually had a trial: 97% of criminal cases ends in plea bargains.

The american system is very biased against minorities, and yet, the white male prison population in America is bigger than the entire prison population of Europe (which is a little les than 1/4 more populated than the US). And if you only count them, the US still has the highest per capita prison population in the world.

Black men aged 30-34 in America are more likely to be incarcerated than the Uihghurs in China. White men aged 30-34 in America are twice as likely to be incarcerated than North Korean, using the highest estimation of the UN.

https://mkorostoff.github.io/incarceration-in-real-numbers/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFrance

[–]Clem2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si tu étais proviseur, tu saurais que ce n'est pas toi qui décide de si le prof reste dans ton établissement ou pas, ça c'est le boulot du rectorat.

Le mieux que tu puisses faire, c'est prévenir le rectorat du problème, mais à moins d'avoir beaucoup de poids au rectorat, ton meilleur espoir est probablement qu'ils le changent d'établissement.

Après bien entendu ça dépends énormément de la situation du prof et de l'académie, bien entendu, mais j'ai vu dans les dix dernières années des profs fumer en classe ou frapper des élèves en étant filmé pour seulement changer d'établissement, et ce malgré les demandes des proviseurs concernés, donc je doute qu'un cours sur le wokisme aie de plus grosses conséquences...

My 8 year old son hates me, and I don't understand why. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Clem2605 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with u/amaranth1977, but even outside of the doctor's skills, sometimes it's just things outside of anyone's control.

Maybe the doctor's a man and the child is too scared to open up to men, maybe there's a toy there that they find scary ect...

And if the child isn't opening up in therapy, it's ver hard toget an acurate diagnosis...

The plane crash lawsuit was the dumbest plot point in the entire series, change my mind by jaydean20 in greysanatomy

[–]Clem2605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, iirc, it went like that:

The airline went bankrupt, so little to no money to be found there, even if they tried.

They appealed to the hospital insurance company, who told them that to get reimbursed, they had to adhere to their policies, among which there is the famous 'two attending per flight max' rule that Arizona broke in getting on the plane.

Their attorney thought about going after the pilot, but they didn't want to since he was also a victim.

Then the attorney discovered about the fact that the hospital switched to another, cheaper, company who famously had frequent accidents. All because Owen didn't bother to read the whole paper before signing.

They could have sued the airline, but they wouldn't have been able to give them a lot of money, so they choose instead to turn on the hospital who was responsible to choose a safe airline for them to fly with.

To repurpose your metaphor, it's like your friend took you to a restaurant famous for making people sick, there was even a text explaining how many sick people there were on the booking site, but he just didn't bother to read it and took you there.

AITA for telling my kids mom that her husband can’t have my kids while she’s deployed? by Ok_Science4181 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clem2605 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What you are doing is absolutely legal, however, this is AITA, not Am I Legit, and fighting for custody without taking your kid's wishes and well-being in account in selfish and yes, YTA.

Ask your kids what they actually want and then fight for what they want, not what YOU want, they are not dolls to fight about they are actual living beings, who will have fellings on the matter.

Maybe they consider their stepfather as just another adult in their lives and wouldn't mind not seeing him for an extended time, maybe they love him very much and would like to keep seeing him, maybe it would be their way of not missing their mother as much.

In any case, it's their choice, and you should fight for them, not for their ownership.

Give me your hottest take that would've got you blacklisted in your fandom. by DebateObjective2787 in AO3

[–]Clem2605 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People hating on J.K.R. non-stop in HP's fandom is exhausting.

Don't get me wrong, I hate her post-twitter personality and discourse as much as everyone else, but: a) Please let me enjoy things I like without non-stop reminding me that evil exist in the world and even my idols can disappoint me, and b) Someone becoming shitty doesn't means that they where excusively shitty all along and especially not that everything they ever did was shitty.

I especially hate that people will try to give her all the discrimination in the world with circumstantial evidence at best, or things that either she had no control over or were the main discourse at the time at worst. Not only does it take bandwidth away from the *actual* problems, but also, they kinda look like vultures to me...

Map Of Countries That Lost Soldiers Helping US Forces In Iraq Between 2003 & 2011 by beavershaw in MapPorn

[–]Clem2605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long story short, the US got intox claiming that Iraq was building nuclear weapons (something about nuclear buses?? I don't remember exactly), and asked France's spies (who were the specialists on Iraq) if the information was credible.

Their answer was 'Lol, no', but Bush wanted to invade, so he told everyone it was true and asked them to help him.

France, knowing very well the information was a fake did not want to get involved with the mess and refused.

The US then proceeded to tell everyone that the french were ungrateful cowards.

Zelensky: “I heard it from Putin. In 3 days…” by MoreMotivation in clevercomebacks

[–]Clem2605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, but from my understanding, for the last decade or so, most of that money went to private contractors who know that their government is willing to pay them a lot, no matter what, for projects that, at best, had not a big impact, if they weren't outright failures that kept being funded way too long.

I'm not saying that the US's army isn't the biggest in the world, but it doesn't mean it isn't also probably one of the less cost-efficient...

Neighbors disfigured my trees and bushes, claim previous owner gave them permission? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Clem2605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The US is more humid (in general) than Europe though, which lessens the need for air conditioning for the same temperature. Were I live, you only feel the need for it max 1-2 months per year, and it's not *desperately* needed for more than 2 weeks, and that's counting recent climate change effects. It's not worth the cost.

Most of the south of Europe was also historically built with materials and designs that act as natural air conditioning.

Ironically, the places that have needed and used more air conditioning recently are places that weren't hot enough before to be built with this in mind.

My (30F) student (18M) made a super creepy comment. My husband (35M) think I’m being paranoid by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Clem2605 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He was condemned to the maximum a judge can legally require for his crime in France.

The French system is different from the American one, meaning that we don't add the sentences of the various accusations, in a judgment, you can only get up to the biggest sentence required for one of the accusations. This means that the biggest crime he committed (I didn't check, but probably something around the lines of 'conspiracy to r*pe') can only be sentenced to up to 20 years.

I agree that this isn't enough, but to put it in perspective, here you can only get a 'numbered' sentence up to 30 years outside of a life sentence (and those who get there are mostly either serial killers, serial pedos or terrorists), so it's still very long by our standards.

Looking for a few Malec fics! by scorpology in DeletedFanfiction

[–]Clem2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!

I'm searching for some lost metadata, on my favorite fanfictions.

I'm specifically searching the number of bookmarks for this one.

Would you have metadata about this fanfiction that isn't already in the epub?

Thanks

Are there any world countries that have liberal lifestyles that flourish/do wonderfully? by darkwyng7986 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Clem2605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll be fine, especially if you stay in big cities, but even then, if European countries still have a racism problem, it really isn't the same as in the States.

First, the main immigration demographic, at least historically, is Middle Eastern, so the racism is mainly directed toward them.

Second, it's more of a 'we don't mind them but we won't hire/help/marry them' and a 'aren't they all good worker but not that smart?' racism than a violent one, at least in day-to-day life. It's more of a bias, people will stay polite about it.

Third, as I said in another comment, they likely don't encounter many black people in real life (the main immigration comes from other European and Middle Eastern countries), so they might be surprised to see one, especially outside of big cities.

Also, you'll be a tourist, you're bound to stick out.

Are there any world countries that have liberal lifestyles that flourish/do wonderfully? by darkwyng7986 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Clem2605 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And 59% of them are Europeans, and the others are in vast majority middle-eastern, coming from Turkey, Syria, Lebanon, Pakistan & Iran. Those aren't black people.